Guest guest Posted March 14, 2000 Report Share Posted March 14, 2000 , Just hold on to the hope that you will get better and have an opportunity to have a normal healthy pregnancy and the same for the baby. We have to believe that. I know what you mean about doctors, even though I had my tubes tied years ago, they still make me get tested for pregnancy whenever I have certain symptoms or need to check into the hospital for tests or biopsies. The tubal ligation isn't good enough for them, which scares me. If they don't trust it how can I. I keep fearing I'll get pregnant, I have always done it very easily, but now is not good, I would be so afraid of giving the baby Lyme. But if it happened anyway, I think I would be hopeful and go through with the pregnancy and sort of even get excited about the idea. Must just be a mother thing, we always yearn to have that baby. I'm lucky I have two grandchildren, I started young and so did my daughter unfortunately. Hang in there. Vicki >From: " Cyntha Landon " <cyntha@...> > >I agree with the baby thing Vicki...I was so worried that I would be >pregnant and transfer this disease to another child. I couldn't bare to do >that. But yeah the yearning to hold another baby is very strong....but >sometimes...just got to be unselfish...also not to mention what it would do >to my body...I already have enough problems with it....thanks for your >reply....doctor had made me go in and take another pregnancy test but of >course it was negative...duh I already knew that from my test that I >took...sigh....thanks again.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2000 Report Share Posted March 15, 2000 It is not so much me that it really hurts...cause my body is just not ready. But my poor husband is. He wants a son so very badly. It hurts me to see his need not met. But I know with faith that God knows best. I told him I feel he will get his son but not as fast as he wants. I am almost 27 that gives me a good thirteen years...hope my husband can hold on lol....but he loves me no matter what. Here is praying. Cyntha Landon Idaho http://members.xoom.com/Myesha Re: [Lyme-aid] Babies > From: " Vicki Ferraro " <ferraroa@...> > > , > Just hold on to the hope that you will get better and have an opportunity to > have a normal healthy pregnancy and the same for the baby. We have to > believe that. I know what you mean about doctors, even though I had my tubes > tied years ago, they still make me get tested for pregnancy whenever I have > certain symptoms or need to check into the hospital for tests or biopsies. > The tubal ligation isn't good enough for them, which scares me. If they > don't trust it how can I. I keep fearing I'll get pregnant, I have always > done it very easily, but now is not good, I would be so afraid of giving the > baby Lyme. But if it happened anyway, I think I would be hopeful and go > through with the pregnancy and sort of even get excited about the idea. Must > just be a mother thing, we always yearn to have that baby. I'm lucky I have > two grandchildren, I started young and so did my daughter unfortunately. > Hang in there. Vicki > > > >From: " Cyntha Landon " <cyntha@...> > > > >I agree with the baby thing Vicki...I was so worried that I would be > >pregnant and transfer this disease to another child. I couldn't bare to do > >that. But yeah the yearning to hold another baby is very strong....but > >sometimes...just got to be unselfish...also not to mention what it would do > >to my body...I already have enough problems with it....thanks for your > >reply....doctor had made me go in and take another pregnancy test but of > >course it was negative...duh I already knew that from my test that I > >took...sigh....thanks again.... > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > GET A NEXTCARD VISA, in 30 seconds! Get rates as low as 2.9% > Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR and no hidden fees. Apply NOW! > 1/936/4/_/484634/_/953103965/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Send to -Offtopiconelist messages unrelated to Lyme, please. > Archives can be found at: > /group/lyme-aid. > They are filed by month, pick a month and search those archives for subjects you are interested. > Lyme chat, go to this URL: > /chat/lyme-aid > Should you have trouble opening the page, go back to / and make sure you are registered with a password. You can ask ONELIST to remember you, and will only have to do this one time. > To unsubscribe, send email to -unsubscribeonelist > You may substitute " subscribe " , or " digest " or " normal " for > the word " unsubscribe " ( " normal " is the opposite of " digest " ). Leave blank both the message and subject header. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2000 Report Share Posted March 15, 2000 , Try not to feel guilty about it. I'm sure your husband wouldn't want to jeopardize your health or that of your baby. I know about guilt, that's part of this disease, we are so used to being certain people, and doing certain things we can no longer do. I feel guilty daily about the wife and mother I've become, and pray that I can get better so I can be a better wife/mother. But I know God's will be done, so there must be a reason for all this and your wait for a baby. But you are right, you have plenty of time! God bless, Vicki >From: " Cyntha Landon " <cyntha@...> > >It is not so much me that it really hurts...cause my body is just not ready. >But my poor husband is. He wants a son so very badly. It hurts me to see >his need not met. But I know with faith that God knows best. I told him I >feel he will get his son but not as fast as he wants. I am almost 27 that >gives me a good thirteen years...hope my husband can hold on lol....but he >loves me no matter what. Here is praying. > >Cyntha Landon Idaho >http://members.xoom.com/Myesha > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2000 Report Share Posted March 19, 2000 Thanks Vicki and all the sweet words are a God send. Cyntha Landon Idaho Re: [Lyme-aid] Babies > From: " Vicki Ferraro " <ferraroa@...> > > , > Try not to feel guilty about it. I'm sure your husband wouldn't want to > jeopardize your health or that of your baby. I know about guilt, that's part > of this disease, we are so used to being certain people, and doing certain > things we can no longer do. I feel guilty daily about the wife and mother > I've become, and pray that I can get better so I can be a better > wife/mother. But I know God's will be done, so there must be a reason for > all this and your wait for a baby. But you are right, you have plenty of > time! God bless, > Vicki > > > >From: " Cyntha Landon " <cyntha@...> > > > >It is not so much me that it really hurts...cause my body is just not > ready. > >But my poor husband is. He wants a son so very badly. It hurts me to see > >his need not met. But I know with faith that God knows best. I told him I > >feel he will get his son but not as fast as he wants. I am almost 27 that > >gives me a good thirteen years...hope my husband can hold on lol....but he > >loves me no matter what. Here is praying. > > > >Cyntha Landon Idaho > >http://members.xoom.com/Myesha > > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > DON'T HATE YOUR RATE! > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! Get rates as low as > 0.0% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR and no hidden fees. > Apply NOW! > 1/2120/4/_/484634/_/953158701/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Send to -Offtopiconelist messages unrelated to Lyme, please. > Archives can be found at: > /group/lyme-aid. > They are filed by month, pick a month and search those archives for subjects you are interested. > Lyme chat, go to this URL: > /chat/lyme-aid > Should you have trouble opening the page, go back to / and make sure you are registered with a password. You can ask ONELIST to remember you, and will only have to do this one time. > To unsubscribe, send email to -unsubscribeonelist > You may substitute " subscribe " , or " digest " or " normal " for > the word " unsubscribe " ( " normal " is the opposite of " digest " ). Leave blank both the message and subject header. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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