Guest guest Posted February 7, 2001 Report Share Posted February 7, 2001 Dear : Thank you for expressing your feelings. What I write here is the result of my experience in treating thyroid conditions for over 25 years. Some of the messages I get are so appalling, I find it difficult to believe that some people are treated so badly by...usually a medical 'adviser.' The prescribing of RAI or surgery for hyperthyroid is actually criminal. By eliminating the pathogenic presence that causes the auto-immune dysfunction and restoring gut function, and then Thyrodine, I have seen in my clinic and in message from the net, literally hundreds of people who have restored thyroid function back to normal. Now this Thyroid regeneration protocol only has to be done once and then thyroid function should remain normal forever...if no drugs, or adverse conditions prevail. We are writing article to go into some major magazines and some professional journals so I hope there will be greater knowledge of the fact that thyroid destruction or " replacement " with synthetics or pig is entirely unnecessary. Earl Rudeness I am just appalled at the rudeness of some of the people on this list. It is no secret that there are ALTERNATIVES to standard medical practice. If you dont' like the ALTERNATIVES and don't want to learn, then why are you here. There is NO EXCUSE for being so rude to Dr Earl. If you don't like the orientation of this list I suggest to go elsewhere or start your own. When I tried to ask Earl some questions, Ruth butted in where she was not wanted and pretty much stifled all the discussion. If you dont' want to learn anything new then go away. __________________________________________________ Get personalized email addresses from - only $35 a year! http://personal.mail./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2002 Report Share Posted August 12, 2002 Hi all, Guess it's time to step in and say that this board will not tolerate any rude posts. I understand that there may be some posters and/or posts that people might find irritating. My suggestion would be to ignore them, delete them, and move on. Also, I find that a written forum like this one can sometimes unintentionally lead to misunderstandings. Please give everyone the benefit of the doubt, and don't assume or read too much into things. Adrienne (moderator) --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 Rudeness is in the i of the beholder, or sumpin' like that. ;-) mel writes...I just went to the mirror and can't see " rudeness " in mine eye.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 Did you check your i, or just your eye? On Tuesday, March 4, 2003, at 05:20 PM, Mel wrote: > mel writes...I just went to the mirror and can't see " rudeness " in > mine eye. -- How on Earth did an USAFR deserter get to be Commander in Chief??? neil@... - mactech@... <http://www.sumeria.net> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 Did you check your i, or just your eye? There is no " i " in rudness.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 Re: [ ] Re: Rudeness Did you check your i, or just your eye? There is no " i " in rudness.. Oops I meant in rud(e)ness.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 19, 2011 Report Share Posted January 19, 2011 Tammy, That would be an idea...video tape her. I always threatened my son I was going to record him and play it back. My son is 15 ...he is the same way. I do beleive it is partly do to AS as well as being a teenager. Try role playing...reverse roles...you play your daughter and have her be you. I do this with my student. I over dramatize it so she gets it. My student is very anxious...she has a hard time not doing something when she wants to just becuase she feels she needs to. We then re-play the situation later so she can see how she was. My son answers us in nasty loud tones..and i wonder if they realize how loud or nasty they sound. The other day I said something to him...we were running late for school ...i was a little anxious...he says...YOu don't have to yell...and I was not Yelling. I think they get confused in this area. jan "In the Midst of Difficulty lies Opportunity" Albert Einstein Success is not measured by one's position but by the obstacles one has overcome to obtain that position From: Tammy <phelpstammy@...> Sent: Wed, January 19, 2011 4:14:10 PMSubject: ( ) Rudeness Hi,I am struggling BIG time with the amount of rudeness that I get from my 'step daughter'. I am finding it so frustrating that every comment is made 'yelling' (her normal voice to her - is loud) and that every discussion is taken as an attack.I just don't know how to reduce her anxiety and to teach her how to interact nicely.Has anyone tried video with this of how to do it nicely vs not nicely??Tam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 19, 2011 Report Share Posted January 19, 2011 Hi Tam, My 13 year old son is the same way. When I stop him and say that I didn't appreciate how he just said something he truly looks astonished. He just doesn't get the tone of voice thing. We are always telling him to watch his tone. He use to always be loud too but that has gotten somewhat better. He still does it when he gets upset or when he feels misunderstood. Then we have to remind him to lower his voice. I too have thought of video taping him so I can play it back for him later. I'd like to know too if anyone has tried this and if it helped? It is very frustrating, I know. To them things that are rude to us just doesn't seem rude to them. It's so hard to get them to understand this too. Try getting your step-daughter some books on social thinking. There is a website, www.socialthinking.com that has some great material. The book, "Thinking about you thinking about me" is excellent and it helped my son a lot to understand that other people have feelings and opinions too. Now just getting him to keep that in mind when he speaks to people is another challenge. Good luck and let me know if you decide to try video taping and how it worked. ne From: Tammy <phelpstammy@...>Subject: ( ) Rudeness Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 4:14 PM Hi,I am struggling BIG time with the amount of rudeness that I get from my 'step daughter'. I am finding it so frustrating that every comment is made 'yelling' (her normal voice to her - is loud) and that every discussion is taken as an attack.I just don't know how to reduce her anxiety and to teach her how to interact nicely.Has anyone tried video with this of how to do it nicely vs not nicely??Tam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2011 Report Share Posted January 20, 2011 My nine year old also struggles with being rude and it has taken me years to figure out how to react to it. I have two neurotypical children who are absolutely NOT allowed to speak to me the way that he does, so I have to fight the desire to respond to him with rudeness, yelling or punishment. Just as I read in one of the other comments, he is truly surprised when I tell him he's being rude. It seems obvious and intentional, but often, it's not. And even when it is, it's because of his lack of control. So what to do? My strategy is to TELL him when he's being rude and offer an alternative. I will say " Now J, that is very rude. I would like you to apologize and next time, say..... " He nearly always apologizes immediately and re-phrases (unless he's REALLY mad!). It's so much better than snapping back and then he snaps back and now we're both in a power struggle. Anyway, I feel your pain. No one wants to be talked to like that, especially from a child who is supposed to respect you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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