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Hi Machelle

Ken & I tend to be 'loners' too. as we were put thru 'social death' when I was

being honest about having Hepc.... turns out most people don't want to know

about & tend to think we're 'highly contagious' so I don't mention it too often

escept as a precaution to medical people.. some of whom don't wear eye

protection when drawing blood from... these MD & nurses & technicians can

sometimes choose to think they can't get this virus evidently?! Also I want

them to use protection for me sake also!

arlene

Machelle wrote:

> I must admit something...I am on several other lists (non Hep related) and

> this list is the only one that I actively participate in because usually I

> am a very shy person and tend to stick to being by myself most of the time.

> I feel like I have made some good friends here. I'd like to thank all of you

> for making me feel soooooo welcomed. You guys make me feel like I can be

> free to speak about anything...not just hep related.

>

> Machelle

>

>

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Right On!!!!!! Jan

arlene

Jannewilms42@... wrote:

Machelle as

time goes by you'll see we do talk about alot of things..Some are verypersona

so please don't be offended but we feel better when we vent our anger or

hurt..Helps releive stress..See everyone here knows my present hubby is

an alcoholic and an ass and I'm not ashamed to say it either..We are always

fighting and he knows now I'm tired of his BS too..See now that's personal..Hell

I think I even have talked about that time of the month in here and if

I haven't yet I want everyone to know I have a horrible case of PMS today!!!

It is high time I have my surgery done so I'm not in such pain anymore..See

Machelle I'm far from shy girl so loosen up and feel free to talk ..If

you want to e-mail one of us privately we don't mind that either..Hell

we enjoy that too..I know I do..Right everyone??

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Machelle-- you must be referring HEPATITISFAMILY list - a lot of people

on this list were on that list.....Thanks again --- & Diane for

help with hooking up to this list when it first started

arlene

Machelle wrote:

That

is so good to hear. I am on several cooking related lists that only want

recipes, cooking tips, etc. and if you try to send in something unrelated

to that, you can get BANNED from the lists. I was on another list

for Hep. before I came here and the list owner got mad because someone

on the list sent me a bunch of Hep. links from a guy who the list owner

was mad at. To say the least, I unsubbed to that list. I think with alot

of list owners, it's a power thing... It is so wonderful to have found

a list I can call "home".And

I love getting private email too... Machelle

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Being shy

Machelle as time goes by you'll

see we do talk about alot of things..Some are verypersona so please don't

be offended but we feel better when we vent our anger or hurt..Helps releive

stress..See everyone here knows my present hubby is an alcoholic and an

ass and I'm not ashamed to say it either..We are always fighting and he

knows now I'm tired of his BS too..See now that's personal..Hell I think

I even have talked about that time of the month in here and if I haven't

yet I want everyone to know I have a horrible case of PMS today!!! It is

high time I have my surgery done so I'm not in such pain anymore..See Machelle

I'm far from shy girl so loosen up and feel free to talk ..If you want

to e-mail one of us privately we don't mind that either..Hell we enjoy

that too..I know I do..Right everyone??

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I'll ask Ken If he can help in that dept as I've forgotten how My

pic used to be post on the HEPATITISFAMILY website but I have no idea if

it's still there or not

arlene

Machelle wrote:

Does

anyone have pics that they could post to the groups site at . so I

will know who I'm chatting with?? I have a pic I can post if anyone would

like to see me... Just a thought..Machelle

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Being shy

Machelle it is us who feel great

about you being here with us..It is always nice to see a new face in here..Yes

you can talk about anything like I well said..I know I do..So far no one

has gotten upset with me either..Maybe they know I'm a little nuts being

from Louisiana..LOL

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dz---how true!

imaganeer wrote:

> One of the more difficult things is that we normally

> do not " appear " to be ill. So people think we are not.

> I know many people thought I was being unsociable

> because I did not participate in any outside

> activities. I quit my guitar lessons, quit going to

> NA/AA meetings, quit going to my home fellowship

> group, etc. People just don't understand if you are

> not physically ill or pale or coughing and wheezing,

> how hard it is to get yourself going. -dz-

>

> --- Jannewilms42@... wrote:

> > Yes at times you do because without her having it

> > too she doesn't fully

> > understand what we go through physically or

> > mentally..I know I tend to keep

> > alot in with my spouse but I already told ya about

> > him..I have had people say

> > " I know what you're going through " ..I just look and

> > ask them if they got it

> > and when they say no then I say well then you

> > don't..Only someone with this

> > Dragon really knows just like a person with

> > something else.

> >

>

> __________________________________________________

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Machelle as time goes by you'll see we do talk about alot of things..Some are verypersona so please don't be offended but we feel better when we vent our anger or hurt..Helps releive stress..See everyone here knows my present hubby is an alcoholic and an ass and I'm not ashamed to say it either..We are always fighting and he knows now I'm tired of his BS too..See now that's personal..Hell I think I even have talked about that time of the month in here and if I haven't yet I want everyone to know I have a horrible case of PMS today!!! It is high time I have my surgery done so I'm not in such pain anymore..See Machelle I'm far from shy girl so loosen up and feel free to talk ..If you want to e-mail one of us privately we don't mind that either..Hell we enjoy that too..I know I do..Right everyone??

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Machelle it is us who feel great about you being here with us..It is always nice to see a new face in here..Yes you can talk about anything like I well said..I know I do..So far no one has gotten upset with me either..Maybe they know I'm a little nuts being from Louisiana..LOL

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Yes at times you do because without her having it too she doesn't fully understand what we go through physically or mentally..I know I tend to keep alot in with my spouse but I already told ya about him..I have had people say "I know what you're going through"..I just look and ask them if they got it and when they say no then I say well then you don't..Only someone with this Dragon really knows just like a person with something else.

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Machelle this is the first group that I got into &

so far the only group. I like to thank of this group

as one large family that will listen & give some

needed information on anything that one might need.

Terry

--- Machelle <catkrazy@...> wrote:

> I must admit something...I am on several other lists

> (non Hep related) and

> this list is the only one that I actively

> participate in because usually I

> am a very shy person and tend to stick to being by

> myself most of the time.

> I feel like I have made some good friends here. I'd

> like to thank all of you

> for making me feel soooooo welcomed. You guys make

> me feel like I can be

> free to speak about anything...not just hep related.

>

> Machelle

>

>

>

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That is so good to hear. I am on several cooking related lists that only want recipes, cooking tips, etc. and if you try to send in something unrelated to that, you can get BANNED from the lists. I was on another list for Hep. before I came here and the list owner got mad because someone on the list sent me a bunch of Hep. links from a guy who the list owner was mad at. To say the least, I unsubbed to that list. I think with alot of list owners, it's a power thing... It is so wonderful to have found a list I can call "home".

And I love getting private email too...

Machelle

Re: [ ] Being shy

Machelle as time goes by you'll see we do talk about alot of things..Some are verypersona so please don't be offended but we feel better when we vent our anger or hurt..Helps releive stress..See everyone here knows my present hubby is an alcoholic and an ass and I'm not ashamed to say it either..We are always fighting and he knows now I'm tired of his BS too..See now that's personal..Hell I think I even have talked about that time of the month in here and if I haven't yet I want everyone to know I have a horrible case of PMS today!!! It is high time I have my surgery done so I'm not in such pain anymore..See Machelle I'm far from shy girl so loosen up and feel free to talk ..If you want to e-mail one of us privately we don't mind that either..Hell we enjoy that too..I know I do..Right everyone??

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That's one of the things I like about this group. I

do have a very loving & supportive wife who is always

there for me. But some times you need another outlet

to vent your worries & anger.

--- Jannewilms42@... wrote:

> Machelle as time goes by you'll see we do talk about

> alot of things..Some are

> verypersona so please don't be offended but we feel

> better when we vent our

> anger or hurt..Helps releive stress..See everyone

> here knows my present hubby

> is an alcoholic and an ass and I'm not ashamed to

> say it either..We are

> always fighting and he knows now I'm tired of his BS

> too..See now that's

> personal..Hell I think I even have talked about that

> time of the month in

> here and if I haven't yet I want everyone to know I

> have a horrible case of

> PMS today!!! It is high time I have my surgery done

> so I'm not in such pain

> anymore..See Machelle I'm far from shy girl so

> loosen up and feel free to

> talk ..If you want to e-mail one of us privately we

> don't mind that

> either..Hell we enjoy that too..I know I do..Right

> everyone??

>

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Does anyone have pics that they could post to the groups site at . so I will know who I'm chatting with?? I have a pic I can post if anyone would like to see me... Just a thought..

Machelle

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Machelle it is us who feel great about you being here with us..It is always nice to see a new face in here..Yes you can talk about anything like I well said..I know I do..So far no one has gotten upset with me either..Maybe they know I'm a little nuts being from Louisiana..LOL

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Your right there Jan, Susy has medical problems. I

try to understand & can see what she's going through

but I don't really understand. She has her on line

supports with others going through what she is. For a

matter of fact she talked me into joining this group.

Terry

--- Jannewilms42@... wrote:

> Yes at times you do because without her having it

> too she doesn't fully

> understand what we go through physically or

> mentally..I know I tend to keep

> alot in with my spouse but I already told ya about

> him..I have had people say

> " I know what you're going through " ..I just look and

> ask them if they got it

> and when they say no then I say well then you

> don't..Only someone with this

> Dragon really knows just like a person with

> something else.

>

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Great

Let's all do it again - it's good for some laughs.

I'll try to sneak the digital camera at work and get one of me & my truck.

Dennis

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Machelle it is us who feel great about you being here with us..It is always nice to see a new face in here..Yes you can talk about anything like I well said..I know I do..So far no one has gotten upset with me either..Maybe they know I'm a little nuts being from Louisiana..LOL

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Machelle,

We are one of a kind.... Aren't we???? I am glad that you found us...

You can be yourself and just forget for a bit about our Hep C...... ;o

Glad you are here!!!!!

Angel Hugs,

Diane

May Rainbow Dreams Color Your World With Love, Hope, Peace & Unity

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I believe that was Dennis that was getting passed

around... :0 -dz-

--- Jannewilms42@... wrote:

> Send yours so we can see ya..We had passed Dave

> around for a while...Remember

> that one Dave??

>

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One of the more difficult things is that we normally

do not " appear " to be ill. So people think we are not.

I know many people thought I was being unsociable

because I did not participate in any outside

activities. I quit my guitar lessons, quit going to

NA/AA meetings, quit going to my home fellowship

group, etc. People just don't understand if you are

not physically ill or pale or coughing and wheezing,

how hard it is to get yourself going. -dz-

--- Jannewilms42@... wrote:

> Yes at times you do because without her having it

> too she doesn't fully

> understand what we go through physically or

> mentally..I know I tend to keep

> alot in with my spouse but I already told ya about

> him..I have had people say

> " I know what you're going through " ..I just look and

> ask them if they got it

> and when they say no then I say well then you

> don't..Only someone with this

> Dragon really knows just like a person with

> something else.

>

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That's the list. It seemed like it was going to be a good list, but then the list owner had to show his ass about everything. I don't need that. So I guess you could say I showed my ass right back to him...lol

Re: [ ] Being shy Machelle as time goes by you'll see we do talk about alot of things..Some are verypersona so please don't be offended but we feel better when we vent our anger or hurt..Helps releive stress..See everyone here knows my present hubby is an alcoholic and an ass and I'm not ashamed to say it either..We are always fighting and he knows now I'm tired of his BS too..See now that's personal..Hell I think I even have talked about that time of the month in here and if I haven't yet I want everyone to know I have a horrible case of PMS today!!! It is high time I have my surgery done so I'm not in such pain anymore..See Machelle I'm far from shy girl so loosen up and feel free to talk ..If you want to e-mail one of us privately we don't mind that either..Hell we enjoy that too..I know I do..Right everyone??

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The only people I have told about having Hep C & my

treatment are a few close friends, my bosses at work

so if I wasn't feeling up to par & wasn't performing

as I should they would know why. Of course it got

around in my Deptment " but it hasn't out side my

department. There was a few quistions. But everyone

treats me the same as before. There as been a few days

that I wasn't feeling up to par that my Boss saw &

knew that I wasn't feeling well & let me leave early.

He likes the fact that I come in when I not feeling

well.

Terry

--- imaganeer <imaganeer@...> wrote:

> One of the more difficult things is that we normally

> do not " appear " to be ill. So people think we are

> not.

> I know many people thought I was being unsociable

> because I did not participate in any outside

> activities. I quit my guitar lessons, quit going to

> NA/AA meetings, quit going to my home fellowship

> group, etc. People just don't understand if you are

> not physically ill or pale or coughing and wheezing,

> how hard it is to get yourself going. -dz-

>

> --- Jannewilms42@... wrote:

> > Yes at times you do because without her having it

> > too she doesn't fully

> > understand what we go through physically or

> > mentally..I know I tend to keep

> > alot in with my spouse but I already told ya about

> > him..I have had people say

> > " I know what you're going through " ..I just look

> and

> > ask them if they got it

> > and when they say no then I say well then you

> > don't..Only someone with this

> > Dragon really knows just like a person with

> > something else.

> >

>

>

> __________________________________________________

>

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I was treated well at work also. I told my manager and

my supervisor. I took 5 weeks family medical leave

when I started tx, so I imagine the rest of the

department must have wondered what was wrong, but

nobody has questioned me. -dz-

--- Terry Long <pawpawto3@...> wrote:

> The only people I have told about having Hep C &

> my

> treatment are a few close friends, my bosses at work

> so if I wasn't feeling up to par & wasn't performing

> as I should they would know why. Of course it got

> around in my Deptment " but it hasn't out side my

> department. There was a few quistions. But everyone

> treats me the same as before. There as been a few

> days

> that I wasn't feeling up to par that my Boss saw &

> knew that I wasn't feeling well & let me leave

> early.

> He likes the fact that I come in when I not feeling

> well.

> Terry

> --- imaganeer <imaganeer@...> wrote:

> > One of the more difficult things is that we

> normally

> > do not " appear " to be ill. So people think we are

> > not.

> > I know many people thought I was being unsociable

> > because I did not participate in any outside

> > activities. I quit my guitar lessons, quit going

> to

> > NA/AA meetings, quit going to my home fellowship

> > group, etc. People just don't understand if you

> are

> > not physically ill or pale or coughing and

> wheezing,

> > how hard it is to get yourself going. -dz-

> >

> > --- Jannewilms42@... wrote:

> > > Yes at times you do because without her having

> it

> > > too she doesn't fully

> > > understand what we go through physically or

> > > mentally..I know I tend to keep

> > > alot in with my spouse but I already told ya

> about

> > > him..I have had people say

> > > " I know what you're going through " ..I just look

> > and

> > > ask them if they got it

> > > and when they say no then I say well then you

> > > don't..Only someone with this

> > > Dragon really knows just like a person with

> > > something else.

> > >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >

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