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Moms, a stranger walks among you. We look like regular moms, but we are the

hybrid to your standard engine. Our child's disability altered us, enhanced

us. Many words describe us: resilient, creative, protective, emboldened,

sympathetic, fierce and determined. We are special needs moms. How do our

lives stand apart from your own? Take a look under the hood and see for

yourself.

by Dawn Villarreal, One Place for Special Needs, May 2010

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Regular moms tell their kids to wake up and get dressed in the morning. And

they do it.

Special needs moms put on battle gear to get our kids ready to start their

day.

Regular moms ask their kids if they brushed their teeth.

Special needs moms prompt, " Brush your top teeth. Brush your bottom teeth.

Did you get the sides? Open your mouth. My God, give me that toothbrush!

You've left half your meal in there! "

Regular moms wave goodbye as their kids run off to catch the school bus.

Special needs moms get awesome door-to-door bus service for their child.

Regular moms know the names of all their friends.

Special needs moms know most of their friends by their username.

Regular moms judge other moms when kids have tantrums in stores.

Special needs moms say to themselves, " Hmm, I wonder which disability he

has? "

Regular moms complain about driving their kids to sports and recreation

classes.

Special needs mom grin and bear the weekly trips to tutors, doctors and

therapists.

Regular moms' kids have a teacher.

Special needs moms' kids have a team.

Regular moms talk about accomplishments.

Special needs moms talk about skills, as in play skills, conversation

skills, life skills, social skills and vocational skills.

Regular moms relax with their kids during the summer.

Special needs moms start their second job as home teachers, therapists and

skills coaches.

Regular moms think accommodations refer to hotels.

Special needs moms have memorized the top 20 accommodations for their child.

Regular moms hope their child finds a good career.

Special needs moms are hopeful someone gives our child the chance to work.

Regular moms soak in the tub when they want to unwind.

Special needs moms consider a bathroom break a luxury.

Regular moms enjoy reading the latest best selling book.

Special needs moms should receive an honorary degree for all the disability

books they've read.

Regular moms go out for dinner and a movie with their husbands every month.

Special needs moms have a date night with their husbands every...wait, what

decade is this?

Regular moms complain their kids won't eat their vegetables.

Special needs moms are so desperate we consider chicken nuggets to be a

legitimate meat product and throw in ketchup as a vegetable.

Regular moms' kids go to play groups.

Special needs moms' kids go to therapy groups.

Regular moms meet for a ladies night out.

Special needs moms get together at support groups and forums.

Regular moms have medical claim forms that fit in one file folder.

Special needs moms will tell you a small forest was cut down so we could

receive our claims.

Regular moms think OT means overtime.

Special needs moms know more acronyms than a NASA engineer.

Regular moms have time to cook a full dinner every evening.

Special needs moms will never admit how many times we've picked up fast

food.

Real moms can indulge their children in macaroni and cheese.

Special needs moms attempt to recreate mac and cheese from tofu, Soy, Almond

Milk, and gluten free pasta.

Regular moms may be judged by the car they drive, home they live in, etc.

Special needs moms are judged by their 'typical' looking child with

'atypical' behaviors.

Regular moms have no discernable purpose.

Special needs moms have a higher divine purpose

Regular moms complain their husbands sit on the couch while they do all the

work.

Special needs moms sit at the computer and research all day while their

husbands clean the house. Hey, being a special mom has its perks.

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Reprinted with permission from One Place for Special Needs

http://www.oneplaceforspecialneeds.com