Guest guest Posted December 5, 1999 Report Share Posted December 5, 1999 Hi Cyntha, I am so sorry you are having such tough family problems to deal with. I am not " Dr. " but in my opinion, your family is toxic to you and your health. I know it is hard with holidays coming and all, but if I were in your situation, and being caused this much grief, I would cut off ties with them. You mentioned you are at peace now, since you haven't heard from your Dad. Maybe a good long separation will do the trick, it seems to me that they are all blaming you right now, and only finding fault with you....why would you want to be a part of this??? I know it is hard, I have had sibling in-fighting myself, and it is hard to deal with. Right now, we are all talking but it was hard when we were not. I wish you the best, whatever you decide....but if you do resume relations with your family, don't mention the past abuse, or your health, these seem to be very sore subjects. You say you have forgiven the abuse, but obviously you have not since you continue to bring it up to them when you argue. God Bless, Big hugs, Marta NJ -----Original Message----- From: Cyntha Landon <cyntha@...> Okay I guess I shall explain why I have been gone so long. I am trying to get myself together. I am always tired and the stress on top of it right now is really getting to me. My Father and my Stepmother are giving me grief. NOt that I have never given them any but lies and deceptions are really hurting me. I was abused as a child. NOw take in mind my father hasn't layed a finger on us since I was eighteen. Actions are hard to forget and I have forgiven him for the abuse. But still the emotional goes on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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