Can somebody give me some tips on handling the stress caused by living with an Aspie?

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Hi,I feel stress out when my aspie girl has temper tantrums, challenges me, do not take her medicine, slammed the doors etc, etc. To this stress is added also the stress of dealing with doctors, therapists, schools, other people complaining about her behave, bills, no help by the school, job problem etc, etc.How you guys manage it? my body resents it by having panic attacks or something else that doctors are not able to diagnosed my condition yet. When I have an episode of chest pain and fast heart beat I feel I am just going to drop dead, after the pain is over the muscle on my chest get swollen and hurt for a few days. I have been in the hospital twice this month,doctors do not have a clue, right now I am hooked up to a monitor to check for arrhythmia and I am trying no to get stress out, but stress is inevitable for parents of aspies. I was taking activan, but this medicine does not work anymore for me.Tomorrow is a full moon, I notice that she gets very bad when the moon is full. How your guys deal with stress?Thank you on advance for your inputs,