OUR LOVE LIFE IS AN INSIDE JOB - Fw: The Face of Love

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Nick Ralls sent a message to the members of The Face of Love.--------------------Subject: OUR LOVE LIFE IS AN INSIDE JOBAffirmation for Tuesday November 24thI know that my greatest pain and greatest sorrow is when I am disconnected from myself... from the loving centre of my own being where my soul dwells and where I am connected to the Source...I may seek to make ties with so much on the outside but my life can only feel purposeful and unified when I feel this deep connection with the God or Goddess within.OUR greatest pain of feeling alone... feeling separate... feeling disconnected... comes from the inside.We might feel cut off from the outside.We might feel we do not have the perfect relationship. We might feel we do not have enough good friends. We might feel that we lack the good looks to be attractive to people or we might beat ourselves up on how we do not have

the most radiant personality.But there is little guarantee that when we do have the dream partner, the material niceties or the circle of friends that we will feel any less apart.. any less disconnected.There is no guarantee that we will not lose the fear of abandonment.There is no guarantee whatsoever that we will not lose the fear of not being good enough... that this will not last.. that we are really misunderstood and not appreciated.That is because we are putting all the emphasis on seeking validation and our sense of worth from the outside.We are cultivating relationships, amassing possessions and achieving status to enable us to be a worthy human being as we go about our day to day life.But our pain... our feelings of isolation, aloneness and separation... come about because we are cut off from the inside.And when we come to know that the greatest and most meaningful relationship is the one

with ourselves... with our higher self, our own loving heart and with the Source which expresses through us... then we have established a deep connection that we cannot lose.This is the deep connection that is ever lasting.Of course, it is already there. It is just our mind that has created the fearful illusion that it is not... that it has to be discovered or sought after, again so erroneously in the outside world.It is the illusion that we seek to find God only in the burning bush... or only in the temple.. or only in the sanctuary... or only at the holy shrine.The truth is that God is in our heart all of the time.And all our pain, all our longing, all of our feeling of lack or disconnection, of wanting and needing, is all because we cannot establish this deep and loving relationship with that which is within us all the time.It is our separation from our Source, from our higher self, from our god

nature and our oneness that is the cause of our deepest pain, our most profound sorrow and our nagging frustration.When we obtain this deep connection with our source at a soul level we no longer cling onto and so desperately seek out those others in our life whom we believe give us our sense of self worth.Rumi said it so wisely when he said:" You are the source of your milk."Don't milk others."There is a milk fountain inside you."Don't walk around with an empty bucket"And we need to watch our thinking:Don't pray in desperation for a loving kind person to be your partner. This is an energy which suggests that having a partner would prove you are worthy of love.Instead, believe that you have already have this loving and kind partner... it is just a case that he or she will show up.We do not frantically need to search and pray for friends so that we will not be

lonely... we just need to know that we are our own best friend and there is an abundance of care and support from others in our life.We do not frantically have to seek out money and material wealth... we just have to believe there is an abundant universe which will draw to us all that we need.We just have to believe that we are never WITHOUT.We have to believe that we are never without friends... without relationships.. without the material... without good health and everything else we need.It is our thinking of lack, of not enough and being without that is the source of our misery and our problems.When we put away this egoistic and destructive thinking cap and emerge into an appreciation of who we really are and how this universal connected wholeness will never leave us, will be with us for eternity, we can also say goodbye to our feelings of loneliness and separation.Because our soul is never alone. Our

soul is always deeply connected with all other souls.. our soul is connected with the Source.We just need to see ourselves as our souls... our own beautiful souls... the miracles who we are.We just need to see ourselves clearly for who we really are:LOVE.So dear and beautiful friend... do open your heart and share what is going on for you on this subject or any subject.I love youNick--------------------http://intentionalone.com/powersoflove.html___This message was intended for knightsintention@....