19 Children - The Duggar Family Set of Rules-

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Thanks to for reccommending the Duggar Family Site.  I am amazed at this

family Child # 19 is due in January 2009 !!

 

http://www.duggarfamily.com/

 

From one of the pictures of the family activities the following was in the

caption:

 

....... With 17 children in the home, organization is a necessary virtue.

 

I think the same should be said with respect to the a home with Autism present,

or any home or household for that matter.

 

Below you will find the Duggar Family Rules:

 

Always use soft words, even when you don¢t feel well.

Always display kind actions and joyful attitudes, even if you have been

mistreated. Have the right response by quickly forgiving others in your heart

even before they ask.

Always be enthusiastic and look for opportunities to praise others' character.

Always deflect praise and be grateful to God and others for the ways they have

benefited your life.

Always use manners and be respectful of others and their belongings.

Always do what is right, even when others may not, or when no one is looking.

Thank God for how He made you, for what He has given you and everything He

allows you to go through. (Romans 8:28)

Don¢t mock or put others down. Develop compassion and pray for others.

Never argue, complain, or blame. Quickly admit when you have done wrong and ask

for forgiveness (even if you were only 10% at fault). Don't wait till you¢re

caught. Be sure your sins will find you out. He who covers his sin will not

prosper, but he that confesses and forsakes it shall find mercy.

Have a tough accountability/prayer partner to daily share your heart with and to

keep you in line (your parents, spouse). The power of sin is in secrecy.

Be attentive and look for ways to serve others with sincere motives and no

thought of self-gain.

Think pure thoughts (Philippians 4:8, Romans 13:14).

Always give a good report of others. Don't gossip! Never tale-bear unless

physical harm will come to someone. (Use 18.)

Never raise a hand to hit.

Never raise a foot to kick.

Never raise an object to throw.

Never raise a voice to yell.

Never raise an eye to scowl.

Use one toy/activity at a time. Share!

Do your best to keep your surroundings neat, clean and organized.

Never let the sun go down on your wrath. (Don¢t go to bed angry or guilty)

Amendment J.O.Y. -

       Put Jesus first, Others second, Yourself last.