Lack of sexual activity

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I have an issue and it's extremely delicate and upsetting to me plus I'm not

even 100% sure that this is where to post it but after reading a few things on

your forum thought you guys might be able to help me.

My husband and I have been married for 5 months now and we seem to have a

situation with us not having any sort of regular sex life. He's only 43 and very

active with bicycling. Some days he seems rather tiered and worn out but I would

associate that with anyone under possible stress. The other problem and the

really difficult one for me is that he seems to not be turned on at all. Sex

once a month seems to be ok for him and yet I know from past experience this

isn't normal. Just to be clear because I'm obviously also having issues now from

this, I'm not fat, over weight, ugly or unwilling. I'm 29 and active and don't

want him upset or discouraged. I'm not interested in making him feel bad or

hurting him but deep within me I just know this isn't normal. You'll have to

forgive me I'm sure there's more information necessary to give here but I don't

know what to add so please ask me questions and give me advise.

Are there homeopathic things he can take? Are there things I can do? How do I

broach this subject without crushing him? I want better for us and I know he's

defensive, how could anyone not be? I know this must be hard for all of you so

what did you guys do to recognize it? Last night he swore he was normal and

healthy and that everything is in my head so how can I kindly show him once a

month is not normal for a guy this young?

Please help me and him and us. Thank you!!!