Guest guest Posted October 14, 2008 Report Share Posted October 14, 2008 Hi , I feel the Psychological feelings come after or do to the low hormones when I first got sick 25 yrs ago Dr.'s tested everything but hormones. I was off work on sick leave yep low T made me so dam sick I could not work. So what happens the dam Dr.'s tell me I am suffering from Major Depression and because I was off work on sick leave I had to go along with this. I was on every kind of AD drug on the market this crap when on for 5 yrs and them head Dr.'s almost cost me my job and marriage. Long story shot you can read it at this link. http://www.stopthethyroidmadness.com/stories-of-others/phils-story/ Still when the Dr. found me to have low T he still did not have it right I was told I am Primary meaning my testis don't work after being on TRT for over 23 yrs and just getting by I found out I am not Primary but I am Secondary my pituitary is bad do to a head injury some 25 yrs. ago. Now we treat all the low hormones that the pituitary controls and I am now after all this time doing much better. Co-Moderator Phil > From: <victorinocks@...> > Subject: Psychological effects of hypogonadism > > Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 9:59 AM > This may sound like a dumb question but I am relatively new > to the > group and have not seen this topic discussed. The > psychological > effects of hypogonadism ; are they due to physiological > reasons or > just plain old anger, depression and anxiety from having it > (hypo)? In > essence, which came first? the chicken or the egg? > One of the issues I am finally coming to terms with are my > experiences > as a boy and teenager with hypo. They were not good and > created a lot > anxiety and resentment in my life. I have been in > counseling for > several years and it wasnt until a change to new psych > doctor that I > have finally " broke thru that wall " . His first > question about hypo > was " how did that make you feel? " Until now, I > never talked about my > hypo just kept it to myself and tried to cover up the > effects both > physically and mentally. I lived in denial and > embarrassment. My new > psych doctor suggested support groups like this to talk > about it with > others that have the same experiences. I am glad to have > found this > site. I dont feel like the only with it and comforted to > see it can be > controlled with proper living and medication. > > > ------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2008 Report Share Posted October 14, 2008 Oh, it is a double edged sword... Low testosterone and/or high estrogen will make you lethargic, depressed, irritable and apathetic. Physiologically, this happens because low T and/or high E causes your system to bind up more of your thyroid hormones in THBG. This makes you tired, put on weight easily, and depressed. It also further lowers your T. Physical side effects aside, this condition eats away at your self esteem and self worth. One of the symptoms is being so apathetic that you don't really care if you get better or not. Nasty. Then there are the physical side effects. Man, that strikes right at the core of your identity. I won't go into all of that because it sounds like you have in counseling. In this case it isn't chicken and egg, it's more like crocodile and alligator or python and poisonous snake. They both eat you up and make you feel smaller and less significant and can poison relationships and everything you care about...... And, it doesn't get the attention that something like menopause gets. They get mad and throw things while we just whither while our will to live leaks away. Oh, and so many of us wind up on SSRI's which cause even more problems. I'm so glad there are groups like this where we can share knowledge and experiences, and help to educate our docs. -Mike > > This may sound like a dumb question but I am relatively new to the > group and have not seen this topic discussed. The psychological > effects of hypogonadism ; are they due to physiological reasons or > just plain old anger, depression and anxiety from having it (hypo)? In > essence, which came first? the chicken or the egg? > One of the issues I am finally coming to terms with are my experiences > as a boy and teenager with hypo. They were not good and created a lot > anxiety and resentment in my life. I have been in counseling for > several years and it wasnt until a change to new psych doctor that I > have finally " broke thru that wall " . His first question about hypo > was " how did that make you feel? " Until now, I never talked about my > hypo just kept it to myself and tried to cover up the effects both > physically and mentally. I lived in denial and embarrassment. My new > psych doctor suggested support groups like this to talk about it with > others that have the same experiences. I am glad to have found this > site. I dont feel like the only with it and comforted to see it can be > controlled with proper living and medication. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2008 Report Share Posted October 14, 2008 I have also dealt with psychological difficulties all my life, but I am doing much better. It may be a situation where the Endocrine system due to low T, cannot secrete certain hormones in healthy levels to where they need to travel. As I am learning how to control my mental issues, I realized I felt really inferior, due to not maturing in areas of my body as I should have. Also, I always suffered from weight issues, and fatigue, and being anti society in dating, etc. Now I know I had high " E2 " and low T for the longest. I think the Endocrine system and other aspects of our biology should be more researched toward the effects of mental health. I have noticed we primarily focus on the medication and ranges of Endocrine but not the different hormones its in charge of secreting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2008 Report Share Posted October 14, 2008 Hi UU, I did not have to deal with weight issues but had sexual immaturity as a teenager. This had a profound effect on adolescence. Feelings of insecurity and " less than " were very common, they still pop up as an adult. For me, I have been keeping these feelings locked up for 40+ years and now beginning to deal with them. I too, believe there is a healthy balance of physical and mental health. We need both to feel good. As I can recall, it can be devastating for teenage boys to compare themselves with other boys ( locker room) Hypogonadism only compounds the feelings of inadequacy even more. I will find the proper balance. From: U U <uu1845@...> Subject: Re: Psychological effects of hypogonadism Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 5:07 PM I have also dealt with psychological difficulties all my life, but I am doing much better. It may be a situation where the Endocrine system due to low T, cannot secrete certain hormones in healthy levels to where they need to travel. As I am learning how to control my mental issues, I realized I felt really inferior, due to not maturing in areas of my body as I should have. Also, I always suffered from weight issues, and fatigue, and being anti society in dating, etc. Now I know I had high " E2 " and low T for the longest. I think the Endocrine system and other aspects of our biology should be more researched toward the effects of mental health. I have noticed we primarily focus on the medication and ranges of Endocrine but not the different hormones its in charge of secreting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2008 Report Share Posted October 14, 2008 Hey, thanks for sharing that . I would like to read your story and how Hypogandism has played a role. I hope your life is improving after such a long time, not being able to share and feel secure about yourself. From: U U <uu1845 (DOT) com> Subject: Re: Psychological effects of hypogonadism Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 5:07 PM I have also dealt with psychological difficulties all my life, but I am doing much better. It may be a situation where the Endocrine system due to low T, cannot secrete certain hormones in healthy levels to where they need to travel. As I am learning how to control my mental issues, I realized I felt really inferior, due to not maturing in areas of my body as I should have. Also, I always suffered from weight issues, and fatigue, and being anti society in dating, etc. Now I know I had high " E2 " and low T for the longest. I think the Endocrine system and other aspects of our biology should be more researched toward the effects of mental health. I have noticed we primarily focus on the medication and ranges of Endocrine but not the different hormones its in charge of secreting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2008 Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 Guys this is great, Thank you for sharing. I have been waking up everyday feeling like a piece of shit and going through my days looking at other guys and women for that matter with more stunk and life in them that I could ever imagine having. Forget aboutr having a career in sales or be competitive in the office politics when you feel like shooting yourself most of the time. Yet I have learned that there is hope. Proper medication and stimulation can help. I want to fight this and embrace my junkyness. I need shots, pills and gels to be ok, so be it. I am bitter yes but I can go on and show them i can too win, sometimes. I happen to be gay and part of what is called teh " Bear Community " . Bears are big, hairy, masculine guys involved in sports, cigars, beer drinking and a bunch of manly things. I look ok in the middle, I am what we call a cub. Surely the company of these guys makes me feel good, like a change from the despise I experience in my teenage years from my dad to all other males and females. Funny how society just will not forgive you for being a freak. Bastards. Keep up the good work guys, we too have balls. Maybe mush bigger than they will ever have them... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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