Moved

July 23, 2002

Hey guys...Long time no chat...Well we moved...We are in , Texas

now...About 45 minutes from Denton, Texas...I have been recouping from the pain

of moving...But all is doing well...Will fill you in with more later...Take care

my friends hope all is well...Love and hugs...Pam

P.S. Gillian, hope you are ok...Love ya

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March 13, 2011

Peggy, I am so sorry you had to go through what you did but so glad you are now safe and can begin again. I will pray you get the job and no matter what else, that you find contentment. Kate

From: pticconi63@...

Sent: Sunday, March 13, 2011 8:59 PM

Subject: [ ] Moved

I wanted to update y'all on my life. I have been the victim of 12 years of emotional and sometimes physical abuse. A week ago today it got so bad and I was so desperate to get away that I took an overdose (26 Norco) to get away from my husband. I have asked him to leave the house 4 times and he comes right back within a few hours. If I try to leave he follows. Naturally with the overdose I was put into a psychiatric ward for a few days. When they spoke with my sister-in-law and she confirmed the issues of domestic violence, they released me to my brother and sister-in-law on Friday. I have moved into their house in another part of NC. When I went to the house to get my things on Friday afternoon, I found that my laptop, PC, medical records, personal files, corporation files, personal mail, debit cards, credit cards, etc. were gone. Hubby claims they are with his attorney but I know he has no money for an attorney because he just borrowed money from our pastor to pay the electric bill, etc. He has them hidden somewhere. He claims he took my laptop to get the display fixed. I had just changed the password to the BIOS, etc. the day before I left. When I get it back I am taking it to an expert for a complete inspection. I am sure hubby has copied everything on my hard drive to use against me later in court. I filed for an order of protection on Friday but the judge deemed I wasn't in immediate danger and therefore a hearing was scheduled to grant the order of protection. We have to go back in a couple of days for court, I need to train my replacement at the church, I need to turn in my keys and count my drawer at the post office, and I need to get more of my things out of the house. I am so glad to be away from there. I had an interview yesterday at a large church nearby as their secretary just quit. I am praying I will get the job and start a new life. Peggy Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

March 14, 2011

Peggy,

I am so sorry you are going through this. We are all here to help in whatever

way we can. Please consider us your close circle of friends that you can call

upon.

Please do not compromise your safety for " things " . They can all be replaced.

What is yours will come back to you in the course of time.

I can well imagine this is all calling upon all of your inner resources. You are

a strong capable woman and I know you will prevail. After the craziness of this

time you will find the move, the upheaval, the challenges, will have all been

worth it.

Hang in there.

Take Care, Cam

March 14, 2011

Peggy,My heart goes out to you during this difficult time! But you are a strong woman and will be able to persevere. Even though thtell lseem like absolute essential documents, but they should all be replaceable, unlike you! Unless I am sleeping?7

On Mar 13, 2011, at 9:00 PM, " pticconi63@... " <pticconi63@...> wrote:

I wanted to update y'all on my life. I have been the victim of 12 years of emotional and sometimes physical abuse. A week ago today it got so bad and I was so desperate to get away that I took an overdose (26 Norco) to get away from my husband. I have asked him to leave the house 4 times and he comes right back within a few hours. If I try to leave he follows.

Naturally with the overdose I was put into a psychiatric ward for a few days. When they spoke with my sister-in-law and she confirmed the issues of domestic violence, they released me to my brother and sister-in-law on Friday. I have moved into their house in another part of NC. When I went to the house to get my things on Friday afternoon, I found that my laptop, PC, medical records, personal files, corporation files, personal mail, debit cards, credit cards, etc. were gone. Hubby claims they are with his attorney but I know he has no money for an attorney because he just borrowed money from our pastor to pay the electric bill, etc. He has them hidden somewhere. He claims he took my laptop to get the display fixed. I had just changed the password to the BIOS, etc. the day before I left. When I get it back I am taking it to an expert for a complete inspection. I am sure hubby has copied everything on my hard drive to use against me later in court. I filed for an order of protection on Friday but the judge deemed I wasn't in immediate danger and therefore a hearing was scheduled to grant the order of protection. We have to go back in a couple of days for court, I need to train my replacement at the church, I need to turn in my keys and count my drawer at the post office, and I need to get more of my things out of the house.

I am so glad to be away from there. I had an interview yesterday at a large church nearby as their secretary just quit. I am praying I will get the job and start a new life.

Peggy

Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

March 14, 2011

Hi Peggy...

I'm really sorry to hear that you've gone through such an ordeal.

Since this is a public forum, I'd like to warn you, and others who might most

similar, very personal details, that posts such as this can be used against you.

Just something to consider.

Best of luck in recovering from your situation.

Regards,

>

> I wanted to update y'all on my life. I have been the victim of 12 years of

emotional and sometimes physical abuse. A week ago today it got so bad and I

was so desperate to get away that I took an overdose (26 Norco) to get away from

my husband. I have asked him to leave the house 4 times and he comes right back

within a few hours. If I try to leave he follows.

>

> Naturally with the overdose I was put into a psychiatric ward for a few days.

When they spoke with my sister-in-law and she confirmed the issues of domestic

violence, they released me to my brother and sister-in-law on Friday. I have

moved into their house in another part of NC. When I went to the house to get

my things on Friday afternoon, I found that my laptop, PC, medical records,

personal files, corporation files, personal mail, debit cards, credit cards,

etc. were gone. Hubby claims they are with his attorney but I know he has no

money for an attorney because he just borrowed money from our pastor to pay the

electric bill, etc. He has them hidden somewhere. He claims he took my laptop

to get the display fixed. I had just changed the password to the BIOS, etc. the

day before I left. When I get it back I am taking it to an expert for a

complete inspection. I am sure hubby has copied everything on my hard drive to

use against me later in court. I filed for an order of protection on Friday but

the judge deemed I wasn't in immediate danger and therefore a hearing was

scheduled to grant the order of protection. We have to go back in a couple of

days for court, I need to train my replacement at the church, I need to turn in

my keys and count my drawer at the post office, and I need to get more of my

things out of the house.

>

> I am so glad to be away from there. I had an interview yesterday at a large

church nearby as their secretary just quit. I am praying I will get the job and

start a new life.

>

> Peggy

>

> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

>

March 15, 2011

Sorry Peggy. C

>

> Wow, Peggy I think everyone is thinking about your situation. Even though this

is a dark, dark time be certain that this will resolve in your favor in time,

100% in your favor. Lean on those who love you.

>

> Pamela

>

> From: pticconi63@...

> Date: Mon, 14 Mar 2011 00:59:49 +0000

> Subject: [ ] Moved

>

> I wanted to update y'all on my life. I have been the victim of 12 years of

emotional and sometimes physical abuse. A week ago today it got so bad and I was

so desperate to get away that I took an overdose (26 Norco) to get away from my

husband. I have asked him to leave the house 4 times and he comes right back

within a few hours. If I try to leave he follows.

>

> Naturally with the overdose I was put into a psychiatric ward for a few days.

When they spoke with my sister-in-law and she confirmed the issues of domestic

violence, they released me to my brother and sister-in-law on Friday. I have

moved into their house in another part of NC. When I went to the house to get my

things on Friday afternoon, I found that my laptop, PC, medical records,

personal files, corporation files, personal mail, debit cards, credit cards,

etc. were gone. Hubby claims they are with his attorney but I know he has no

money for an attorney because he just borrowed money from our pastor to pay the

electric bill, etc. He has them hidden somewhere. He claims he took my laptop to

get the display fixed. I had just changed the password to the BIOS, etc. the day

before I left. When I get it back I am taking it to an expert for a complete

inspection. I am sure hubby has copied everything on my hard drive to use

against me later in court. I filed for an order of protection on Friday but the

judge deemed I wasn't in immediate danger and therefore a hearing was scheduled

to grant the order of protection. We have to go back in a couple of days for

court, I need to train my replacement at the church, I need to turn in my keys

and count my drawer at the post office, and I need to get more of my things out

of the house.

>

> I am so glad to be away from there. I had an interview yesterday at a large

church nearby as their secretary just quit. I am praying I will get the job and

start a new life.

>

> Peggy

>

> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

>

March 16, 2011

Peggy,

I hope things will now start getting better for you. I know from personal

experience that exiting a relationship, no matter how good or bad it was, is

difficult as we become accustomed to having the other person around, bad or

good, you know?

Life is too short, I was in a 10 yr. bad marriage with both types of abuse and

it was still hard to accept change. Now, since it has been a long time, and

I've been with Bob for so long, and I said/thought from the first day I met Bob

that I could live in a tent or a ditch with him as good as he was/is to me and

how good we were/are together. I still say that, and with financial times it

might just become a reality! I still find myself dwelling on the bad from the

other marriage, call it damaged baggage, so better now than later to " move " .

Also you & I had our surgeries at about the same time and I know you, for the

most part, had a better end result. I am just now realizing and coming into a

new phase of, recovery, I guess is the word for it, where I feel more normal and

adjusted to my new configuration than I have yet.

So, I am glad that you have the years of recovering from the revision surgery

thus far behind you which will hopefully add to your independence in that

respect ... I hope that came out right.

Also glad your prospects are in another town - at first it can be scarey but as

things start coming together you'll realize that you are creating a new life,

and a better one, where everyone in town won't know everything ... like it is in

these small towns.

You take care and call me any time you feel like it. OK?

G

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