Re: Relationships with Men!!!!!!!!

[Guest guest]

HI Beth, I am so sorry that you are suffering a broken heart on top of

everything else. I can't believe this man broke up with you in an e-mail???

What was he thinking. You deserve much better than that. On the other hand

maybe it is better as apparently he just didn't have it in him to tell you face

to face maybe because of your illness and his inability to deal with it. You

deserve someone who will be with you no matter what, in sickness and in health.

Hang in there, I know it hurts right now, but there is something better out

there for you.

Sincerely,

Deanna

[Guest guest]

It is really crazy because he had cervical neck surgery 5 yrs ago and seemed to

have empathy for me. When he bought my plane ticket he asked me if I needed a

wheelchair. He also told me to really tell him If I was hurting and he would get

ice packs and lay down next to me.Bought me a $100 temperpedic pillow to keep in

Jax,$200 dinners and holding my hand while I threw up over and over while sick.

I think he had the week all planned out and wanted it to be perfect. Two days

before he asked me if he was the one and I said yes. He said good because he was

going to move full steam ahead with our relationship. WTF! My dad says that he

got scared when I got sick. Dad says give him a little time. He also said that

he never wanted to lose my friendship. He just wanted to back up and work on the

friendship part of our relationship.I told him that the romantic part of us was

now 95% dead. There is a 5% chance it can be saved. I am going to give him

until Jan 10 to change his mind. It is my birthday. I also knew that Dec would

be a tough month for us. His work schedule is insane. Since we were childhood

friends we were trying to plan a reunion of all of our neighborhood friends. He

said that January would be too soon to see me. He still cares he just needs to

really miss me and know that he screwed up. I plan on posting (on facebook)lots

of pic of me looking fabulous at the reunion. This is really tough because he

did things for me that my ex husband of 17yrs never did.

[Guest guest]

Im sorry this happened to you... Problem is, once you get sick you lose

good friends cause they think you wont be well and they may have to take care

of you, and mainly family and loved ones... Everyone seems to get scared

when we all come down sick... I used to be very active, going, driving and

having a full life... I am now a stay at home disable and play a lot on the

computer cause I cant do much else when I have pain... Your guy seems to

have been shell shocked... It scares him cause he thinks pain, wheel chairs,

doctor appointments, drugs, driving you, paying for a care person ect ect...

Give him some time perhaps and see if he comes around... Not saying he

will cause most run like hell from us... I am so sorry that things have

happened like this for you... I am hoping things come to mind for him how he

loves you and can try to deal with it all... Prayers to you...

Love and Peace

Always

Shaun and Barb

Aka: ScarlettShaun