Stress/Depression and the Holidays

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Stress/Depression and the Holidays

Although the holidays are supposed to be a time full of joy, good cheer

and optimistic hopes for a new year, many people experience seasonal

" blues. " What's important to know is that there are steps you can take

to help beat the blues this holiday season.

The " holiday blues " can be caused by many factors: increased stress and

fatigue, unrealistic expectations, over-commercialization and the

inability to be with one's family. The increased demands of shopping,

parties, family reunions and house guests also contribute to these

feelings of tension. Even people who do not become depressed can

develop other stress reactions during the holidays, such as headaches,

excessive drinking, overeating and difficulty sleeping.

Although many people become depressed during the holiday season, even

more respond to the excessive stress and anxiety once the holidays have

passed. This post-holiday letdown can be the result of emotional

disappointments experienced during the preceding months, as well as the

physical reactions caused by excess fatigue and stress.

There are several ways to identify potential sources of holiday depression that can help you head off the blues:

*Keep expectations for the holiday season manageable by not trying to make the holiday " the best ever. "

*Set realistic goals for yourself.

*Pace yourself.

*Organize your time. Make a list and prioritize the most important activities.

*Be realistic about what you can and cannot do.

*Remember that the holiday season does not automatically banish reasons

for feeling sad or lonely. There is room for these feelings to be

present, even if you choose not to express them.

*Let go of the past. Don't be disappointed if your holidays are not

like they used to be. Life brings changes. Each holiday season is

different and can be enjoyed in its own way. Don't set yourself up for

sadness by thinking everything has to be just like the " good old days. "

Look toward the future.

*Do something for someone else. It is an old remedy, but it can help. Try volunteering some time to help others.

*Enjoy holiday activities that are free, such as driving around to look

at holiday decorations. Go window shopping without buying anything.

*Don't drink too much. Excessive drinking will only make you more depressed.

*Don't be afraid to try something new. Celebrate the holidays in a way you have not done before.

*Spend time with people who are supportive and who care about you.

*Reach out to make new friends if you are alone during special times.

*Contact someone with whom you have lost touch.

*Find time for yourself. Don't spend all of your time providing activities for your family and friends.

Pacholyk, MS. L.Ac

http://www.peacefulmind.com/stress.htm

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