Relocating

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Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons

apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS

and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons.

Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to

teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling

said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of

doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he

is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even

though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says " Your family has not

been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and

closed "

The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told me,

she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every precaution to

protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the mother is like she

seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no contact, yet my

boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and becomes quite

upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed here with me when

he could have losts his sons completely while the investigation was going on,

the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to explain that i am scared for

my son and he becomes enraged and said everything isnt always about joshua why

do you always make everything about him? i said i didnt know i was, but your

sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on in the first place, your

sons want you all to your self and now they have you. he said they beg to come

here to see josh ,

i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am sick

of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you and go

into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand, it is

ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone because

they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I have

decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just

not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter

so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is

where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being

here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have

to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived

there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house

and all of that but we

will work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol

anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this

point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been

going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry

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You need to do what's best for your son. Your boyfriend doesn't have the right to accuse you of being partial to your son, I mean hello he is your son. Anyways in his defense he has his own kids and it doesn't neccessarily mean that he doesn't care for it's just that ya'll are in two different seasons of your life. I think the move would be great for you and your son. Good luck. Hope things work out great.

From: aspiemomone <aspiemomone@...> Sent: Monday, July 20, 2009 11:55:47 PMSubject: ( ) Re: Relocating

> >> > > > Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS and then the court to have order placed

that my son couldnt be around her sons. Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says "Your family has not been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and closed"> > The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every precaution to protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his

sons to be around my son and becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you. he said they beg to come here to see josh ,> > i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you and go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand, it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone because they still try to

say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house and all of that but we> > will work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry> > >I dont believe you

would have done the same sherry left my three boys and me one of my sons is also on the spectrum my name is bryan I feel the need to explain, Sherry and I spoke Last night and she lead me to believe she wanted to marry me and I have spent 1075.00 on a lawyer to have a hearing to keep my custody and clear joshes name . In the meanwhile I left all in sherrys care. we went homeless for the protection of her son. she grew colder and planned this move without even courtisy of telling me. today I found her apartment applications to N.C. I tried to question her and she flipped. she had things packed and stored, she grabbed it and ran. This is a ongoing habbit of hers so much so that she lost herdaughter by choice.for her to question my love for her is unspeakable. First she never would have seen her own daughter graduate, let alone how far josh has come is documented to my praise and understanding of our boys disorder. now she is running again. Last year she

ran while I was at work then later called from N.C. with no food wanting to come home. I thought things were good. I ve never raised my hand to her or her children.I am not normally noisy but I found your email trying to find answers as to why and for reason she is leaving. I my opinion to relocate josh is the reason she cant stabilize his disorder it has been back and fourth all his life between Pa and Nc. I love them so but untill she stops running josh will regress . Anyway I am sorry to interupt but I felt compelled to bring the truth to you. Please pray for them,and my sons too,none of this is fair. If you do speak to sherry tell her the att. will have this stricken from record by summers end.by the papers that I did put in.That news came today.

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Hey everyone just to let all know we made the move to NC and i am relieved but bad news my exboyfriend went into my email account and pulled all my emails up and thus could have replied to anyone of you in a negative fashion, if this happened i do apologize, however i will be fixing this problem by either setting new account or changing password maybe both. sorry to all you guys. Sherry

From: Roxanna <MadIdeas@...> Sent: Tuesday, July 21, 2009 11:12:46 AMSubject: Re: ( ) Relocating

{{{Sherry}}} That is a brave decision but sounds like a good one. If this man still wants you, he needs to deal with his kids and his ex wife first anyway, something he isn't doing. You do have to consider your own kids first, that is not a bad thing. Hang in there!!

Roxanna"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." E. Burke

( ) Relocating

Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons. Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says "Your family has not been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and closed"The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every precaution to

protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you. he said they beg to come here to see josh ,i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you and

go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand, it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone because they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house and all of that but wewill work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this

point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry

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Eileen....I relocated from New York to Florida because of my p and PsA.It has

helped me immensely although the last few months have been cold here.A little

time in the sun and salt water swimming help with my plaque p on my hands and

feet and PsA.I'm 40 and have had severe p and PsA develop after a major car

accident in 2004...regards Doug.

[Guest guest]

I live in a fairly mild climate, Dallas. But, I know how much worse my PsA

is in the winter, even here.

If I live somewhere more North, I would move to Arizona or, better, Florida,

in a heartbeat.

kristina adams <mac@...>