17 y/o ds urges - could get in trouble

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Dear Support Group

This is the first time I've posted an issue of this nature online. I need some advice:

I have a ds who is 17 1/2 and a senior in H.S. and he fights the urge everyday NOT to touch any female whether in his class or walking down the hall. He wants so much to feel their breasts, buttocks, or any part of their body which when touched, could wind him up being arrested for sexual assault. I fear everyday I might get a call from the school that the police were dispatched and he was taken to the local county jail. His father and I have expressed the seriousness of the urges and the consequences that would happen if he acted on them. I worry, although he says he understands, he chuckles when he says it I don't know if I should be going into this subject or not but here it goes... My son is a virgin...He is also a germaphobic He has been you know, masturbating for over a year now. He hates it! He thinks it is disgusting. but like we all know if your not having sex you need to release tension

someway. My ds would like to have sex but doesn't have a girlfriend. He came to his father and I and wants us to buy him a blow up doll to have sex with and a set of realistic breasts for him to "play" with. If we were to do this is this going too far and enabling him with a fanstasy or what? He is truly serious. I just don't know how to handle this one!! Any suggestions I'm all ears and eyes!!

..:~Anita W~:.