Guest guest Posted September 27, 2008 Report Share Posted September 27, 2008 Love Seven Keys To Lasting Love By Melody , MA, LPC,LMFT It doesn't matter how excited you are about your partner if you can't stay on the same wavelength and keep a connection over time. Finding the right person is really less than half of what it takes to stay connected with someone. In working with couples and families over the past 18 years it has become clear to me that being in love, or even just loving someone, isn't enough to keep the relationship going. To maintain that magical feeling of love and special-ness in a relationship we have to be willing to take 150% ownership of the quality of the connection in our relationships. There are certain things we have to be willing to do and to continue doing if it is our intention to stay in love and in connection with our chosen partner. The exciting thing is that it doesn't matter if your relationship is only 6 months old or if its 20 years old, these things will work to deepen your connection. And, you don't have to wait for the other person to do them, it's not about what the other person does or doesn't do. It's about you deciding that you want to maintain that connection, and being willing to take that 150% ownership. So here we go: Continued Here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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