Seeking helpful ways to stop destructive behavior.

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My 9 yr old son, who temporarily lives w/ his grandparents is in need. For now,

I only get to see him 1 day a week. I yesterday I arrived at our visit to find

every Christmas present I gave him, ripped to shreds. His grandmother dealt w/

by not. She said, " Whatever " and walked away. I am digging deep to find better

methods to suggest to them. He simply does not act out in this way for me, then

again, I don't allow it to go as far & he know I won't.

I am trying to gently introduce productive & educational ways of dealing w/

these outbursts, but fear I will come off as a know it all. They are very

defenses & will not educate themselves.

I just see my son in pain & frusterated & feel my hands are tied.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you, Kane's Mom