Not straight and simple Karva Chauth

October 10, 2009

Supriya Bhardwaj, TNN 8 October 2009,

CHANDIGARH: Karva Chauth, which is the celebration of matrimonial love and

devotion, is also changing as our society's definition of marriage evolves.

New facets of traditional relationships emerged, as city residents observed the

festival on Wednesday.

Apart from married women, men also fasted on the day. But the most novel

development of this year's festival was that homosexuals also became part of the

celebrations. Paro, 19, a gay man from Manimajra, fasted for his " husband " on

the day.

Clad in a salwar-kameez, Paro joined the women of his locality in listening to

vrat katha and worshipping. Apart from participating in rituals with women, Paro

was also excited about the gifts that his " husband " bestowed upon him.

" This Karva Chauth, my husband bought me a gold chain and silver anklets. The

attitude of society is gradually changing regarding us, " he said.

A gay couple in Panchkula also fasted for each other's longevity. They said the

court's order relaxing rules under Section 377 of Indian Penal Code had made

their lives easier. " After such a long time, we are enjoying a certain amount of

freedom thanks to court's order. We are like any other couple and have normal

feelings, " said the " husband " on condition of anonymity.

Temples and parks emerged as hub of activity on Wednesday when women worshipped

and listened to vrat katha. The wait for the moon led to roads in city being

deserted in the evening. However, the night saw many visiting the markets.

Married men also continued the recent tradition of fasting for long lives of

their wives.

Sector-44 resident Kavita Sharma, who tied the knot recently, said, " This time,

my husband too decided to fast with me. "

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