Re: how can i forgive myself??

[Guest guest]

Hi - What an honest and sincere posting, thanks for sharing it with us. Please

remember that we all make mistakes, we are not perfect beings, we fall short and

do fail, BUT Christ won the real battle for you (as you already know) and

nothing is better than that! Even health nuts get cancer, so please don't be so

overly eager to blame yourself. Christ forgives you, therefore you can forgive

yourself. Accept yourself for who you are, your kindness to others is something

that reflects how good a person you truly are. God loves you, cares about you

more than you will ever know AND he forgives you. Place your energy, prayer

time, and efforts on getting well and may the Lord bless you abundantly in all

ways with healing/health and his uncontainable joy.

From: mdee101 <mdee101@...>

Sent: Wed, May 12, 2010 2:48 pm

Subject: [ ] how can i forgive myself??

how can i forgive myself for giving making myself sick...for choosing to have

bad lifestyle habits in my life. I know i am a very kind person to

everyone...how can i forgive myself so that i can heal myself??? I am a

Christian and believe in forgiveness to anyone else but myself...I need help..i

feel so much shame and guilt.

[Guest guest]

We all have made bad choices in our lives - whether in lifestyle, or family

stuff, or relationships, etc. All you can do is keep moving forward. Correct

what mistakes you made and keep looking ahead.

You did not make yourself sick, btw. Your choices only go so far. There is

more involved with cancer than your choices. There are exposures and the

process the body goes through in order to eliminate bad cells.

And, really healthy people get cancer, too. I'm one of them. I made every

correct lifestyle choice, but still developed cancer.

So, let go of the guilt and move forward.

ar

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> how can i forgive myself for giving making myself sick...for choosing to have

bad lifestyle habits in my life. I know i am a very kind person to

everyone...how can i forgive myself so that i can heal myself??? I am a

Christian and believe in forgiveness to anyone else but myself...I need help..i

feel so much shame and guilt.

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[Guest guest]

The human body is a remarkable organism, it can heal itself. However you have to

start with your mind and let it go. Why don't you start with forgiving yourself

and make some life style changes. Next do some detoxing and fill your body with

supplements that will make you strong again. don't forget to love yourself and

others.

God Bless

Dan

[Guest guest]

My ex-wife's aunt developed breast cancer--and was sure it was punishment from

God because she only could watch her grandchildren two days a week instead of

three! The idea that one causes one's cancer--or any other disease--comes from

ancient cultures that weren't aware of bacteria, viruses, genetics--and weren't

exposed to the contstant bombardment of chemicals and radiation of the modern

world. The New Agers have resurrected this idea--implying that everything that

happens in life is under one's control. It's bullshit! It just leads to one long

guilt trip! The last thing one needs when fighting cancer is to be distracted by

guilt. It's not your fault; put that aside and devote all the resources of your

mind, body and spirit to beating this disease.

Bob Ellal

Four-time cancer survivor (stage four lymphoma) Clear 14 years.

" mdee101 " <mdee101@...> wrote:

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> how can i forgive myself for giving making myself sick...for choosing to have

bad lifestyle habits in my life. I know i am a very kind person to

everyone...how can i forgive myself so that i can heal myself??? I am a

Christian and believe in forgiveness to anyone else but myself...I need help..i

feel so much shame and guilt.

>

[Guest guest]

I read (and with so much reading I forget where) that people who

consistently put others before themselves are more likely to develop cancer.

Bottom line is that our ability to help others is hampered if we do not

love, respect, and show kindness to ourselves.

You matter. Sanctify yourself and the rest will follow.

[Guest guest]

In your situation it sounds like you would greatly benefit from using EFT which

is short for Emotional Freedom Technique or Tapping. It uses meridian points

and affirmations to change deep-seated patterns of thinking. It works for

guilt, phobia, food cravings, PTSD and much more. You can download a free book

on this site:

http://tinyurl.com/tappingsolution

If you're a Christian you don't have the right to put yourself in God's place as

judge. Being Christian means you HAVE to forgive yourself since that's what

Christ died for. That doesn't mean that you have the right to willfully do

wrong but Jesus said that we must love others as OUR SELF. You are morally

obligated to love yourself if you are a Christian and also to accept God's gift.

I'm 100% certain the EFT will help you! You can turn some of my little sermon

into affirmations to work with or just hire a practitioner if you can't figure

it out on your own. Some of them will work with you on the phone. I'm sure you

won't need more than a one hour session. This should be an easy belief to get

over (believe it or not!). EFT may look weird but it's safe for Christians and

is not using outside energy or entities.

Sharon

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> how can i forgive myself for giving making myself sick...for choosing to have

bad lifestyle habits in my life. I know i am a very kind person to

everyone...how can i forgive myself so that i can heal myself??? I am a

Christian and believe in forgiveness to anyone else but myself...I need help..i

feel so much shame and guilt.

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