My NT child wants to hurt my PDD NOS child...

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Ok, please don't yell at me, I am already feeling like a terrible mother tonight.... Not only did my ASD daughter go to find her NT sister at her friends house and it took me forever to figure it out (I thought she had fallen asleep in her room), but I then found her in our neighbor's backyard- there is a hole in the fence- (with a swimming pool) in her swimming suit. I then found out from my NT daughter that she had "hatched" a plan to hurt her little sister because she is tired of her things getting ruined and having to pick up messes that her sister helps to make.... I can't tell my husband because he will totally lose it towards my NT daughter and me, and I can't ask my mother what to do because she will blame it on my husband..... I of course punished my older daughter and talked with her, but feel it isn't enough.... Has anyone been through this before???CarolynPs don't worry I turned the alarm on on our door, and will be getting fence posts to fix the fence....Sent from my iPadOn Mar 19, 2011, at 4:48 PM, " Frasca" <frasca.nancy@...> wrote:

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> > Hi I have an eleven year old boy with aspergers,adhd and bipolar. His

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> > I am in northern new jersey. thank you so much and here they are.

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> > Chapel Hill Acadmey, Cornerstone day school, Calais, Sage day school.

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> > Not sure if i need to go the real clinical psychiatric route as some

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> > work on a point and reward system for him.

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