Re: premature ejauculation

[Guest guest]

It's a problem I had when I was younger. I had a hard time even

putting on a condom without losing control. As I got older I became

less sensitive is the penis and control became easier. Now I

occationally have the opposite problem of having a hard time getting

it to come.

For me, control has always been easier with me on top, so I can

control the degree of stimulation. When I get close I pause or pull

out, and wait for the feeling to subside. Doing this again and again

until I want it to come. I know they say to squeeze down on your PC

muscles to stop an ejaculation, but what works better for me is to

relax the pelvic muscles to stop the ejaculatory contractions from

coming. Learn what it feels like just before the point of no return,

and learn to stop when you feel it coming on, when you still can stop.

I can control my ejaculations now to the point where I go past the

point of no return, have a contraction or two, pause a moment then

continue thrusting. Doing this over and over giving me a series of

mini orgasms. When I finally let it come it has built up to a really

great climax.

Good luck!

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> Gentlemen, i am in this group for educating my self in sexual

issues. The problem is premature ejaculation. I request members to

discuss different methods and techniques please.vidhyasagar.

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> Gentlemen, i am in this group for educating my self in sexual

issues. The problem is premature ejaculation. I request members to

discuss different methods and techniques please.vidhyasagar.

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On Mon, 02 Mar 2009 06:06:50 -0000, you wrote:

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>> Gentlemen, i am in this group for educating my self in sexual

>issues. The problem is premature ejaculation. I request members to

>discuss different methods and techniques please.vidhyasagar.

The oldest remedy has been to come once before. The staying power on

the second is almost always much longer. That may mean you masturbate

before your date to make it the second time. I suspect once you have

some successes that way, the anxiety will diminish and you'll fare

better on the firsts.

When it does occur just acknowledge it ( " damn you're jsut too exciting

for me " ) and focus on pleasing her. Give her oral sex, a hand job,

bring in a vibrator or such to please her. After 20 minutes or so,

you'll most likely be ready to go again and for longer.

Most women have encountered it before. The issue becomes not leaving

them " high and dry " because of it. There's lots of way to please her

till you're ready again.

[Guest guest]

I'm not sure where you're located at, but this medical

group(specializes in ED AND PREMATURE EJACULATION) has affiliates

scattered throughout the U.S. in several states, and a " doctor

locator " service on their website. I don't know anything about them

other than I found the medical group on a Google search once.

So, if it is severe enough of a problem for you, you might want to at

least contact them and see what they can tell you..hope it helps!!

http://www.bostonmedicalgroup.com/

Jim

> >>

> >> Gentlemen, i am in this group for educating my self in sexual

> >issues. The problem is premature ejaculation. I request members to

> >discuss different methods and techniques please.vidhyasagar.

>

>

> The oldest remedy has been to come once before. The staying power on

> the second is almost always much longer. That may mean you

masturbate

> before your date to make it the second time. I suspect once you

have

> some successes that way, the anxiety will diminish and you'll fare

> better on the firsts.

>

> When it does occur just acknowledge it ( " damn you're jsut too

exciting

> for me " ) and focus on pleasing her. Give her oral sex, a hand job,

> bring in a vibrator or such to please her. After 20 minutes or so,

> you'll most likely be ready to go again and for longer.

>

> Most women have encountered it before. The issue becomes not leaving

> them " high and dry " because of it. There's lots of way to please

her

> till you're ready again.

>

[Guest guest]

good suggestions are coming. all of them  are valuable I am located in India

 please pour your advices. vidhyasagar. 

From: Jim <wiregrass.bama.fan@...>

Subject: Re: premature ejauculation

Date: Tuesday, 3 March, 2009, 4:25 AM

I'm not sure where you're located at, but this medical

group(specializes in ED AND PREMATURE EJACULATION) has affiliates

scattered throughout the U.S. in several states, and a " doctor

locator " service on their website. I don't know anything about them

other than I found the medical group on a Google search once.

So, if it is severe enough of a problem for you, you might want to at

least contact them and see what they can tell you..hope it helps!!

http://www.bostonme dicalgroup. com/

Jim

> >>

> >> Gentlemen, i am in this group for educating my self in sexual

> >issues. The problem is premature ejaculation. I request members to

> >discuss different methods and techniques please.vidhyasagar.

>

>

> The oldest remedy has been to come once before. The staying power on

> the second is almost always much longer. That may mean you

masturbate

> before your date to make it the second time. I suspect once you

have

> some successes that way, the anxiety will diminish and you'll fare

> better on the firsts.

>

> When it does occur just acknowledge it ( " damn you're jsut too

exciting

> for me " ) and focus on pleasing her. Give her oral sex, a hand job,

> bring in a vibrator or such to please her. After 20 minutes or so,

> you'll most likely be ready to go again and for longer.

>

> Most women have encountered it before. The issue becomes not leaving

> them " high and dry " because of it. There's lots of way to please

her

> till you're ready again.

>

Add more friends to your messenger and enjoy! Go to

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[Guest guest]

I am not sure if it is a moderation call, but this is a group that

concerns itself with:

" A place for men with Hypogonadism, Low Testosterone, Andropause,

delayed puberty, Klinefelters, hereditary hormonal problems, or HIV

related hormonal disorders to discuss their condition and get advice

and support. "

I think I saw a group that was dedicated to premature

ejaculation, which may give you another place to check.

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> Gentlemen, i am in this group for educating my self in sexual

issues. The problem is premature ejaculation. I request members to

discuss different methods and techniques please.vidhyasagar.

>

>

> Add more friends to your messenger and enjoy! Go to

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