Guest guest Posted July 21, 2000 Report Share Posted July 21, 2000 Dear Lee, I am glad that you are feeling better. A rise in self esteem can be attributed to feeling well both physically and emotionally. When one feels better and stronger, they are able to see and realize that they deserve more than perhaps what they have been given. When we are weak in mind and spirit, we tend to cling and accept whatever, regardless of what it is and no matter how negative. I believe that this growth and change is positive. Often through the bach flower remedies, the peeling of the layers and reaching the core are factors that help us. Do not worry if you have grown from the present and obviously non satisfactory relationship you are in. Look at it as a learning experience and take from it what you can to strengthen and grow even more. I am celebrating my 36th birthday today. Have been " married " for the last 15 years wherein the last 10 years of that relationship have brought me 3 children and great misery. Rather than being like most people in a " bad " relationship that is soon ending, I still smile and thank god that I am a good person who has grown and learned ever so much in the past years. Through my own personal suffering, I am able to reach out and touch others who are perhaps down. Good self esteem and a positive attitude a paramount. Do NOT let your boyfriend or anyone else break your spirit. They can try.. sometimes almost succeed.. BUT, you must continue on your journey of self knowledge. That is our purpose. All the best Chestnut Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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