cystitis, irritated gallbladder

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Thanks to everyone reading

My mom has and irritated gallbladder, she has been eating a southern

Italian fatty/starchy/acidic (greasy, fried foods) diet. I can't

seem to stop her from changing her habits, it has taken me two years

to replace her sugar with Stevia, she seems to think that the

southern Italian diet is the best on the planet, and I cannot

convince her or her friends that there diet is wrong, and they are

all getting sick, they also have physical problems due to their

obesity. How do you tell these people, that what they are doing is

wrong? And if I go on down grading their diet, they will lock me

up. I tell her, " she can't eat this and that, " and she

replies " then we can't eat nothing " . She cried one night while

sitting on the toilet, and complained that she could not sleep, and

she hasn't been able to sleep for two years, since this illness

began, she also urinates allot, is there any recipes that anyone has

to add to a proper diet, or any diets that anyone can suggests.

Does anyone have any physiological advise as well

Thanks

skinnyvinny

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On Sun, 10 Sep 2006 01:24:24 -0000, " skinnyvinny "

<skinnyvinny@...> wrote:

> My mom has an irritated gallbladder, she has been eating a southern

> Italian fatty/starchy/acidic (greasy, fried foods) diet all her life. I can't

> stop her that she would change her habits. It took me two years to

> replace sugar with Stevia. She thinks that southern Italian diet is the

> best on the planet and I cannot convince her or her friends that their

> diet is wrong, and because of this they are all getting sick.They all

> have physical problems due to their obesity.

> How do you tell these people, that what they are doing is wrong?

> If I go on down grading their diet, they will lock me up. When I tell

> her that she can't eat this and that, she replies: " Then we can't eat

> nothing " . She cried one night while sitting on the toilet, complaining

> that she could not sleep. She hasn't been able to sleep for two years,

> since this illness began.

> Are there recipes that add to a proper diet, or any diet that anyone

> can suggest?

> Does someone has any physiological advise?

Skinnyvinny, you are touching a subject which is essential not

only for the survival of your mother, but for whole humanity on

this planet. To change established habits is so extremely

difficult, that people prefer to die before they let go of

habits, attitudes, concepts, beliefs and their self image. Why it

is so difficult? Because people are totally identified with their

'property' on all different levels: the material, their body,

their intellect, their emotions. Being identified with all this

gives the feeling of existence and so a certain kind of security.

Being identified with their body, they use disease and the

suffering connected with it also to be confirmed in their

existence and so they cling on it and don't want to change it. So

people don't want really to be healed, they don't want to be

responsible for themselves, they like to be dependent. For this

the established health system serves best: Giving chemicals to

reduce the symptoms, without healing the disease, but causing

side effects, which then can be treated with other pills... So

the client can keep one's disease and go on suffering, but never

will confront oneself and so avoiding the void of being healthy.

This sounds ridicules and let one thinking that people are

lacking brain, behaving like sheep or zombies, being slaves of

their own unconscious needs, which mainly consist in being

confirmed in their existence in the most primitive way: Eating,

having sex, suffering or having fun, feeling their own power or

using it on others, reacting on every thing or person or feeling

hurt by the behavior of others, etc. etc.

Sorry, I can't give you any physiological advice, because I'm not

a health professional. medical doctor should use his authority

on your mother and tell her strongly that she must make a

fasting, then doing a liver cleans, etc. then doing some

exercises and also moving her brain cells... Maybe she then will

follow his advice. You as her daughter can't expect that she

listen at you.

To give you a psychological advice I would say: Learn to

understand human nature and then see that your mother, like most

of other people are under the hypnotic influence of established

habits and they are not capable to question these. Prepare her

something delicious, maybe she will enjoy it and slowly you can

bring her to a more healthy diet. But don't force her or try to

convince her in any way, this will only activate her defenses.

Try to get her out some times from her used surrounding to enjoy

other places and other people, that she don't get only self

confirmation in her misery from the same people. There is quite

some more to say about it, but this gets too long. You might want

to read my Web site where I have written a lot about human

nature, etc.

I hope this helps somehow...

BeiYin

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