Re: Small testicles and scared I may not be able to conceive in a few years

[Guest guest]

" How did I explain, Honey I have to continue doing PE exercises because I want

my penis to continue growing. Oh, Honey, I may not be able to conceive a child

due to my abnormal small testicles...Stuff like this I dnt read on this site,

but other sites specifically geared toward the feelings behind this I do. "

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Sorry this part may be unclear.

I am just saying, how do I ask this from a woman who has options and choices in

other men without having hormonal difficulties.

How do I ask a successful woman, please respect that I need to continue PE?

Or, please work with me if we become serious, and would like to start a

family...

Or, please understand I have a hormonal disorder that makes my package smaller

and less noticeable than other males...

I can explain all of this and have her believe it, but I hope this will not make

her choose someone else.

_________________________________

I refuse to consider adoption for my first child! God owes me a child.

God owes me a relationship.

_________________________________

There must be something on the market that can at least make small testicles

appear larger...

HCG cannot help me from what was told to me, given my disorder is in my testes

and not my brain. I wish it was in my brain.

Have a safe and healthy weekend everyone

>

> Good day, I have very small testicles; another beautiful reminder of being

primary all my life.

>

> At 33, I have no idea when I will meet someone, in hopes to conceive.

>

> I have been thinking about this for a while now. To have my own family.

>

> The more I take T and also do PE, it seems it is working against me.

>

> My Endocrine doctor stated in order to conduct a sperm test, I must be off of

T for a few months. Of course if this happens, emotional difficulties, fatigue,

lack of erections may occur at a greater rate.

>

> I am reading other men and their stories with having smaller testicles, here

is one forum

" http://www.steadyhealth.com/Do_small_testicles_affect_fertility_in_men__t53354.\

html " .

>

> I remember when I started this journey in what is wrong with me, I had a

testicular Ultrasound in which the tech asked me did " I have sex " ? I told him

no. I guess he saw my testicles where small.

>

> My Endocrine doctor a few months ago stated after looking there, I " had

enough " to conceive and if not, there are drugs on the market.

>

> I have many feelings and questions. One is, I am asking a good successful

woman whomever she may be, to trust in me and eventually love me as her equal.

> ______________________________

>

> How did I explain, Honey I have to continue doing PE exercises because I want

my penis to continue growing. Oh, Honey, I may not be able to conceive a child

due to my abnormal small testicles...

>

>

> Stuff like this I dnt read on this site, but other sites specifically geared

toward the feelings behind this I do.

>

[Guest guest]

I hope you don't see this as a personal attack on you. I have no axe to grind,

but I do think I have some insight that could help improve your life.

The woman you want and need is out there somewhere, but you have to stop

obsessing about your genitals. I can't think of many things that would " creep

out " a woman, more than explaining that you need to be alone for a half hour to

work on your penis growth.

If you spend time with your " PE " you are thinking of yourself and not them.

Women also want to be more than your baby factory. Stop thinking about yourself

and start thinking about how to love, support and care for a woman.

Rest assured that God has a plan for you and your life, but it may have nothing

at all to do with what you want or expect in life. God is not a cosmic bellhop

who is there to do your bidding. You are not in charge, he is.

I know a " man " with Klinefleter's Syndrome who has breasts and very small

genitalia and scars from un-sucessful surgery. He has a woman who loves him

very much. They are very happy together.

There are also plenty of woman who can't get pregnant for various reasons. Could

you be " understanding " about that not reject her?

Randy Hoops

>

> I am just saying, how do I ask this from a woman who has options and choices

in other men without having hormonal difficulties.

>

> How do I ask a successful woman, please respect that I need to continue PE?

>

> Or, please work with me if we become serious, and would like to start a

family...

>

> Or, please understand I have a hormonal disorder that makes my package smaller

and less noticeable than other males...

>

> I can explain all of this and have her believe it, but I hope this will not

make her choose someone else.

[Guest guest]

I am one of the most compassionate and sincere person out there. I think of

others before myself many times. Doing PE is improving myself; a part which was

taken away due to primary hypogandism. Yes, conception is a focus for me

especially at 33. I keep thinking, it will happen quickly. But that is a lie

because I am no different than other men under similar health conditions.

Of course I don't read any guy or woman here also struggling from the effects of

hypogandism. All I read here are the medical stuff; it's enough info on this. I

would like to read stories and experiences whether good or bad. Make some of us

feel we are not crazy or alone in what hypogandism has caused.

I actually cried when they told me it wasn't K.S. Aside from the body framework,

I had most of the symptoms. At least I read men with K.S., could conceive more

normally than primary guys.

I had a few surgeries already for gyno. I am around 208 now, down from 255. If I

continue to lose weight, the breast tissue will also lessen.

There are a lot of women who cannot conceive and feel cheated as well. At least

with women, they have vaginas and breast. My last girlfriend, I shared a lot

with. But she was emotionally damaged herself. The only thing I can do is be

honest if I am fortunate to be in a relationship.

Do creative things, do what is nature to me which is treating her with respect

and humanity. The only thing I need is for her to reappear without me going

outside of my comfort zone.

I am not offended, but I do which more men on this site would talk about

feelings, etc

________________________________

From: k0cm <Randy@...>

Sent: Fri, September 17, 2010 10:17:45 PM

Subject: Re: Small testicles and scared I may not be able to

conceive in a few years

I hope you don't see this as a personal attack on you. I have no axe to grind,

but I do think I have some insight that could help improve your life.

The woman you want and need is out there somewhere, but you have to stop

obsessing about your genitals. I can't think of many things that would " creep

out " a woman, more than explaining that you need to be alone for a half hour to

work on your penis growth.

If you spend time with your " PE " you are thinking of yourself and not them.

Women also want to be more than your baby factory. Stop thinking about yourself

and start thinking about how to love, support and care for a woman.

Rest assured that God has a plan for you and your life, but it may have nothing

at all to do with what you want or expect in life. God is not a cosmic bellhop

who is there to do your bidding. You are not in charge, he is.

I know a " man " with Klinefleter's Syndrome who has breasts and very small

genitalia and scars from un-sucessful surgery. He has a woman who loves him

very much. They are very happy together.

There are also plenty of woman who can't get pregnant for various reasons. Could

you be " understanding " about that not reject her?

Randy Hoops

>

> I am just saying, how do I ask this from a woman who has options and choices

in

>other men without having hormonal difficulties.

>

>

> How do I ask a successful woman, please respect that I need to continue PE?

>

> Or, please work with me if we become serious, and would like to start a

>family...

>

> Or, please understand I have a hormonal disorder that makes my package smaller

>and less noticeable than other males...

>

> I can explain all of this and have her believe it, but I hope this will not

>make her choose someone else.

[Guest guest]

Well this is one female that cares nothing about the size of your genitalia,

including your balls. When I was a teenager, the guys we had crushes on were

cute, smart, and came from nice families. Not once did we ever discuss possible

size. And even when we were older and then knew you all came in different

sizes, that was never brought up. Discussions were no longer about cute, smart,

and their family, but their relationship with us. Do you pay attention when we

talk, do you shower every day, will you eat something besides a burger and fries

and take me out to a " real " restaurant, is there an actual friendship here or am

I just a sex toy?

I asked DH about this and he said yeah, guys talk about girls' breasts, legs,

butts, etc. all the time, you never talked about penis size with your

girlfriends? And my answer was nope, never. Some of you married guys should

ask your wives if that's true for them too, since I represent only one opinion.

I'd be curious.

Randy hit the nail on the head with his post. You realize size has nothing to

do with satisfying a woman, right? A woman's vagina accommodates to whatever

size you are, right up to the size of a baby's head. God designed it that way

because men come in different sizes, and so do babies!

I think Marc expressed it best when he said he could care less about his size

and just wanted to get his health and energy back, like when he was younger.

Those are my hubby's feelings exactly. He just wants to get through a day of

work without being so exhausted, and sometimes anxious. I am sometimes cutting

up trees in the yard because DH doesn't have the stamina; so maybe you are

dealing with somewhat different issues than most of the guys here.

Barb

>

> >

> > I am just saying, how do I ask this from a woman who has options and choices

in

> >other men without having hormonal difficulties.

> >

> >

> > How do I ask a successful woman, please respect that I need to continue PE?

> >

> > Or, please work with me if we become serious, and would like to start a

> >family...

> >

> > Or, please understand I have a hormonal disorder that makes my package

smaller

> >and less noticeable than other males...

> >

> > I can explain all of this and have her believe it, but I hope this will not

> >make her choose someone else.

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thank you for sharing Ma'am. The size issue will be with me until a woman gives

me a chance to finally feel accepted. I do PE because I can do something about

it. I grew up thinking I was defected and not knowing why. Now I know why and

this site has helped a lot. It's more than the size issue; hypogondism effects

more than your genital area. It effects your way of life.

Thank you for sharing your husband's progression with hypogondism. I sincerely

hope he regains his strength. I worry about this as I age through life.

A concern I have is the ability to conceive. I have no idea if you have children

Ma'am, but I can imagine your husband would feel horrible within if this right

was taken away from me due to no fault on his own.

Sure, I could go to a club / bar here and meet women, but I grew up thinking

this was impossible due to my size. I created a counter-culture almost. No, I am

not crying out for help. I am simply sharing what is real to me.

A lot of women due to discuss size openly. In contrast, a lot of women simply do

not care. What I care about at 33, is finding someone profound so I can start

the long and expensive progress of seeing if I can conceive. This makes me sad

Ma'am, but I cannot have it bring me down. It makes me angry when normal guys

can conceive while I have to wait.

I saw a " miracle of birth " DVD last semester, and it showed the millions of

sperm a man produces and how only a few make the journey to an egg. I nearly

walked and cried! I knew with me, I had maybe a hundred sperm and many of them

if not all, would not make this journey on its own.

How do you think that makes me feel along with doing PE every single day,

knowing the results are slow at best?

I don't hate women Ma'am; I still have faith. Spend a lot of money calling

physics as well. It's life while being primary for me.

Night

> >

> > >

> > > I am just saying, how do I ask this from a woman who has options and

choices in

> > >other men without having hormonal difficulties.

> > >

> > >

> > > How do I ask a successful woman, please respect that I need to continue

PE?

> > >

> > > Or, please work with me if we become serious, and would like to start a

> > >family...

> > >

> > > Or, please understand I have a hormonal disorder that makes my package

smaller

> > >and less noticeable than other males...

> > >

> > > I can explain all of this and have her believe it, but I hope this will

not

> > >make her choose someone else.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

There are really two parts to your wishes: a wish to have a female companion and

a wish to procreate.

What if the " " option were available for you....

Hire a doctor to select and concentrate some high quality sperm, do in-vitro

fertilizatioin and implant the fertilized egg in a host mother....

You get the baby and pay mom to go away...

Would that work for you?

What if you had the choice of " either / or " ? That is, a loving, but barren

relationship with a woman,or medically assisted procreation?

Which would you choose?

As for sharing feelings, I'm got a dick that was 8 1/2 inches erect a few

decades ago. Now despite T and Cialis it is, quite frankly, unpredictable.

Sometimes it works wonderfully without Cialis. At other times it fails

miserably despite chemical enhancement. Fortunatly, I have an understanding

wife. At one time she felt the problem was about her, that she wasn't

attractive enough to get me excited, but we worked through that issue.

Well, erection or no, I find a way to give her 3 or more orgasams before I turn

her loose.

What I am saying is that, basically, the penis doesn't matter. Even if the damn

limp thing fell off, we would still love each other and find a way to satisfy

our mutual desires.

I think you are deluding yourself if you think " PE " makes you a better person.

In any case, you have my best wishes for a content and happy life. That starts

with being clear about exactly what you want.

Randy Hoops

Yes, conception is a focus for me

[Guest guest]

Here is a link to my story your not alone here many of us have had our life's

ruined from hypogonadism.

http://forums.realthyroidhelp.com/viewtopic.php?f=5 & t=9239

Co-Moderator

Phil

> From: U U <uu1845@...>

> Subject: Re: Re: Small testicles and scared I may not be able

to conceive in a few years

>

> Date: Friday, September 17, 2010, 10:35 PM

> I am one of the most compassionate

> and sincere person out there. I think of

> others before myself many times. Doing PE is improving

> myself; a part which was

> taken away due to primary hypogandism. Yes, conception is a

> focus for me

> especially at 33. I keep thinking, it will happen quickly.

> But that is a lie

> because I am no different than other men under similar

> health conditions.

>

> Of course I don't read any guy or woman here also

> struggling from the effects of

> hypogandism. All I read here are the medical stuff; it's

> enough info on this. I

> would like to read stories and experiences whether good or

> bad. Make some of us

> feel we are not crazy or alone in what hypogandism has

> caused.

>

> I actually cried when they told me it wasn't K.S. Aside

> from the body framework,

> I had most of the symptoms. At least I read men with K.S.,

> could conceive more

> normally than primary guys.

>

> I had a few surgeries already for gyno. I am around 208

> now, down from 255. If I

> continue to lose weight, the breast tissue will also

> lessen.

>

>

> There are a lot of women who cannot conceive and feel

> cheated as well. At least

> with women, they have vaginas and breast. My last

> girlfriend, I shared a lot

> with. But she was emotionally damaged herself. The only

> thing I can do is be

> honest if I am fortunate to be in a relationship.

>

>

> Do creative things, do what is nature to me which is

> treating her with respect

> and humanity. The only thing I need is for her to reappear

> without me going

> outside of my comfort zone.

>

> I am not offended, but I do which more men on this site

> would talk about

> feelings, etc

>

>

>

>

>

> ________________________________

> From: k0cm <Randy@...>

>

> Sent: Fri, September 17, 2010 10:17:45 PM

> Subject: Re: Small testicles and scared I

> may not be able to

> conceive in a few years

>

>  

> I hope you don't see this as a personal attack on

> you.  I have no axe to grind,

> but I do think I have some insight that could help improve

> your life.

>

>

> The woman you want and need is out there somewhere, but you

> have to stop

> obsessing about your genitals.  I can't think of many

> things that would " creep

> out " a woman, more than explaining that you need to be

> alone for a half hour to

> work on your penis growth.

>

> If you spend time with your " PE " you are thinking of

> yourself and not them.

>

> Women also want to be more than your baby factory. Stop

> thinking about yourself

> and start thinking about how to love, support and care for

> a woman.

>

> Rest assured that God has a plan for you and your life, but

> it may have nothing

> at all to do with what you want or expect in life. 

> God is not a cosmic bellhop

> who is there to do your bidding. You are not in charge, he

> is.

>

> I know a " man " with Klinefleter's Syndrome who has breasts

> and very small

> genitalia and scars from un-sucessful surgery.  He has

> a woman who loves him

> very much.  They are very happy together.

>

> There are also plenty of woman who can't get pregnant for

> various reasons. Could

> you be " understanding " about that not reject her?

>

> Randy Hoops

>

>

>

> >

> > I am just saying, how do I ask this from a woman who

> has options and choices in

> >other men without having hormonal difficulties.

> >

> >

> > How do I ask a successful woman, please respect that I

> need to continue PE?

> >

> > Or, please work with me if we become serious, and

> would like to start a

> >family...

> >

> > Or, please understand I have a hormonal disorder that

> makes my package smaller

> >and less noticeable than other males...

> >

> > I can explain all of this and have her believe it, but

> I hope this will not

> >make her choose someone else.

>

>

>

>

>

>      

>

>

[Guest guest]

Well said Barb,

My wife and I have talked about this off and on we can talk about anything. She

told me her friends and women she worked with never talked about the size of a

man's member or do they care.

We crack up watching a movie where actors talk about how big the guy was they

were with the night before. You only see and hear this in the movies and on TV.

Co-Moderator

Phil

> From: Barb <baba@...>

> Subject: Re: Small testicles and scared I may not be able to

conceive in a few years

>

> Date: Friday, September 17, 2010, 11:21 PM

> Well this is one female that cares

> nothing about the size of your genitalia, including your

> balls.  When I was a teenager, the guys we had crushes

> on were cute, smart, and came from nice families.  Not

> once did we ever discuss possible size.  And even when

> we were older and then knew you all came in different sizes,

> that was never brought up.  Discussions were no longer

> about cute, smart, and their family, but their relationship

> with us.  Do you pay attention when we talk, do you

> shower every day, will you eat something besides a burger

> and fries and take me out to a " real " restaurant, is there

> an actual friendship here or am I just a sex toy? 

>

> I asked DH about this and he said yeah, guys talk about

> girls' breasts, legs, butts, etc. all the time, you never

> talked about penis size with your girlfriends?  And my

> answer was nope, never.  Some of you married guys

> should ask your wives if that's true for them too, since I

> represent only one opinion.  I'd be curious.

>

> Randy hit the nail on the head with his post.  You

> realize size has nothing to do with satisfying a woman,

> right?  A woman's vagina accommodates to whatever size

> you are, right up to the size of a baby's head.  God

> designed it that way because men come in different sizes,

> and so do babies!

>

> I think Marc expressed it best when he said he could care

> less about his size and just wanted to get his health and

> energy back, like when he was younger.  Those are my

> hubby's feelings exactly.  He just wants to get through

> a day of work without being so exhausted, and sometimes

> anxious.  I am sometimes cutting up trees in the yard

> because DH doesn't have the stamina; so maybe you are

> dealing with somewhat different issues than most of the guys

> here.

>

> Barb

>

>

>

> >

> > >

> > > I am just saying, how do I ask this from a woman

> who has options and choices in

> > >other men without having hormonal difficulties.

> > >

> > >

> > > How do I ask a successful woman, please respect

> that I need to continue PE?

> > >

> > > Or, please work with me if we become serious, and

> would like to start a

> > >family...

> > >

> > > Or, please understand I have a hormonal disorder

> that makes my package smaller

> > >and less noticeable than other males...

> > >

> > > I can explain all of this and have her believe

> it, but I hope this will not

> > >make her choose someone else.

> >

> >

> > 

> >

> >

> >       

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

Barb already mentioned what I said last time you started a thread, and I do not

wish to upset you again but I am going to make a recommendation to you.

If everything you are writing is legit, and you are not some internet

'prankster' per se,......I suggest you seek out some counseling for your

feelings of inadequacy/self-loathing.

What you are writing is beyond searching for a way to feel better,....I think

you have issues that might be helped by the above.

If you remain obsessed with yourself like you seem to be, no good woman will

ever wish to be with you.

Accept things, and start to live without worrying 24/7 about your penis size.

You will find someone someday to love that will love you back for yourself.

Many people live their lives without children, but there are also many things

that can be tried if you desire one of your own. If not there are plenty of

children that would love to be adopted by a nice loving couple.

You are living in a very dark place, and as long as you stay there nothing will

change.

[Guest guest]

Thanks and ill read

Re: Re: Small testicles and scared I may not be able

to conceive in a few years

>

> Date: Friday, September 17, 2010, 10:35 PM

> I am one of the most compassionate

> and sincere person out there. I think of

> others before myself many times. Doing PE is improving

> myself; a part which was

> taken away due to primary hypogandism. Yes, conception is a

> focus for me

> especially at 33. I keep thinking, it will happen quickly.

> But that is a lie

> because I am no different than other men under similar

> health conditions.

>

> Of course I don't read any guy or woman here also

> struggling from the effects of

> hypogandism. All I read here are the medical stuff; it's

> enough info on this. I

> would like to read stories and experiences whether good or

> bad. Make so

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