WE NEED TO BECOME THE PERSON WE WISH TO ATTRACT INTO OUR LIVES - Fw: The Face of Love

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Nick Ralls sent a message to the members of The Face of Love.--------------------Subject: WE NEED TO BECOME THE PERSON WE WISH TO ATTRACT INTO OUR LIVESAffirmation for Thursday November 26thI know that I need to become the person I wish to attract into my life... if I want to replace loneliness with happiness I have to accept that as a human magnet I can only attract into my life those people and those experiences which reflect the view and beliefs I hold about myself. When I am the loving, non judgmental person I so wish to have the company of, I will find no shortage of dance partners.SO many of us struggle with loneliness.We feel at times... some of us more times than others... disconnected from others.We might have lost someone through bereavement, through divorce or the break up of a friendship.This is, of course, the common human condition from which none of us is

immune.And with that feeling of loneliness comes another one of emptiness, of lacking purpose, of being discontented and not happy.But the "go it alone" or "I am alone" philosophy is one of the false beliefs that we are brought up with... perhaps because we saw parents or other people in our lives going through this pain of separation or isolation.So we took it on board that this might just be our fate too.But each of us is a magnet. A powerful magnet of attraction.And we can attract into our lives that which we believe of ourselves.If we believe that we are undesirable, not worthy or lacking in social compatibility then we might well attract those experiences or those people who will confirm this view of ourselves to ourselves.But the opposite is so true too.If we believe we are a wonderful person, have a heart of gold and so attractive to everybody, then we are sure to attract those

people in our lives who will confirm this positive belief to us.So we need to become the person we want to attract in our life.And if we become the loving, accepting and non judgmental person we wish to have in our life then we are sure to bring into our lives those sort of people.And it those sort of people who will stay around and confirm to us that we are loving and worthwhile.Conversely,if the relationship with ourselves is deficient or lacking then we will be likely to bring into our lives those who will treat us in a way we do not wish to be treated or they will stay around for a short while or they will behave in such a way that we feel lonely and disconnected once again.How many people count on their fingers the number of true good intimate friends... and despair at how few they have in their lives?And that is always because they believe that they are lacking in themselves in a belief that they are

truly good and that they are authentic and worthy of this sort of attention in their lives.Those who genuinely show love and respect towards themselves always find themselves surrounded by others who so much want to buy that sort of company. We all do so admire and want to be around those who feel good in themselves.We also shy away from those people who appear aloof, do not share themselves or appear inferior or superior or ill at ease.When we have this feeling inside of us that we are lonely or disconnected or isolated, we need to work on our own self image and re-establish that relationship we have with ourselves.We need to dedicate time and effort to reaffirming just how important we are, how our life is something to be celebrated, and how we are connected with everybody in any case.And as we embrace that energy and exude that energy we find that we have no shortage of dancing partners.We never

will lack dancing partners when we are connected with ourselves.So as within, so without. To be connected we have first to connect with ourselves!There is no other way. The strength of our connection and relationship with ourselves will be the barometer of the relationship with all others.And to feel not lonely or lacking in intimacy or not connected... we need to realise just how we have to start working on loving and approving of ourselves like never before.So dear and beautiful friend... do open your heart and share what is going on for you on this subject or any subject.I love youNick--------------------http://intentionalone.com/powersoflove.html___This message was intended for knightsintention@....