The Washington Post

October 13, 2002

Gosh, Marie, how mean spiritied is that! The letter was from a

member of Saline Support? I am shocked and very disappointed that

there may be someone on the group who isn't being kind and

supportive. I have not seen anything negative posted previously

about you, so I don't think you have to worry about what has been

said.

I would suggest that you put a block in your email program to just

delete the messages from this person. (unless you desire to continue

some kind of communication.) Once blocked, their only other option

to contact you would be publicly on the group. and I have

the ability to moderate the posts as well as ban members who are not

complying with the rules. Anyone in violation of our rules of

conduct will be removed after fair warning, and our rules of conduct

do not allow disparaging comments or bashing of members. Of course,

private emails are not included in this.

Our group has been a great support network for hundreds of women

harmed by their breast implant experience. It has the capacity to

carry many hundreds more through this grueling nightmare. It is

about compassion, love, warmth, gratitude, kindness, caring,

friendship, and all the other adjectives you can use to describe

what helping others is about.

There really is no place on this group for unkind words, and I think

most members respect this. However, it amazes me how some people

don't understand that unkindness doesn't hurt only the person it is

directed at--it hurts the one delivering it as well! If any of you

have trouble with unkind feelings, let me encourage you to change

your attitude and get rid of the ugliness. You will help yourself

as well as others around you. Sorry that happened, Marie!

Patty

October 13, 2002

Patty:

Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate your support. I E-mailed you about the sdale endo. He's very nice!

Hugs,

-Marie

October 14, 2002

Martha:

Hi. Wise words. I really needed that quote today!

LM

October 14, 2002

Hi Ladies,

Many years ago I read everything Dr. Wayne Dyer wrote, and I cannot tell you

how many times he has stated; " All you have to do to change your life, is to

change your mind " ! I truly believe this, as we all become what we think

about all day long!

MM

Martha Murdock, Director

National Silicone Implant Foundation | Dallas Headquarters

" Supporting Survivors of Medical Implant Devices "

4416 Willow Lane

Dallas, TX 75244-7537

----- Original Message -----

From: " Patty " <fdp@...>

< >

Sent: Sunday, October 13, 2002 10:39 AM

Subject: The Washington Post

> Gosh, Marie, how mean spiritied is that! The letter was from a

> member of Saline Support? I am shocked and very disappointed that

> there may be someone on the group who isn't being kind and

> supportive. I have not seen anything negative posted previously

> about you, so I don't think you have to worry about what has been

> said.

>

> I would suggest that you put a block in your email program to just

> delete the messages from this person. (unless you desire to continue

> some kind of communication.) Once blocked, their only other option

> to contact you would be publicly on the group. and I have

> the ability to moderate the posts as well as ban members who are not

> complying with the rules. Anyone in violation of our rules of

> conduct will be removed after fair warning, and our rules of conduct

> do not allow disparaging comments or bashing of members. Of course,

> private emails are not included in this.

>

> Our group has been a great support network for hundreds of women

> harmed by their breast implant experience. It has the capacity to

> carry many hundreds more through this grueling nightmare. It is

> about compassion, love, warmth, gratitude, kindness, caring,

> friendship, and all the other adjectives you can use to describe

> what helping others is about.

>

> There really is no place on this group for unkind words, and I think

> most members respect this. However, it amazes me how some people

> don't understand that unkindness doesn't hurt only the person it is

> directed at--it hurts the one delivering it as well! If any of you

> have trouble with unkind feelings, let me encourage you to change

> your attitude and get rid of the ugliness. You will help yourself

> as well as others around you. Sorry that happened, Marie!

> Patty

>

October 18, 2002

I am trying to get Dr. Maltz on the show for his new book. Wayne Dyer was a

great interview. .

-----Original Message-----

From: MARTHA [mailto:MAM-NSIF@...]

Sent: Wednesday, October 16, 2002 12:22 AM

Cc: Dr. Kolb

Subject: Re: The Washington Post

Importance: High

Dear Dr. ,

As much as I have read all his books; listened to them on tapes; and seen

him on PBS / TV --- I have never had the opportunity to see him in person!

Is he as great in person?

I'm currently really 'hooked on' Dr. Phil McGraw, as he is just so " down to

earth " , direct & to the point. The end of last week he did a great show on

women of various ages wanting plastic surgeries, etc. Dr. Phil's responses

sounded exactly like the things Dr. Maxwell Maltz wrote nearly 20-years ago.

Thanks always,

MM

Martha Murdock, Director

National Silicone Implant Foundation | Dallas Headquarters

" Supporting Survivors of Medical Implant Devices "

4416 Willow Lane

Dallas, TX 75244-7537

----- Original Message -----

From: " Dr. Kolb " <drkolb@...>

< >

Sent: Monday, October 14, 2002 8:07 AM

Subject: RE: The Washington Post

> I have interviewed Wayne Dyer on the TV and radio show. He is a leader in

> spiritual medicine. .

>

> -----Original Message-----

> From: MARTHA [mailto:MAM-NSIF@...]

> Sent: Monday, October 14, 2002 12:18 AM

>

> Cc: ~*Patty*~

> Subject: Fw: The Washington Post

> Importance: High

>

> Hi Ladies,

>

> Many years ago I read everything Dr. Wayne Dyer wrote, and I cannot tell

you

> how many times he has stated; " All you have to do to change your life, is

to

> change your mind " ! I truly believe this, as we all become what we think

> about all day long!

>

> MM

> Martha Murdock, Director

> National Silicone Implant Foundation | Dallas Headquarters

> " Supporting Survivors of Medical Implant Devices "

> 4416 Willow Lane

> Dallas, TX 75244-7537

> ----- Original Message -----

> From: " Patty " <fdp@...>

> < >

> Sent: Sunday, October 13, 2002 10:39 AM

> Subject: The Washington Post

>

> > Gosh, Marie, how mean spiritied is that! The letter was from a

> > member of Saline Support? I am shocked and very disappointed that

> > there may be someone on the group who isn't being kind and

> > supportive. I have not seen anything negative posted previously

> > about you, so I don't think you have to worry about what has been

> > said.

> >

> > I would suggest that you put a block in your email program to just

> > delete the messages from this person. (unless you desire to continue

> > some kind of communication.) Once blocked, their only other option

> > to contact you would be publicly on the group. and I have

> > the ability to moderate the posts as well as ban members who are not

> > complying with the rules. Anyone in violation of our rules of

> > conduct will be removed after fair warning, and our rules of conduct

> > do not allow disparaging comments or bashing of members. Of course,

> > private emails are not included in this.

> >

> > Our group has been a great support network for hundreds of women

> > harmed by their breast implant experience. It has the capacity to

> > carry many hundreds more through this grueling nightmare. It is

> > about compassion, love, warmth, gratitude, kindness, caring,

> > friendship, and all the other adjectives you can use to describe

> > what helping others is about.

> >

> > There really is no place on this group for unkind words, and I think

> > most members respect this. However, it amazes me how some people

> > don't understand that unkindness doesn't hurt only the person it is

> > directed at--it hurts the one delivering it as well! If any of you

> > have trouble with unkind feelings, let me encourage you to change

> > your attitude and get rid of the ugliness. You will help yourself

> > as well as others around you. Sorry that happened, Marie!

> > Patty

> >

October 18, 2002

Hi Dr. ,

What is the title of Dr. Maltz's new book?

Thanks, MM

Martha Murdock, Director

National Silicone Implant Foundation | Dallas Headquarters

" Supporting Survivors of Medical Implant Devices "

4416 Willow Lane

Dallas, TX 75244-7537

----- Original Message -----

From: " Dr. Kolb " <drkolb@...>

< >

Sent: Thursday, October 17, 2002 10:07 PM

Subject: RE: The Washington Post

> I am trying to get Dr. Maltz on the show for his new book. Wayne Dyer was

a

> great interview. .

>

> -----Original Message-----

> From: MARTHA [mailto:MAM-NSIF@...]

> Sent: Wednesday, October 16, 2002 12:22 AM

>

> Cc: Dr. Kolb

> Subject: Re: The Washington Post

> Importance: High

>

> Dear Dr. ,

>

> As much as I have read all his books; listened to them on tapes; and seen

> him on PBS / TV --- I have never had the opportunity to see him in person!

> Is he as great in person?

>

> I'm currently really 'hooked on' Dr. Phil McGraw, as he is just so " down

to

> earth " , direct & to the point. The end of last week he did a great show

on

> women of various ages wanting plastic surgeries, etc. Dr. Phil's

responses

> sounded exactly like the things Dr. Maxwell Maltz wrote nearly 20-years

ago.

>

> Thanks always,

> MM

> Martha Murdock, Director

> National Silicone Implant Foundation | Dallas Headquarters

> " Supporting Survivors of Medical Implant Devices "

> 4416 Willow Lane

> Dallas, TX 75244-7537

> ----- Original Message -----

> From: " Dr. Kolb " <drkolb@...>

> < >

> Sent: Monday, October 14, 2002 8:07 AM

> Subject: RE: The Washington Post

>

> > I have interviewed Wayne Dyer on the TV and radio show. He is a leader

in

> > spiritual medicine. .

> >

> > -----Original Message-----

> > From: MARTHA [mailto:MAM-NSIF@...]

> > Sent: Monday, October 14, 2002 12:18 AM

> >

> > Cc: ~*Patty*~

> > Subject: Fw: The Washington Post

> > Importance: High

> >

> > Hi Ladies,

> >

> > Many years ago I read everything Dr. Wayne Dyer wrote, and I cannot tell

> you

> > how many times he has stated; " All you have to do to change your life,

is

> to

> > change your mind " ! I truly believe this, as we all become what we think

> > about all day long!

> >

> > MM

> > Martha Murdock, Director

> > National Silicone Implant Foundation | Dallas Headquarters

> > " Supporting Survivors of Medical Implant Devices "

> > 4416 Willow Lane

> > Dallas, TX 75244-7537

> > ----- Original Message -----

> > From: " Patty " <fdp@...>

> > < >

> > Sent: Sunday, October 13, 2002 10:39 AM

> > Subject: The Washington Post

> >

> > > Gosh, Marie, how mean spiritied is that! The letter was from a

> > > member of Saline Support? I am shocked and very disappointed that

> > > there may be someone on the group who isn't being kind and

> > > supportive. I have not seen anything negative posted previously

> > > about you, so I don't think you have to worry about what has been

> > > said.

> > >

> > > I would suggest that you put a block in your email program to just

> > > delete the messages from this person. (unless you desire to continue

> > > some kind of communication.) Once blocked, their only other option

> > > to contact you would be publicly on the group. and I have

> > > the ability to moderate the posts as well as ban members who are not

> > > complying with the rules. Anyone in violation of our rules of

> > > conduct will be removed after fair warning, and our rules of conduct

> > > do not allow disparaging comments or bashing of members. Of course,

> > > private emails are not included in this.

> > >

> > > Our group has been a great support network for hundreds of women

> > > harmed by their breast implant experience. It has the capacity to

> > > carry many hundreds more through this grueling nightmare. It is

> > > about compassion, love, warmth, gratitude, kindness, caring,

> > > friendship, and all the other adjectives you can use to describe

> > > what helping others is about.

> > >

> > > There really is no place on this group for unkind words, and I think

> > > most members respect this. However, it amazes me how some people

> > > don't understand that unkindness doesn't hurt only the person it is

> > > directed at--it hurts the one delivering it as well! If any of you

> > > have trouble with unkind feelings, let me encourage you to change

> > > your attitude and get rid of the ugliness. You will help yourself

> > > as well as others around you. Sorry that happened, Marie!

> > > Patty

> > >

October 18, 2002

The new psychocybernetics, I believe. .

-----Original Message-----

From: MARTHA [mailto:MAM-NSIF@...]

Sent: Friday, October 18, 2002 12:31 AM