Re: Parent banned from the list

[Guest guest]

FYI - michael is still giving his quick and accurate advice on frequent dose

chelation group

From: jtmk98.535597 <lysva29798-dnttrst@...>

Subject: [ ] Re: Parent banned from the list

Date: Tuesday, April 20, 2010, 6:28 AM

 

What if people who still wanted their advice could just email them

directly? I really think people should be respectful and not answer

condescendingly/ rudely to others, even when they're sure they're right and the

other person is quite ignorant. However, the porn post are about enough to

drive me off, too. It would be worth renaming the group and having everybody

re-join through moderator approval & the " wavy " code method, to me.

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> > I'm a newer member of the list and am learning. I wanted to let you know

> > Ross has been banned from the group.

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> > I'm very sorry to see him have to leave, as he has been very helpful to

> > many of us.

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[Guest guest]

People, think about a situation with your own kids, whom you wish to be properly

social adults someday.

Imagine:

They want to join a group of kids playing a game of soccer or some such thing.

You you inform them upfront that there are rules to joining in the game and they

must abide by those rules or risk being kicked out.

They begin to play the game, but soon begin ignoring the rules. They are warned

of the consequences if they continue with their inappropriate and rude behavior.

They continue to misbehave and actually begin insulting and bullying the other

kids.

They are warned again. You want them to stay in the game, but their behavior

only continues. As a parent, you would have no choice but to bring them out of

the game. Because they obviously are not mature enough yet to properly socialize

in such a game with other kids. This is how we raise our kids because this is a

basic rule of life.

Have you not been in this situation with your own kids?

You want your child to behave, you tried your best to get them to understand the

consequences of their actions, but in the end, it is their own fault that they

have been removed from the game.

Same with anyone who gets taken off of a listserve by the moderators. They have

no one to blame but themselves.

Sad. But true.

Mel

[Guest guest]

In disciplining a child, you should be consistent with the discipline.

  S.

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From: skelvin123 <skelvin123@...>

Sent: Tue, April 20, 2010 10:39:44 AM

Subject: [ ] Re: Parent banned from the list

 

People, think about a situation with your own kids, whom you wish to be properly

social adults someday.

Imagine:

They want to join a group of kids playing a game of soccer or some such thing.

You you inform them upfront that there are rules to joining in the game and they

must abide by those rules or risk being kicked out.

They begin to play the game, but soon begin ignoring the rules. They are warned

of the consequences if they continue with their inappropriate and rude behavior.

They continue to misbehave and actually begin insulting and bullying the other

kids.

They are warned again. You want them to stay in the game, but their behavior

only continues. As a parent, you would have no choice but to bring them out of

the game. Because they obviously are not mature enough yet to properly socialize

in such a game with other kids. This is how we raise our kids because this is a

basic rule of life.

Have you not been in this situation with your own kids?

You want your child to behave, you tried your best to get them to understand the

consequences of their actions, but in the end, it is their own fault that they

have been removed from the game.

Same with anyone who gets taken off of a listserve by the moderators. They have

no one to blame but themselves.

Sad. But true.

Mel

[Guest guest]

I think he is on the adult metal chelation list too. I liked many of his

responses to my questions. I just skimmed through that weird fight they were

having as it seemed to be like the temper tantrums my autistic students (and

sometimes just men) have. I did think that the choice of language was probably

going to scare newcommers away.

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[Guest guest]

I think it has been established why these gentlemen were removed. If you need

their help it has been posted that they are on the other group.

The mods do their best. It is a hard job and I think Dana does a good job. She

offered an explaination and others have stated how to contact the men, if you

need their help. Join both groups...then ask them on the other forum...or they

can rejoin under another email and learn from their mistakes. Isn't that what we

all do...learn and grow...and if they are ready...then it will be great to have

them back.

I think we need to concentrate on what we need to do and fight for our kids and

not each other. I personally find this very upsetting.

We need each other...so lets fight for our kids....not each other.

Ronni

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> People, think about a situation with your own kids, whom you wish to be

properly social adults someday.

>

> Imagine:

> They want to join a group of kids playing a game of soccer or some such thing.

> You you inform them upfront that there are rules to joining in the game and

they must abide by those rules or risk being kicked out.

> They begin to play the game, but soon begin ignoring the rules. They are

warned of the consequences if they continue with their inappropriate and rude

behavior.

> They continue to misbehave and actually begin insulting and bullying the other

kids.

> They are warned again. You want them to stay in the game, but their behavior

only continues. As a parent, you would have no choice but to bring them out of

the game. Because they obviously are not mature enough yet to properly socialize

in such a game with other kids. This is how we raise our kids because this is a

basic rule of life.

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> Have you not been in this situation with your own kids?

> You want your child to behave, you tried your best to get them to understand

the consequences of their actions, but in the end, it is their own fault that

they have been removed from the game.

> Same with anyone who gets taken off of a listserve by the moderators. They

have no one to blame but themselves.

> Sad. But true.

>

> Mel

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[Guest guest]

I heard that Best has already rejoined the group under a similar name.

> >

> > People, think about a situation with your own kids, whom you wish to be

properly social adults someday.

> >

> > Imagine:

> > They want to join a group of kids playing a game of soccer or some such

thing.

> > You you inform them upfront that there are rules to joining in the game and

they must abide by those rules or risk being kicked out.

> > They begin to play the game, but soon begin ignoring the rules. They are

warned of the consequences if they continue with their inappropriate and rude

behavior.

> > They continue to misbehave and actually begin insulting and bullying the

other kids.

> > They are warned again. You want them to stay in the game, but their behavior

only continues. As a parent, you would have no choice but to bring them out of

the game. Because they obviously are not mature enough yet to properly socialize

in such a game with other kids. This is how we raise our kids because this is a

basic rule of life.

> >

> > Have you not been in this situation with your own kids?

> > You want your child to behave, you tried your best to get them to understand

the consequences of their actions, but in the end, it is their own fault that

they have been removed from the game.

> > Same with anyone who gets taken off of a listserve by the moderators. They

have no one to blame but themselves.

> > Sad. But true.

> >

> > Mel

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