So I officially have low T

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I am 35 years old and found out randomly that I have low T, a second lab has

confirmed it. My T taken first thing in the morning was 210.25 L.

It all makes sense now. About 6 months ago I was PC referred me to a

psychiatrist because I was complaining about ADD symptoms being worse (was

diagnosed much younger but never medicated). They did a days worth of testing

from IQ to memory and determined I did not have ADD but anxiety and depression.

Of course, now knowing I have low T explains those symptoms. I also have been

very moody and easily agitated by the end of the day (which drives my wife

crazy).

So here's the problem, I would like to have more kids, but the urologist says I

can't start Androgel if I intend to have kids because it will make me infertile.

I can't keep feeling the way I do. Has anyone started HRT and still been able

to conceive?

More questions:

I work out regularly and have an ability to maintain muscle? I am not huge, but

muscular and defined. How is that possible if I have low T? Will I see any

difference with my work outs?

Also, once I start am I going to be on HRT all my life? I believe it's

expensive and a hassle to apply.

What if I start and I don't notice a difference, am I worse off then before?

Will I lose my hair if I am already suffering from male pattern baldness?

I am so confused as to what to do. The doctor told me to think about it and set

up an appointment with him if I decide that I want to pursue this.