Re: [SPAM] Emotional abuse by a non custodial parent of our Asperger's son

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First thing that comes to my mind is knocking the guy for a loop,,,,but not wise : ),,,,,,maybe a voice activated recorder in your sons backpack or something? Pick up the conversation and send it off to the judge who issued the court order,,get counselor involved, etc...? Then maybe it could turn into supervised visitation and they could make his dad go to counseling with him? That is a tough one.

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[sPAM] ( ) Emotional abuse by a non custodial parent of our Asperger's son

I am totally clueless on how to deal with this issue. My son, 12, is undergoing extreme emotional abuse at the hands of his father and 18 yr old step brother every other weekend. He doesnt want to go there anymore, but the visitation paperwork states that he must. He gets tormented, called stupid, gay, called girls names, and even was told by his father that if he stole from him, he would be shot in the head in a field. OH MY!! My son says he isnt scared of his dad, but is kinda scared of that last statement. Is anyone else going through the same issues with a non custodial parent, where the other parent thinks nothing is wrong with the child, that the child is just acting like a normal boy without any friends??

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These kinds of behaviour needs to be taken to the court because the court system

looks down on this kind of behaviour towards a child. Especially a child with

special needs. Document it all on paper in your son's words. No one should be

emotionally abused or threatened. The visitation order could be changed to

supervised visitation or no visitation at all. I would contact a fmaily law

attorney. Please do everything you can to have your son removed from this very

unhealthy enviroment. Even though your son says he is not afraid, he could just

be saying that. He does not want to go there and if he was not afraid he would

not say anything. Always take the warning sign of someone refusing to go

somewhere for something major is going on. Plese do everything in your power to

remove your child from him.

I was mentally, emotionally and financially abused and closely controlled by my

ex, the father of my child (whom I never lived with but was treated terribly for

2 1/2 years) and I am still suffering from the effects and its been 8 years

since he broke up with me.

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> First thing that comes to my mind is knocking the guy for a loop,,,,but not

wise : ),,,,,,maybe a voice activated recorder in your sons backpack or

something? Pick up the conversation and send it off to the judge who issued the

court order,,get counselor involved, etc...? Then maybe it could turn into

supervised visitation and they could make his dad go to counseling with him?

That is a tough one.

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> Lynne Banks

> www.americanadoptioncongress.org

> South Dakota State Representative

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> www.adoptionscams.net

> Ask me how to protect yourself from being scammed in adoption!

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> I am totally clueless on how to deal with this issue. My son, 12, is

undergoing extreme emotional abuse at the hands of his father and 18 yr old step

brother every other weekend. He doesnt want to go there anymore, but the

visitation paperwork states that he must. He gets tormented, called stupid, gay,

called girls names, and even was told by his father that if he stole from him,

he would be shot in the head in a field. OH MY!! My son says he isnt scared of

his dad, but is kinda scared of that last statement.

> Is anyone else going through the same issues with a non custodial parent,

where the other parent thinks nothing is wrong with the child, that the child is

just acting like a normal boy without any friends??

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I know exactly how that is. I was emotionally, financially and verbally abused by my ex. Its not a good expirience at all. I'm still feeling the effects of it, even though I'm with a great guy now, and I have been broke away from him for 5 years now. I even had to go through counseling. The abuse started when my son was a couple months old...and it continues to nowSent via BlackBerry from T-MobileFrom: "BreAnn" <breann21@...>Date: Sat, 24 Apr 2010 22:14:53 -0000< >Subject: Re: [sPAM] ( ) Emotional abuse by a non custodial parent of our Asperger's son These kinds of behaviour needs to be taken to the court because the court system looks down on this kind of behaviour towards a child. Especially a child with special needs. Document it all on paper in your son's words. No one should be emotionally abused or threatened. The visitation order could be changed to supervised visitation or no visitation at all. I would contact a fmaily law attorney. Please do everything you can to have your son removed from this very unhealthy enviroment. Even though your son says he is not afraid, he could just be saying that. He does not want to go there and if he was not afraid he would not say anything. Always take the warning sign of someone refusing to go somewhere for something major is going on. Plese do everything in your power to remove your child from him.I was mentally, emotionally and financially abused and closely controlled by my ex, the father of my child (whom I never lived with but was treated terribly for 2 1/2 years) and I am still suffering from the effects and its been 8 years since he broke up with me.>> First thing that comes to my mind is knocking the guy for a loop,,,,but not wise : ),,,,,,maybe a voice activated recorder in your sons backpack or something? Pick up the conversation and send it off to the judge who issued the court order,,get counselor involved, etc...? Then maybe it could turn into supervised visitation and they could make his dad go to counseling with him? That is a tough one.> > Lynne Banks> www.americanadoptioncongress.org> South Dakota State Representative> > www.adoptionscams.net> Ask me how to protect yourself from being scammed in adoption!> > [sPAM] ( ) Emotional abuse by a non custodial parent of our Asperger's son> > > > I am totally clueless on how to deal with this issue. My son, 12, is undergoing extreme emotional abuse at the hands of his father and 18 yr old step brother every other weekend. He doesnt want to go there anymore, but the visitation paperwork states that he must. He gets tormented, called stupid, gay, called girls names, and even was told by his father that if he stole from him, he would be shot in the head in a field. OH MY!! My son says he isnt scared of his dad, but is kinda scared of that last statement. > Is anyone else going through the same issues with a non custodial parent, where the other parent thinks nothing is wrong with the child, that the child is just acting like a normal boy without any friends??> > >