Re: Great concerns and stress

[Guest guest]

Oh gosh, how scary! What happened? I would have called the police, if he was trying to force his way into your house.

I hope he is on his way back to Missouri today.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Suzanne

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From: SISTER FIRE <baptism_by_fire_2000@...>Subject: ( ) Great concerns and stress Date: Monday, April 4, 2011, 9:37 PM

My middle daughter is always looking for love in all the wrong places. She is 17 and well this scary thing happened. She had been on line and texting this guy out of Missouri who is suppose to be 18 yrs old. She caught him "cheating" on Facebook and broke it off. I had found some very detailed messages between them and he sounded very violent in what he wanted to do to her. Well we thought it was over and I found out they were back together again.Here is the scary part. I got up this morning and couldn't find her. I finally found a text from her telling me she walked to school early. I am already thinking she must have went in early to meet up with someone. She is suppose to have after school tutoring and I had to go pick up her sister. When I got home it was almost 5 and the school tutoring is over at 4. I am trying to text her and no reply. I called one of her friends and she told me her phone was about to die. So I go

looking around the school and couldn't find her. I came home and called Wal-Mart as we live right behind it. As I am holding, she comes in. This guy was with her. Supposedly he moved here to be near her. He has no job, no car, nothing. She had known for a month he was suppose to be coming here. He supposedly has an apartment across town. His "grandpa" supposedly brought him over this morning and that is why she left for school so early.I have been freaking out over this....but after things semi-calmed down I went to bed. He showed up back over here with a couple and they were insisting we allow him to spend the night here saying he couldn't find where he lived. Tried to force themselves in here. My husband refused and at first our dtr was like if he can't stay then she was going to go with him. But then something strange happened. She said this supposed stranger that brought him over was the same man who brought him over this

morning claiming to be his grandpa...and his "grandpa" had supposedly went back to Missouri this morning. She decided that he was a big fat liar and says at this time it is over. My girls are scared and asleep in our bed. My husband who is blind and in end stage renal failure is pacing the hall to "protect us" as we feel this guy is a predetor/stalker. She also told us he has Asperger's

[Guest guest]

I would have called the police if I had been awake to do so. They had already left before our youngest dtr woke me up. I had to walk into school and hold her hand all the way into the library to her group of friends. I asked them to watch out for her. I also reported this to the school principals as he could easily slip in as a student. If he should show back up, we will report it to the police. He hasn't done anything yet to report. I do still have the one disturbing message between them. Because she is over 16 yrs old, she is at the age of consent in Kansas and they already said in the past she is in her right mind to make decisions even if they are bad ones.

From: SISTER FIRE <baptism_by_fire_2000@...>Subject: ( ) Great concerns and stress Date: Monday, April 4, 2011, 9:37 PM

My middle daughter is always looking for love in all the wrong places. She is 17 and well this scary thing happened. She had been on line and texting this guy out of Missouri who is suppose to be 18 yrs old. She caught him "cheating" on Facebook and broke it off. I had found some very detailed messages between them and he sounded very violent in what he wanted to do to her. Well we thought it was over and I found out they were back together again.Here is the scary part. I got up this morning and couldn't find her. I finally found a text from her telling me she walked to school early. I am already thinking she must have went in early to meet up with someone. She is suppose to have after school tutoring and I had to go pick up her sister. When I got home it was almost 5 and the school tutoring is over at 4. I am trying to text her and no reply. I called one of her friends and she told me her phone was about to die. So I go

looking around the school and couldn't find her. I came home and called Wal-Mart as we live right behind it. As I am holding, she comes in. This guy was with her. Supposedly he moved here to be near her. He has no job, no car, nothing. She had known for a month he was suppose to be coming here. He supposedly has an apartment across town. His "grandpa" supposedly brought him over this morning and that is why she left for school so early.I have been freaking out over this....but after things semi-calmed down I went to bed. He showed up back over here with a couple and they were insisting we allow him to spend the night here saying he couldn't find where he lived. Tried to force themselves in here. My husband refused and at first our dtr was like if he can't stay then she was going to go with him. But then something strange happened. She said this supposed stranger that brought him over was the same man who brought him over this

morning claiming to be his grandpa...and his "grandpa" had supposedly went back to Missouri this morning. She decided that he was a big fat liar and says at this time it is over. My girls are scared and asleep in our bed. My husband who is blind and in end stage renal failure is pacing the hall to "protect us" as we feel this guy is a predetor/stalker. She also told us he has Asperger's

[Guest guest]

This sounds like an awful situation to be in. For you, your daughter... your whole family. This is not to scare you but to prepare you - a just in case, to be safe - plan! I urge you to talk with your neighbors - ask them to keep an eye out. If they see the car there again or suspicious people near your house, to call you. Have a plan. Have a code word if something just isn't right that they are to call the police. If you don't answer, yet they know you are home, they are to call the police.

Try also to get the license plate of the car that is transporting this guy around. I imagine it would be hard for you to be suttle and go outside to get it while they are they, so again, please ask a neighbor. Have them go outside to "work in the yard" or "take the dog for a walk" and get that license plate number for you. You probably won't need it but.... it's just incase. Your local police dept. may be able to run that plate. Technically they need a valid reason to run the plate but if go in, talk to the right person and explain the situation and the concerns you have - there can be reason enough to check these people out. They may not tell you the results but that's okay. The important part is that they know and they can take the proper action if necessary. Again, I don't mean to scare you. It's probably a normal teen thing happening here and no criminal intent etc. but your message indicates some serious concerns. The facebook thing sounds extreme - there are a lot of valid concerns. I hope your daughter has come around. I hope you can talk with her and she is able to see the potential seriousness of this.

Please keep us updated. I'm sure we are all very hopeful that your life can return to normal very soon.

Hugs and prayers to you.

( ) Great concerns and stress

My middle daughter is always looking for love in all the wrong places. She is 17 and well this scary thing happened. She had been on line and texting this guy out of Missouri who is suppose to be 18 yrs old. She caught him "cheating" on Facebook and broke it off. I had found some very detailed messages between them and he sounded very violent in what he wanted to do to her. Well we thought it was over and I found out they were back together again.Here is the scary part. I got up this morning and couldn't find her. I finally found a text from her telling me she walked to school early. I am already thinking she must have went in early to meet up with someone. She is suppose to have after school tutoring and I had to go pick up her sister. When I got home it was almost 5 and the school tutoring is over at 4. I am trying to text her and no reply. I called one of her friends and she told me her phone was about to die. So I go looking around the school and couldn't find her. I came home and called Wal-Mart as we live right behind it. As I am holding, she comes in. This guy was with her. Supposedly he moved here to be near her. He has no job, no car, nothing. She had known for a month he was suppose to be coming here. He supposedly has an apartment across town. His "grandpa" supposedly brought him over this morning and that is why she left for school so early.I have been freaking out over this....but after things semi-calmed down I went to bed. He showed up back over here with a couple and they were insisting we allow him to spend the night here saying he couldn't find where he lived. Tried to force themselves in here. My husband refused and at first our dtr was like if he can't stay then she was going to go with him. But then something strange happened. She said this supposed stranger that brought him over was the same man who brought him over this morning claiming to be his grandpa...and his "grandpa" had supposedly went back to Missouri this morning. She decided that he was a big fat liar and says at this time it is over. My girls are scared and asleep in our bed. My husband who is blind and in end stage renal failure is pacing the hall to "protect us" as we feel this guy is a predetor/stalker. She also told us he has Asperger's

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