Holidays - Preteen Aspie girl

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My son is possibly " on the spectrum " and my niece is being tested. I " get " my

son.......my niece on the other hand - total mystery!

She spends all of her time in her room and would prefer if nobody talked to her.

She has no internal filters so you KNOW that you are bothering her if you try to

interact with her.

I have no idea what to get this child for christmas!!! She's nearly 11. What

music does this age group listen to? What books are they reading? I only have

boys and they are more social but narrow in their interests; and all the other

nieces are either grown or still playing dress-up.

I'm stumped!