Guest guest Posted January 5, 2008 Report Share Posted January 5, 2008 hello barbara must be heart-breaking for you and i pray that you get inner strength to cope with this.. bilbul --- bk4529@... wrote: > I had posted to this group about being confused most > of the time after elliot was explaining to me about > the dogs that can detect cancer. > > I wanted to let the group know only to get it off of > my chest a little. I haven't talked to only a couple > of people about this. My husband after 41 years of > marriage(it will be 42 in July) told me that he has > had enough and as soon as his settlement goes > through that he will be out of here! I have > suspected this and knew that something was going on, > so now he makes it clear! Then yesterday he came to > me to apoligize. I know he's not sorry and I know he > wants to move on which is fine for me. I know I'm > way off subject here. i hope you'll forgive me for > going off topic but I had to tell someone! He only > quieted down after i told him that I would tell all > about him to where he would end up in jail, that's > when he apologized. Now, I want him out of my life > for GOOD! Too many years of verbal and physical > abuse. I don't need the stress from him anymore! > Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2008 Report Share Posted January 5, 2008 In a message dated 1/5/08 4:26:59 PM Eastern Standard Time, bk4529@... writes: > ! Too many years of verbal and physical abuse. I don't need the stress from > him anymore! > Barbara, If you want to get well, this man with his negative energy, has to be yesterday's newspapers. You need to concentrate all your energy on getting well and getting rid of everything negative in your life. It is a blessing that he is leaving..let him leave and never take him back. This is your only chance for survival. My opinion. ************** Start the year off right. Easy ways to stay in shape. http://body.aol.com/fitness/winter-exercise?NCID=aolcmp00300000002489 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 He's a very cold person. This is not the first time that he has left. Now, he'll have some money for awhile. He's not good with money so I don't know what he'll do after, I only know he WON'T be coming back here! From the beginning after I found out about the diagnoses and started on fresh fruits and vegetable juices he said to me that he didn't think that it would help. That it might help someone before they have cancer. A very negetive person. I get this each and everyday, some type of negetive talk. i just am tired of it and want it over. No, it didn't surprise me and no, I'm not heart broken. You don't hurt those you love and I realized years ago that he doesn't love me and never has. thank you, I feel as though the Lord will be with me through it all, He has always been with me through the abuse. I will now get back on topic! Sorry, Barbara > hello barbara > > must be heart-breaking for you and i pray that you get > inner strength to cope with this.. > > bilbul > > --- bk4529@... wrote: > > I had posted to this group about being confused most > > of the time after elliot was explaining to me about > > the dogs that can detect cancer. > > > > I wanted to let the group know only to get it off of > > my chest a little. I haven't talked to only a couple > > of people about this. My husband after 41 years of > > marriage(it will be 42 in July) told me that he has > > had enough and as soon as his settlement goes > > through that he will be out of here! I have > > suspected this and knew that something was going on, > > so now he makes it clear! Then yesterday he came to > > me to apoligize. I know he's not sorry and I know he > > wants to move on which is fine for me. I know I'm > > way off subject here. i hope you'll forgive me for > > going off topic but I had to tell someone! He only > > quieted down after i told him that I would tell all > > about him to where he would end up in jail, that's > > when he apologized. Now, I want him out of my life > > for GOOD! Too many years of verbal and physical > > abuse. I don't need the stress from him anymore! > > Barbara > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 Thank you , I agree! Yesterdays Newspaper, i like that. I will be better off, now it's just encouraging him to go now! I'm going to be talking to him all this week to tell him that it will be better for both of us. The only thing is I won't let him have what is mine! I want to see an attorney. We own four acres of land and our home. I want my part. I should not post here anymore because I'm off the topic. If anyone wants to talk to me please email me privately, i will be glad to email you back. i'm going to need someone to talk to. Barbara **************Start the year off right. Easy ways to stay in shape. http://body.aol.com/fitness/winter-exercise?NCID=aolcmp00300000002489 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 > > In a message dated 1/5/08 4:26:59 PM Eastern Standard Time, bk4529@... > writes: > >I agree . Barbara > > Barbara, > > If you want to get well, this man with his negative energy, has to be > yesterday's newspapers. You need to concentrate all your energy on getting well and > getting rid of everything negative in your life. It is a blessing that he is > leaving..let him leave and never take him back. This is your only chance for > survival. My opinion. > > > > ************** > Start the year off right. Easy ways to stay in shape. > > http://body.aol.com/fitness/winter-exercise? NCID=aolcmp00300000002489 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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