HOW TO GET ANYONE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU

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HOW TO GET ANYONE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU

I

know that when I truly love and accept myself for who I am then I will

draw into my life loving people and loving experiences. In order for

people to fall in love with me, I need to fall in love with myself. I

will attract what I am.

WHEREVER you look you will find people searching for love.

Some will be frantically seeking out the perfect soul mate... others will be looking for more friends and lovers.

So

many will be looking in the wrong places and make poor choices... so

many will feel that love eludes them... and so many will expect

disappointment after a temporary fling.

But the truth is that anyone... and indeed everyone... can easily and readily fall in love with us.

However, there is one condition.

And that is we need first to fall in love with ourselves.

When we do not love ourselves unconditionally and totally then we will not attract loving relationships into our life.

Because we can only attract what we are... what we become.

So

unless we feel truly lovable, feel truly loved and truly love and

accept ourselves for who we are, it is not surprising that those who

lack pure love will be drawn into our space.

If we are less than

in love with ourselves, we will see mirrored back to us in our

relationships those experiences which will not bring us lasting

unconditional love.

Each of us has the ability to bring into our

own life the perfect lover, the perfect friends and the perfect loving

relationships.

Yes, each of us.

But in order to do this we need to feel that we are totally lovable and so much loved.

Then we will not hold back ourselves.

We will not be embarrassed to join in, to belong, to shine our light and reveal the truth of ourselves.

When we are in love with ourselves it is impossible to withdraw from either ourselves or others.

We

become open... we express what is going on in our head and in our

heart... and people fall in love with us because we are authentic and

because we are revealing to them that we are really just like them.

After all, we have the same loving feelings, the same emotions and the same doubts and insecurities.

But

gone is the need to hide because we do not feel good enough, that we

feel we will be judged harshly or ridiculed for showing what is going

on for us.

When we accept ourselves for who we are... and are

willing to open who we are to others then we cannot fail to have people

falling in love with us.

It is as simple as that.

And people who have good hearts, warm hearts, strong hearts will draw into their lives others who have the same.

That makes for the perfect partnership or the perfect relationship or relationships.

What we believe about ourselves becomes our external reality.

So if we believe we are love... if we connect with our essence which is

love... and choose loving choices and situations then we will see

loving people and loving experiences flood into our lives.

In fact, it will be hard to see anything other than this in our immediate confines.

So

many people believe erroneously that self love is connected with

arrogance, with vanity and with superiority over other people.

This is the biggest lie and the most wicked delusion.

When we focus on self love, we change.

When we practice self love we become a very attractive and desirable person to be around.

And

when we embrace inner self love we are able to bring into our lives an

external reality that mirrors the treasure house of love contained in

our heart.

Every time you feel there is not enough love in your life you need to consider just how you are not loving yourself enough.

And the more you practice self love the less likely it will be that you will feel there is not enough love in your life.

So dear and beautiful friend... do open your heart and share what is going on for you on this subject or any subject

I love you

Nick

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