RE: Re: Andy and etiquette EDTA Digest Number 12774

[Guest guest]

Alison hit the nail on the head. Let's give each other a break. Many of

the adults here have the same issues their kids do (less than perfect

communication & social skills, etc.). I do a lot of emailing on 2 AR groups

I own, even tho I don't say much here. As an Aspie, it WEARS ME OUT trying

to figure out how to word an email just right, so no offense will be taken.

I discovered it doesn't matter how much effort I put into it, I was

inevitably going to pxxx someone off. I try not to worry about it (but I

still do), figuring that passing along what I've learned over the last 8.5

yrs. is much more important than what someone thinks about how I word my

emails.

in AR

P.S. One little snippet of wisdom I have learned: If you don't have time

for all the group emails, at least read Andy's.

[ ] Re: Andy and etiquette EDTA Digest Number 12774

If Andy had to preframe everything in a kind manner according to each

individual's taste or etiquette level, he simply would shutdown, (hope I

haven't over stepped my limit here) and ALL of us would be out of luck. IMO.

As it is he is on other chats, and has a life outside this chatroom. Lest we

forget.

Alison F.

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I understand how you feel. I think my situation with my son has taught me to

have a thick skin when it comes to people now. Originally I cried when doctors

or proffesionals would make harsh remarks and then I got mad. Sounds like you

are at the mad part and that is a good thing. I've learned when it comes to

helping my kid...it doesn't matter who's mouth the good advice comes from or the

personality behind it.....I just take the good parts and leave the personality

part behind. I've noticed that the folks who are kind and misguiding are

dangerous, and those who are trying to help recover our kids can be abrupt and

harsh. It's the battle that can take even the most kind gentle person and harden

them, so please understand it's only done out of frustration and a desire to

help....not mean-spiritedness.

6a. Re: EdTA and DMPS

Posted by: " kellymac92 " cs-mom@... kellymac92

Date: Mon Jan 7, 2008 5:58 am ((PST))

This doctor is VERY well respected. I need kind advice, not snippy

remarks.

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