Re: Rhonda/ lots of our love to you and yours Digest Number 13953

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Hi Rhonda,

We all feel for you.

May we know what supps you are giving him? AND when this started had you given

any new supplements?

I'm a 50 year old woman. I have never head banged in my life until about 4 years

ago. I will never forget it. I had taken a supplement I believe it was cat's

claw. I absolutely head banged for about 30 minutes. I took my bedroom door and

kept smashing it on my forehead. I intellectually knew what I was doing but HAD

to do this behavior BECAUSE it felt BETTER than what I was feeling in my brain.

That's the only way I can describe it.

I've never done it since.

It was not frustration for me, although it might be for your son. I have

experienced since becoming very poisoned, (14 fillings, vaccines at 40, rogham

shots, etc.) an inability at times to find words, then missed opportunities to

enter conversations. Very frustrating. I could see how that kind of inability

could cause a bright, trapped person to do that.

However I really banged when it was very specific die off reaction, IMO.

We are here for you day and night. It will get better. Persevere.

Chelation made dramatic changes in my life and brain. So did anti-fungals. I am

getting much better currently with diflucan (200 mgs @ day) and nystatin

(500,000 iu.s) @ day. And I can tolerate the red nystatin pill. Miracle.

Andy's way is safest. And works... hands down.

I am a living miracle.

Be well.

God is greater.

Alison F.

I'm an artist. See if you can get your child to draw their feelings, with sketch

book and crayons. Not necessarily pictures, but what is he feeling inside. Draw

the pain or the problem.

When I was much more locked up and thoughts didn't match words, I could still

draw. And the drawings were very telling. At the least it's an avenue to get

what's inside out for others to perceive his exsistence.

Whatever turns him on and he loves...do more!!!! Hugging, flowers, soft

blankets. Whatever, give him what he needs to hold onto and continue to strive

for. Love from loved ones works wonders. Got any pets? Something about I believe

the healthy mitochondria a pet has, goes through us, and when we lack that

energy, hugging a pet transfers good energy, with no expectations to return.

Sometimes one may feel the pain of the parents need to communicate with the

child that just gets too over bearing.

All about what's he feeling.

Be well. There is a way out. Chelate.

Hang in there, expect the healing.

3a. SELF ABUSE...My beautiful boy is beating his head and biting his fis

Posted by: " Rhonda " designbybuess@... mymomsaysiamthebestdesigner

Date: Tue Dec 2, 2008 10:19 am ((PST))

My little 6 year old autistic boy who used to just throw tantrums by screaming

is

now (for the

last 4 months) beating his head (temples) with his fists when he doesn't get

what he wants,

when he is hurting, when he just disagrees with you, when he doesn't understand.

He is also

biting his wrist to where it has left a big callus and at one point bled. He

has

40 hour-week

ABA therapy and the therapists try to prevent this, but it is escalating!

Does anyone have any ideas? I can't stand to watch this beautiful little boy

hurt himself,

leaving bruises all over his face

He is under the care of a great DAN doc but we just recently did a ton of tests

and are waiting

for the results. If anyone has any ideas in the meantime, I would love some

input.

Thank you,

Rhonda

(mother of 2 boys with Autism, oldest with chronic seizures for the last 7

years...both

typical

before vaccinations!)