Re: My 15 year old daughter called CPS!!!!

[Guest guest]

well since this case pertains to your one child, I would not offer any personal

information about the workings of your family unless it was needed. I would

mainly be asking the DA what can be done about this person in TX.

Jan

> > > >

> > > > I know this is off topic, but I need advice and quick. About a week ago

> > I had a huge argument with Mickie's 15 year old sister. She went ballistic,

> > when I told her she would not have the charger to her laptop at night. She

> > stays up all night and I want that to stop. I suspect she is using the

> > webcam for inappropriate things. It has to be that, because her reaction was

> > so violent, I can't think of anything else.

> > > >

> > > > Things got heated and she threw chairs, and ever finished braking her

> > door. She was very aggressive and seemed to be provoking everyone in the

> > house. She was trying to get hit so that she could get somebody in trouble.

> > She kept saying she wanted me to sign papers so she could leave.

> > > >

> > > > When she was 13 she met a guy on the internet and she has been dating

> > him long distance. He is now over eighteen and she stays connected to him 24

> > hour a day. He lives in Texas. I have tried disconnecting her and she goes

> > to friends to borrow cell phones, etc. She quit school and is going to

> > online school, so I don't know what else I can do.

> > > >

> > > > The night of the argument, ((he)) called the police (if you can believe

> > that) The police came and saw right through her and left, but she had two of

> > her looser friends call CPS (Children Protective Services). Yesterday when I

> > talked to the worker, she told me how they had received two reports, like

> > that was supposed to impress me. Crap, don't they enough drug addicts to

> > check on?

> > > >

> > > > The CPS worker is coming today at 3:30 pm.......

> > >

> > > Good!

> > >

> > > Have the CPS worker look up the kid in Texas and ask what is going on!

> > >

> > > :-)

> > >

> > > Get law enforcement involved. Talk to the kid. Everything is on your side

> > here. Have the cops tell you his name and address and ask him if he needs a

> > restraining order to stop contacting your daughter - that might encourage

> > him to talk frankly to you about what is going on so you don't actually go

> > get one.

> > >

> > > BTW, cut off internet service. Let her chew on that for a while.

> > >

> > > > I am so upset! Ever since my oldest son was born 24 years ago, I have

> > gone out of my way to make sure my family stays together and always worried

> > about Mickie ending up somewhere, where his diet and needs won't be

> > addressed and it would seem that she is going out of way to destroy this

> > family. She wants out so she can go live in Texas with this guy.

> > > >

> > > > In contrast my 14 year old daughter gets complements from her friends

> > parents on how many nice things she has to say about her mom.

> > > >

> > > > I'm sorry to ramble on-I'm just so frustrated right now!!!

> > >

> > > Please forgive me for using your horrible experience to point out

> > something I see routinely - people need to get on with chelating their kids

> > (or doing whatever else works for them) ASAP. The older they get, the more

> > rebellious they get. If they need a complex regimen, such as a special diet,

> > to keep it together that is going to stop at some point in adolescence or

> > early adulthood. You need to spend as much time as you can early on getting

> > them healthy so they can go through the instinctive rebellious phase of

> > development without it wreaking any more havoc than is normal.

> > >

> > > >

> > > Andy

> > >

> > > http://www.noamalgam.com/index.html

> > > Amalgam Illness: Diagnosis and Treatment

> > >

> > > http://www.noamalgam.com/hairtestbook.html

> > > Hair Test Interpretation: Finding Hidden Toxicities

> > >

> > > http://www.noamalgam.com/nourishinghope.html

> > > Nourishing Hope for Autism: Nutrition Intervention for Healing Our

> > Children

> > >

> > > http://www.noamalgam.com/biologicaltreatments.html

> > > Biological Treatments for Autism and PDD

> > >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

> --

> Zurama

> Mickie 13yrs

> Round #35

> 15mg DMSA 15mg ALA

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Ditto.

Your diet has nothing to do with interstate cyber/child crimes. Common sense

here.

If it were my child I'd be livid. How dare some stranger interfere to such an

extent in your family's functioning. This is a cyber " relationship " if you can

call anything cyber a relationship. This person is contacting an underage girl;

red flag. He is manipulating her. She is at a very impressionable age and

needs to understand this about herself. Perspective would be very valuable for

her now and later in future relationships. Does she have dreams, or goals she

wants to meet? How on earth can she do this if her life is messed up because of

a user who has little concern for her? Your role as a parent is to guide her

away (if you can) destructive influences. Good night! If parenting weren't

hard enough already!

Theodora

> > > > >

> > > > > I know this is off topic, but I need advice and quick. About a week

ago

> > > I had a huge argument with Mickie's 15 year old sister. She went

ballistic,

> > > when I told her she would not have the charger to her laptop at night. She

> > > stays up all night and I want that to stop. I suspect she is using the

> > > webcam for inappropriate things. It has to be that, because her reaction

was

> > > so violent, I can't think of anything else.

> > > > >

> > > > > Things got heated and she threw chairs, and ever finished braking her

> > > door. She was very aggressive and seemed to be provoking everyone in the

> > > house. She was trying to get hit so that she could get somebody in

trouble.

> > > She kept saying she wanted me to sign papers so she could leave.

> > > > >

> > > > > When she was 13 she met a guy on the internet and she has been dating

> > > him long distance. He is now over eighteen and she stays connected to him

24

> > > hour a day. He lives in Texas. I have tried disconnecting her and she goes

> > > to friends to borrow cell phones, etc. She quit school and is going to

> > > online school, so I don't know what else I can do.

> > > > >

> > > > > The night of the argument, ((he)) called the police (if you can

believe

> > > that) The police came and saw right through her and left, but she had two

of

> > > her looser friends call CPS (Children Protective Services). Yesterday when

I

> > > talked to the worker, she told me how they had received two reports, like

> > > that was supposed to impress me. Crap, don't they enough drug addicts to

> > > check on?

> > > > >

> > > > > The CPS worker is coming today at 3:30 pm.......

> > > >

> > > > Good!

> > > >

> > > > Have the CPS worker look up the kid in Texas and ask what is going on!

> > > >

> > > > :-)

> > > >

> > > > Get law enforcement involved. Talk to the kid. Everything is on your

side

> > > here. Have the cops tell you his name and address and ask him if he needs

a

> > > restraining order to stop contacting your daughter - that might encourage

> > > him to talk frankly to you about what is going on so you don't actually go

> > > get one.

> > > >

> > > > BTW, cut off internet service. Let her chew on that for a while.

> > > >

> > > > > I am so upset! Ever since my oldest son was born 24 years ago, I have

> > > gone out of my way to make sure my family stays together and always

worried

> > > about Mickie ending up somewhere, where his diet and needs won't be

> > > addressed and it would seem that she is going out of way to destroy this

> > > family. She wants out so she can go live in Texas with this guy.

> > > > >

> > > > > In contrast my 14 year old daughter gets complements from her friends

> > > parents on how many nice things she has to say about her mom.

> > > > >

> > > > > I'm sorry to ramble on-I'm just so frustrated right now!!!

> > > >

> > > > Please forgive me for using your horrible experience to point out

> > > something I see routinely - people need to get on with chelating their

kids

> > > (or doing whatever else works for them) ASAP. The older they get, the more

> > > rebellious they get. If they need a complex regimen, such as a special

diet,

> > > to keep it together that is going to stop at some point in adolescence or

> > > early adulthood. You need to spend as much time as you can early on

getting

> > > them healthy so they can go through the instinctive rebellious phase of

> > > development without it wreaking any more havoc than is normal.

> > > >

> > > > >

> > > > Andy

> > > >

> > > > http://www.noamalgam.com/index.html

> > > > Amalgam Illness: Diagnosis and Treatment

> > > >

> > > > http://www.noamalgam.com/hairtestbook.html

> > > > Hair Test Interpretation: Finding Hidden Toxicities

> > > >

> > > > http://www.noamalgam.com/nourishinghope.html

> > > > Nourishing Hope for Autism: Nutrition Intervention for Healing Our

> > > Children

> > > >

> > > > http://www.noamalgam.com/biologicaltreatments.html

> > > > Biological Treatments for Autism and PDD

> > > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> > --

> > Zurama

> > Mickie 13yrs

> > Round #35

> > 15mg DMSA 15mg ALA

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

This has been going on for three years. She was thirteen and as far as I

know he was 16. In-spite of her insistence that he just turned 18,

her siblings and I did the math, he originally said he was 16, so he has to

be at least 19. This is definitely not simple at all!

I have now limited her internet, to just a land line. She gets unplugged at

10pm and no more wifi for the DS, nor for the school laptop. She seems

calmer and her big sister and I explained that she is not being punished,

but that I just want her to have a routine.

I wish I could unplug her 100%, but she has to finish school and she won't

go back-she said she just couldn't handle the social pressures.

On Wed, Oct 20, 2010 at 7:41 AM, jeffnteddi <hopefulchild99-asd@...>wrote:

>

>

> Ditto.

> Your diet has nothing to do with interstate cyber/child crimes. Common

> sense here.

>

> If it were my child I'd be livid. How dare some stranger interfere to such

> an extent in your family's functioning. This is a cyber " relationship " if

> you can call anything cyber a relationship. This person is contacting an

> underage girl; red flag. He is manipulating her. She is at a very

> impressionable age and needs to understand this about herself. Perspective

> would be very valuable for her now and later in future relationships. Does

> she have dreams, or goals she wants to meet? How on earth can she do this if

> her life is messed up because of a user who has little concern for her? Your

> role as a parent is to guide her away (if you can) destructive influences.

> Good night! If parenting weren't hard enough already!

>

> Theodora

>

>

>

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I know this is off topic, but I need advice and quick. About a

> week ago

> > > > I had a huge argument with Mickie's 15 year old sister. She went

> ballistic,

> > > > when I told her she would not have the charger to her laptop at

> night. She

> > > > stays up all night and I want that to stop. I suspect she is using

> the

> > > > webcam for inappropriate things. It has to be that, because her

> reaction was

> > > > so violent, I can't think of anything else.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Things got heated and she threw chairs, and ever finished braking

> her

> > > > door. She was very aggressive and seemed to be provoking everyone in

> the

> > > > house. She was trying to get hit so that she could get somebody in

> trouble.

> > > > She kept saying she wanted me to sign papers so she could leave.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > When she was 13 she met a guy on the internet and she has been

> dating

> > > > him long distance. He is now over eighteen and she stays connected to

> him 24

> > > > hour a day. He lives in Texas. I have tried disconnecting her and she

> goes

> > > > to friends to borrow cell phones, etc. She quit school and is going

> to

> > > > online school, so I don't know what else I can do.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > The night of the argument, ((he)) called the police (if you can

> believe

> > > > that) The police came and saw right through her and left, but she had

> two of

> > > > her looser friends call CPS (Children Protective Services). Yesterday

> when I

> > > > talked to the worker, she told me how they had received two reports,

> like

> > > > that was supposed to impress me. Crap, don't they enough drug addicts

> to

> > > > check on?

> > > > > >

> > > > > > The CPS worker is coming today at 3:30 pm.......

> > > > >

> > > > > Good!

> > > > >

> > > > > Have the CPS worker look up the kid in Texas and ask what is going

> on!

> > > > >

> > > > > :-)

> > > > >

> > > > > Get law enforcement involved. Talk to the kid. Everything is on

> your side

> > > > here. Have the cops tell you his name and address and ask him if he

> needs a

> > > > restraining order to stop contacting your daughter - that might

> encourage

> > > > him to talk frankly to you about what is going on so you don't

> actually go

> > > > get one.

> > > > >

> > > > > BTW, cut off internet service. Let her chew on that for a while.

> > > > >

> > > > > > I am so upset! Ever since my oldest son was born 24 years ago, I

> have

> > > > gone out of my way to make sure my family stays together and always

> worried

> > > > about Mickie ending up somewhere, where his diet and needs won't be

> > > > addressed and it would seem that she is going out of way to destroy

> this

> > > > family. She wants out so she can go live in Texas with this guy.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > In contrast my 14 year old daughter gets complements from her

> friends

> > > > parents on how many nice things she has to say about her mom.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I'm sorry to ramble on-I'm just so frustrated right now!!!

> > > > >

> > > > > Please forgive me for using your horrible experience to point out

> > > > something I see routinely - people need to get on with chelating

> their kids

> > > > (or doing whatever else works for them) ASAP. The older they get, the

> more

> > > > rebellious they get. If they need a complex regimen, such as a

> special diet,

> > > > to keep it together that is going to stop at some point in

> adolescence or

> > > > early adulthood. You need to spend as much time as you can early on

> getting

> > > > them healthy so they can go through the instinctive rebellious phase

> of

> > > > development without it wreaking any more havoc than is normal.

> > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > > Andy

> > > > >

> > > > > http://www.noamalgam.com/index.html

> > > > > Amalgam Illness: Diagnosis and Treatment

> > > > >

> > > > > http://www.noamalgam.com/hairtestbook.html

> > > > > Hair Test Interpretation: Finding Hidden Toxicities

> > > > >

> > > > > http://www.noamalgam.com/nourishinghope.html

> > > > > Nourishing Hope for Autism: Nutrition Intervention for Healing Our

> > > > Children

> > > > >

> > > > > http://www.noamalgam.com/biologicaltreatments.html

> > > > > Biological Treatments for Autism and PDD

> > > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > --

> > > Zurama

> > > Mickie 13yrs

> > > Round #35

> > > 15mg DMSA 15mg ALA

> > >

> > >

> > >