Re: Re: How to approach parents about biomedicalduring open house tonight????

[Guest guest]

I thinks its a combo of everything everyone's said on this topic. But we all

need to keep in mind, everyones gotta do what they gotta do. I compare the

dealing with a diagnosis is like a death of a loved one, everyone deals

differently. There is no right or wrong way, even though it seems odd by us. It

sucks they don't get it because WE know you can make your life and childs life

way easier/better by looking outside of the box.

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[ ] How to approach parents about biomedical during

> open

> > house tonight????

> >

> > Â

> > Tonight is open house at Mickie school. Every student has autism and like

> I

> > wrote to the list a few weeks ago, when I had to pick him up. Many of the

>

> > students seemed very tormented and upset and I wanted to see about

> talking to

> > the other parents about biomedical, but I'm not sure how to approach

> then.

> >

> > I seemed to recognize one of them them, from years ago. His parents were

> > acquaintances of my ex-husband and I had to tell his mother that he had

> autism.

> > She got really upset with me and didn't speak to me for seven months, at

> which

> > time I got a call from her letting me know that I was right, then she

> acted from

> > then on as if she was the expert. I hear that he is on Psych meds. He

> looked

> > stoned and his t shirt was inside out. He had to be guided by two aids,

> so that

> > he would go where he was supposed to go. So his mom will most likely not

> want to

> > hear it, but others might. It's a shame, because he is a beautiful boy.

> >

> >

> > I looked around and just gasped! How do the parents deal with these 6

> feet tall

> > babies with aggressive behaviors? Maybe I should mind my own business,

> but,

> > anyways, if anyone has ideas, let me know.

> >

> > Zurama

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

I agree this diagnosis is like a death and there's a mourning process and I

don't want to judge those parents who choose for x reasons to do nothing,

but I just can see ahead at how it will become impossible for them to keep

them at home. In particular the kids with the severe gastro issues, that

gets worse if not treated!

Something that I worry about is Mickie getting hurt by another violent

student. When I went to pick up Mickie, he was so calm and most the other

kids were out of wack.

Anyhow, perhaps all I can do is make mine's life a little better.

On Wed, Nov 3, 2010 at 4:23 PM, <christiansrecovery09@...> wrote:

> I thinks its a combo of everything everyone's said on this topic. But we

> all need to keep in mind, everyones gotta do what they gotta do. I compare

> the dealing with a diagnosis is like a death of a loved one, everyone deals

> differently. There is no right or wrong way, even though it seems odd by us.

> It sucks they don't get it because WE know you can make your life and

> childs life way easier/better by looking outside of the box.

>

>

> Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone with Nextel Direct Connect

>

> [ ] How to approach parents about biomedical

> during

> > open

> > > house tonight????

> > >

> > > Â

> > > Tonight is open house at Mickie school. Every student has autism and

> like

> > I

> > > wrote to the list a few weeks ago, when I had to pick him up. Many of

> the

> >

> > > students seemed very tormented and upset and I wanted to see about

> > talking to

> > > the other parents about biomedical, but I'm not sure how to approach

> > then.

> > >

> > > I seemed to recognize one of them them, from years ago. His parents

> were

> > > acquaintances of my ex-husband and I had to tell his mother that he had

> > autism.

> > > She got really upset with me and didn't speak to me for seven months,

> at

> > which

> > > time I got a call from her letting me know that I was right, then she

> > acted from

> > > then on as if she was the expert. I hear that he is on Psych meds. He

> > looked

> > > stoned and his t shirt was inside out. He had to be guided by two aids,

> > so that

> > > he would go where he was supposed to go. So his mom will most likely

> not

> > want to

> > > hear it, but others might. It's a shame, because he is a beautiful boy.

> > >

> > >

> > > I looked around and just gasped! How do the parents deal with these 6

> > feet tall

> > > babies with aggressive behaviors? Maybe I should mind my own business,

> > but,

> > > anyways, if anyone has ideas, let me know.

> > >

> > > Zurama

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >