Son Suspended from School

February 8, 2011

Well, I guess I spoke to soon...I counted my eggs before they hatched. My son

was suspended today from school. Originally it was going to be 10 days but they

said...as long as he did his work at home, didn't give us a hard time and went

to therapy ...they would change it to 5 days.

Why was he suspended....well, it seems that this kid said hello to his

girlfriend and she made a comment that he won't leave her alone. So, my son

takes things into his own hands and on facebook he told this kid he would " kill

him " , that he was a fxxking gay and he was going to beat him up...and so forth.

He said his was going to get his father's AK .....and we don't own guns and

never would.

The boy reported my son to the principal. Then they got the postings on

facebook. My son sounded horrible. This is not who I raised.

The school said the police maybe calling. They said it was terroristic threats

and he may have to go in front of a judge. OMG. And, my son is now in his bed

with the covers over his head. When I try to talk he yells at me. He says we

keep repeating the same thing over and over. But he jsut doesn't get it.

WE did tell his he lost his computer and will never be allowed to use it

unsupervised. No more facebook. We told him that he had to delete his account

and he said NO.

I don't know how to deal with all this. I did call his therapsit who he hasn't

seen in a while and made 2 appts. for him..now he has no choice.

The school said it is not part of his AS...although I think it is in a way...he

doesn't have the social skills or self controls. This is his first real

girlfriend...and she is cute and goodlooking. Plus, I truly know my son would

not beat anyone up...it was all talk. He doesn't get how serious this is...and

it is. We may end up going in front of a juveniel judge.

The principal did say that if he didn't behave at school, all I had to do was

call him and he would set up for him to go to the Academy for 3 of the days.

I am sick over this and at a losss....help.

jan

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