Guest guest Posted February 28, 2000 Report Share Posted February 28, 2000 S. Thanks for the prayers. I have definitely felt them lately, from everyone. DH is off today and I'm making him help me, tired or not. I'm just as tired. He's taking to speech this afternoon, and taking with him to do the grocery shopping. Loriann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 29, 2000 Report Share Posted February 29, 2000 Loriann, It very well could have been the wind. I have heard of some autistic people, when able to verbalize what it was like when they were little, saying that the rain, and the wind would drive them nuts! The sound actually hurt their ears. Well, if it was bad enough, I can see a total withdrawl, kind of like what happens to Matt a lot of time right after school. Just seems to need a down time after holding it all together all day! Keep track if it happens again when it is windy! Maybe some ear muffs when it is windy would help to dull the sound. By the way, I have been praying for you and , while home alone, that you find some peace. Keep plugging along. Consider your self {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugged}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}. S ________________________________________________________________ YOU'RE PAYING TOO MUCH FOR THE INTERNET! Juno now offers FREE Internet Access! Try it today - there's no risk! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/tagj. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2000 Report Share Posted March 6, 2000 Hi, has always had a problem with wind. Little babies kinda gasp from wind, I think....but he continued disliking it to this day, and he gets wild eyed and flaps and takes off. Weird, huh? Ann with , and Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2000 Report Share Posted March 7, 2000 Brook does the same thing with wind. It really upsets him and sets him off stimming too. Marisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2000 Report Share Posted June 2, 2000 In a message dated 6/2/00 6:20:03 AM Eastern Daylight Time, kayte.brimacombe@... writes: << Donna - I'm really sorry to hear that Maddie's so ill - It sounds dreadful. I was going to suggest the bubble machine too thought I know when they're in that much pain nothing much helps. I usually end up singing for hours (I've got a terrible voice) I try to tell myself that these things are usually self-limiting and DO end eventually. Hope things improve soon. >> Thanks Kayte and Leah, for the bubble suggestion. I may go to the store this morning as my lips are sore......LOLOL I tried singing to Maddie yesterday (she doesn't usually like singing, but she adores Barnie so I thought I'd try) and she actually put her hand over my mouth.......ROTFLOL <<So I'd like to hear any ideas around this too. btw he's also a terrible dribbler - constantly wet chin which gets sore - any suggestions?>> I just posted in the Self-stim subject line Kayte, on some things we do. As far as dribbling, I don't know. Maybe he's teething? Anybody else on ideas for that one? Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2000 Report Share Posted June 2, 2000 Donna - I'm really sorry to hear that Maddie's so ill - It sounds dreadful. I was going to suggest the bubble machine too thought I know when they're in that much pain nothing much helps. I usually end up singing for hours (I've got a terrible voice) I try to tell myself that these things are usually self-limiting and DO end eventually. Hope things improve soon. Sara - I loved the restaurant story - what an achievement! Re.Stimming almost always has 'twiddly' object which he mouths and flicks. This seems to be a sensory issue as he does'nt need it when he's doing SI stuff. I've seen the staff at his nursery take his 'object' off him, to try to get him to focus on whatever it is they want, but he then just finds something else, like the hard skin around their/his nails or feet, instead! So I'd like to hear any ideas around this too. btw he's also a terrible dribbler - constantly wet chin which gets sore - any suggestions? Kayte Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2000 Report Share Posted June 2, 2000 Thank you for everyones input. The OT is suggesting more time on the floor for JJ. Things like crawling under beanbag chairs. Also recommended a weighted vest. ( And yes I saved everyones ideas for making a vest from a while back. ) Also want less table time and more time on a wedge on the floor. But she is having problems getting the Spec Ed teacher to do this. They just don't see that he does better for while after having OT input. I think they also see that he is so low functioning what is the use. The IQ is only 15.75, but we all know with a child like JJ it is impossible to use the standardized testing. He probably should not even walk or feed himself if we looked just at this IQ. And I hate IQ's!!! I guess this is one of the reasons. Got to go, & Garry, parents of (9 ds), (8 ds/g-tube), JJ (6 ds/autism/celiac), (5 ds), and Esther (3 ds). All adopted. ---------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2000 Report Share Posted June 2, 2000 kayte it is good to use the object as a reward after work of any kind, and then i would redirect away from the other self distractions, is the stuff at school too hard?Remember to start off a few minutes at a time for each activity, this takes time mostly, we use to have to do it after each peice of clothing or each cut at school now he dresses himself and will go for most of the day at school withut even asking for his string, he gets to keep it in his pocket so its comforting for him to just check occassionally. As for the chin, nathan is also a frequent drueller and wet chin, i put some caramax or desetin on his chin (they are good barriers for the skin) and ths helps trememndously for us may for you, shawna mom to nathan 8yrs w/ds pdd and nicholas 7yrs, wife to geoff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2000 Report Share Posted June 2, 2000 i didnt think anyone did iq testing anymore, i know they test developmentally wise but not iq's , hmmm shawna mom to nathan8yrs w/ds pdd and nicholas 7yrs, and wife to geoff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2000 Report Share Posted June 2, 2000 IQ's do not show FUNCTIONAL ABILITY> Ask for a Vineland score - that at least give practical information!! Sara >>> Scherb@... - 06/02/0 12:05 PM >>> Thank you for everyones input. The OT is suggesting more time on the floor for JJ. Things like crawling under beanbag chairs. Also recommended a weighted vest. ( And yes I saved everyones ideas for making a vest from a while back. ) Also want less table time and more time on a wedge on the floor. But she is having problems getting the Spec Ed teacher to do this. They just don't see that he does better for while after having OT input. I think they also see that he is so low functioning what is the use. The IQ is only 15.75, but we all know with a child like JJ it is impossible to use the standardized testing. He probably should not even walk or feed himself if we looked just at this IQ. And I hate IQ's!!! I guess this is one of the reasons. Got to go, & Garry, parents of (9 ds), (8 ds/g-tube), JJ (6 ds/autism/celiac), (5 ds), and Esther (3 ds). All adopted. ---------- ------------------------------------------------------------------------ @Backup- Protect and Access your data any time, any where on the net. Try @Backup FREE and recieve 300 points from mypoints.com Install now: 1/4873/10/_/691668/_/959958401/ ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2000 Report Share Posted June 2, 2000 Sara. This was the Vineland Score. & Garry, parents of (9 ds), (8 ds/g-tube), JJ (6 ds/autism/celiac), (5 ds), and Esther (3 ds). All adopted. ---------- >From: MIDVALE <Midvale@...> ><egroups> >Subject: Re: Re: stimming >Date: Fri, Jun 2, 2000, 3:15 PM > >IQ's do not show FUNCTIONAL ABILITY> Ask for a Vineland score - that at >least give practical information!! > >Sara > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2000 Report Share Posted June 3, 2000 IT was my understanding that Vineland scores abilities - I have never seen a true IQ (as in chronologic age vice mental age to obtain a score) Maybe the school has been smart enough not to show it to me. We also use the Brigance test when trying to see advancement. Has that been used? All require that there be a connection between the testor and the testee. Sara >>> Scherb@... - 06/02/0 11:50 PM >>> Sara. This was the Vineland Score. & Garry, parents of (9 ds), (8 ds/g-tube), JJ (6 ds/autism/celiac), (5 ds), and Esther (3 ds). All adopted. ---------- >From: MIDVALE <Midvale@...> ><egroups> >Subject: Re: Re: stimming >Date: Fri, Jun 2, 2000, 3:15 PM > >IQ's do not show FUNCTIONAL ABILITY> Ask for a Vineland score - that at >least give practical information!! > >Sara > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Best friends, most artistic, class clown Find 'em here: 1/4054/10/_/691668/_/960000671/ ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2002 Report Share Posted December 18, 2002 ---Good morning Charlie- Start taking some data on each occurence of the stims- You can choose the one he exhibits most frequently or take data on all in preparation for a functional behavioral analysis.You will need to look at Antecedent, Behavior and Consequence, frequency,perhaps duration. Most self-stim is by definition intrinsically rewarding, and usually sensory based. Interupting the stim and redirecting is very effective. Also the more skills your son gains, it is likely the stims will decrease. denise In autism , charliesteele222@a... wrote: > Hi > > My son Mason has been doing some nice progress in his program > but has also been stimming a lot more I starting to get concerned about how > far it will go. > > Charlie > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2003 Report Share Posted January 27, 2003 Luvox addresses OCD behaviors. It worked on our child. Missy Stimming Hi there, I have an autsitic son who ... given the opportunity would spend MOST of his time stimming in one way or another. Most recently he has found a love of opening and closing doors and drawers. We have put child locks on all we can but he manages to get through .. same with locks on doors. He stims with balls, toys and just about anything. Another thing is " fingers up the nose " behavior. Has anyone found any medication to be helpful in decreasing these things? He is involved in ABA therapy and spends alot of time running about. I feel he could get more accomplished if he would just " slow down " (he flutters from one thing to the next) ... and pay attention more. Any ideas.... I'm desperate. ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2003 Report Share Posted January 27, 2003 Have you tried putting him on a DRO??? Basically, you pick a behavior you want to target.... you might want to start with one minute.. every time he achieves one minute without the targeted behavior.. he gets a reward. It helps if you let him pick the reward ahead of time( a favorite toy, a break, etc). You mentioned he is already recieving ABA, so I'm assuming you know about data collection. You would want to baseline the targeted behavior before you implement any program. Over time, you would start giving a smiley face or star, something to that effect, making him go longer without the preferred toy. the object is to replace the undesired behavior with something more desireable ( i hate the word appropriate). good luck sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2003 Report Share Posted January 27, 2003 Excuse me but what is luvox Charlie (Mason's dad) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2003 Report Share Posted January 29, 2003 Sensory Integration Therapy worked with my daughter ie at the time we found out she had Autism. If you can find it through your pediatrican or friends try it, I think within thirty days to sixty days you will see a much happier child, which in turn makes for happier parents, happy family. Then speech therapy is very important, most of the stimming ie did was from her lack of ability to communicate to the world around her. LOL ,ie's Mom > Hi there, > I have an autsitic son who ... given the opportunity would spend MOST of his time stimming in one way or another. Most recently he has found a love of opening and closing doors and drawers. We have put child locks on all we can but he manages to get through .. same with locks on doors. He stims with balls, toys and just about anything. Another thing is " fingers up the nose " behavior. Has anyone found any medication to be helpful in decreasing these things? He is involved in ABA therapy and spends alot of time running about. I feel he could get more accomplished if he would just " slow down " (he flutters from one thing to the next) ... and pay attention more. Any ideas.... I'm desperate. > ann > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2003 Report Share Posted January 29, 2003 Sensory Integration Therapy worked with my daughter ie at the time we found out she had Autism. If you can find it through your pediatrican or friends try it, I think within thirty days to sixty days you will see a much happier child, which in turn makes for happier parents, happy family. Then speech therapy is very important, most of the stimming ie did was from her lack of ability to communicate to the world around her. LOL ,ie's Mom > Hi there, > I have an autsitic son who ... given the opportunity would spend MOST of his time stimming in one way or another. Most recently he has found a love of opening and closing doors and drawers. We have put child locks on all we can but he manages to get through .. same with locks on doors. He stims with balls, toys and just about anything. Another thing is " fingers up the nose " behavior. Has anyone found any medication to be helpful in decreasing these things? He is involved in ABA therapy and spends alot of time running about. I feel he could get more accomplished if he would just " slow down " (he flutters from one thing to the next) ... and pay attention more. Any ideas.... I'm desperate. > ann > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2003 Report Share Posted March 18, 2003 Try deep pressure massage....or big bear hugs if he'll tolerate them. Make it a game. What he doing sounds sensory. Do you get any services for him yet? OT maybe? Penny Stimming Hi, Any suggestions for a new behavior? My little guy 2 yr 3 mo old has started stimming ALOT .. he will stamp around or slap his leg while saying " ahhh " ... " Ahhhh " .. etc. For some reason now he looks and acts more on the spectrum than I've ever seen him. I can't figure out the reasons for the increased stimming. Any help out there for a desperate mom? ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2003 Report Share Posted June 5, 2003 That's what I thought. And when they're stimming (my step son 13 twirls his finger or a pencil in the air, among other things) do you let them continue, or try to stop it and move them onto something else. Because I notice that he mostly does it during down time. If you have him focus on a task, he usually doesn't do it. Stimming In a message dated 6/2/2003 6:54:05 PM Eastern Standard Time, melville@... writes: > what do you mean by stimming? Stimming refers to self-stimulation. In most of our kids that means dangling objects in front of their face, masturbating, hair flipping....can be lots of things. Basically, it's a repetitive obsessive behavior that they use to comfort themselves. Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2003 Report Share Posted June 6, 2003 In a message dated 6/5/2003 4:08:59 PM Eastern Standard Time, melville@... writes: > That's what I thought. And when they're stimming (my step son 13 twirls his > finger or a pencil in the air, among other things) do you let them continue, > or try to stop it and move them onto something else. Because I notice that > he mostly does it during down time. If you have him focus on a task, he > usually doesn't do it. > If it doesn't interfere with his learning or engagement with the family, I would let him do it (unless it's something really inappropriate, like masturbating in public). I know that Joan has used Andy's ropes as a way to reward him for a job well done. Greenspan would say to use the object or behavior as a way to get the child to complete circles of communication. I heard a taped session of Greenspan and some parents who were saying that their little boy with autism would obsess on a timer in the kitchen....they couldn't get him to eat or work on eating skills because he was so obsessed with it...and if they took it out of the room, he'd flip out. Greenspan says USE the timer.... " Here, let's feed the timer...yum yum yum says the timer " ...get it? We've used balls and many dangly things in this way to get Maddie to interact with us rather than take them from her. Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2005 Report Share Posted November 11, 2005 This is one of our biggest successes so far I'm sorry I can't pinpoint exactly what stopped it for but I can list what we have added when we noticed it had stopped. Selenium, Magnesium, Krill [no sniggering] Doubled up on enzymes, and MB12 we also space them all out now. At the same time we dropped SNT, and TMG, I have half an idea that when he doesen't tolerate something he stimms more. Also notice sugar can spark off stimming. Another thing I find reduces stimming is physical exercise and long tickling sessions [sensory]. Not scientific I know but he really doesen't stimm at all anymore and something in there worked for our little serial stimmer Vicky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2005 Report Share Posted November 11, 2005 I always thought it was fruit sugar, my son cannot tolerate any fruit in any shape or form, absolute hell time, now if someone could let his school know!!!! Vicky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 12, 2005 Report Share Posted November 12, 2005 Suggestions for replacing the Fructose? I bake cookies at home for him so can i use honey, or normal sugar. I would love to try replaceing the Fructose. regards Chriso Re: Re: Stimming I always thought it was fruit sugar, my son cannot tolerate any fruit in any shape or form, absolute hell time, now if someone could let his school know!!!! Vicky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 12, 2005 Report Share Posted November 12, 2005 How about Xylitol? Re: Re: Stimming I always thought it was fruit sugar, my son cannot tolerate any fruit in any shape or form, absolute hell time, now if someone could let his school know!!!! Vicky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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