Mickie got sick on the bus!!! :\

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Today Mickie got sick on the bus and I was called from school to pick him up,

because he threw up all over the bus. I felt kind of bad for the bus driver and

the aid, who was new and greeted Mickie, with.......Good morning Mickie, my

man!!! Then he got sick all over the bus. :\

On my way to school I picked up some crackers and club soda, in case he was

still feeling ill, but he wasn't.

I was struck by the meltdowns from other kids that were going on around him.

There was one with his shirt inside out and his tag in the front, while he had

to be guided to where he was supposed to go. Another screaming while three or

four aids tried to calm him down and so on.

I felt so bad for them, if only their parents new they can feel better. I want

to ask the school if they could get information to them about biomedical

approaches, but I wonder how it will be viewed.

It's that feeling like when someone has something really special happen to them

and they want to share it with the world.

Any ideas how I should go about it, should I just let it go and mind my own

business?

Zurama

[Guest guest]

I have always tried to explain to parents and teachers etc... but I am

usually perceived as crazy and they roll their eyes. Then after doing

biomed for a while and my son started talking again and giving eye contact,

his PPCD teacher told me one day, " It's a miracle! " I said true, but God

expects us to work for this one.

Remember, most (about 90%) of people are followers. They resist change,

believe what they are told to believe, and rarely question the status quo.

Be a leader and try, but you can't force anyone. Often, I just keep the VIC

cards handy in my purse and pass them out. It has their web address on it

and then they can get information there and hopefully I've planted a seed.

What shocks me are the parents who want help but ask me for an easy fix.

When I tell them what they need to do, they say, " That's too hard. " It is

just my opinion that I cannot imagine anything being too hard to benefit my

son. It was hard, it took sacrifices, it is ongoing, but we have the

essence of who our child is back! He is very verbal, creative, imaginative,

bright, and comical. He is the light of our lives, and there is NOTHING I

wouldn't do to try to help he be what he wants to be. Most days that is an

architect, but sometimes he asks if he can work at Jack in the Box, and I

tell him when the time comes, he can do whatever job makes him happy.

He talked a long time about going to RIT in Rochester to study architecture,

and then somehow he figured out how far away it was, so he said he wasn't

going to go there because it would be too far from Mommy and Daddy. I told

him that if he really wanted to go there, then Mommy and Daddy would move up

there too! I intend to give him the " most appropriate " (you know you can

never say " best " regarding our children) chance at achieving his dreams.

As more and more children develop autism, I think more parents will come to

seek parents like us out in order to help their children. There will come a

time when society realizes what it had done, though this probably won't come

in our lifetime. Consider Galileo who was forced by the Catholic Church to

publicly denounce Capernicanism, but legend has it that under his breath he

muttered, " Yet it moves. " He stated that the planets revolved around the

sun rather than the churches teaching that the planets revolved around a

constant Earth. Galileo was charged with heresy and punished with house

arrest for the rest of his life, and it took the Catholic church 400 years

to concede the truth and admit that Galileo was right. See how fervently

human beings cling to whatever truth they choose to believe? So you have a

government and industry (medical and pharmaceutical) who have basically

poisoned a million children. It may take many generations before history

reports this wrong.