THE LOVING GIFT OF FREEDOM - Fw: The Face of Love

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Nick Ralls sent a message to the members of The Face of Love.--------------------Subject: THE LOVING GIFT OF FREEDOMAffirmation for Wednesday December 30thI seek to give others the gift of freedom... the very gift I so much want for myself. When I give others the freedom to be them, without controlling, coercing or restricting I allow them the freedom to be in my life the way they wish to be. WHEN we want the best for others, we so often have to release the need to control or to coerce people to fit in with our way of doing things.The greatest gift we can give the people in our lives is freedomIt is the same gift we also need to give to ourselves.When we allow ourselves freedom, we also allow others to be free too.If we cling to people, demand that they accompany us at all times, get fearful if they are out of our sight or become obsessive about them leaving us, we

often manifest the very thing that we so much fear.We have all been there. In our insecurity we have all been in that space of needing, of fearing and of restricting.Fear of losing the people in our life, particularly those we most treasure or most need, can result in possessiveness, obsession and a yearning for reassurance.And yet if we loved ourselves enough to accept our own self worth we would also know that we were perfectly desirable and did not have to cling to those whom we felt would complete us or make us whole.On the contrary, we would accept that there is a treasure house of loving people out there who would reflect back to us the love contained within our own heart.So possessiveness and jealousy would be obstacles to love.So the desire to control or cajole or coerce would be alien to living in loving harmony.So too would fears of losing people be irrational thinking or thoughts

that need to be changed.And all those thoughts of how we were so lacking until our Prince or Princess Charming came along... how we do not really deserve him or her.. or how someone will come along and whisk our partner away will not be allowed to gain power.Because the thoughts we give our attention to expand and become reality in our life.If we tell the universe we are unworthy of the dream lover or we lack what it takes to keep someone, the universe will mirror back to us the reality that we are indeed lacking and not able to keep the relationship.One of the greatest mistakes we can make is to restrict the freedom of another... whether we pretend it is because we care for them or because we seek to control them so that they do not stray from us or prefer the company of others.It is so important that we set people in our life free.. because when they feel this freedom they will be more than likely to return to

us. They will then want to be around us.When we cannot set them free, they will feel like the caged bird who is only too anxious to fly off into the sunset when the cage door is opened.We should want all those in our lives to have an abundance of love from an abundance of people...We should want all those in our lives to be able to connect freely, share the beauty and truth of who they really are and to be the love they so much want to be in the world.If we restrict others from shining their light, restrict others from being the love they want to express then we are also restricting ourselves from having truly loving relationships and building barriers and fear monsters that keep us out of love.We do not own any other person... whether it is our significant other, our children or anyone else in our life.We need to release the need to control, to organise, to interfere, to meddle, to judge.We can

intervene if someone is in dire straits.But often it is much better to allow others to live in their own way as long as it does not hurt others and be there for people.. listening, hearing and supporting without forcing our view on them, however good we might feel that view might be.Let us give the greatest gift of all to all those in our life... freedom. The gift we seek ourselves.So dear and beautiful friend... do open your heart and share what is going on for you on this subject or any subjectI love youNick--------------------The Love Energy Routine

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