Guest guest Posted January 18, 2008 Report Share Posted January 18, 2008 Diane, I can remember the hell you were in and we shared so many like stories of being bent over. At the time of your surgery I couldn't imagine anyone willing to have such a radical surgery. Then I lost you for over a year and prayed you made it thru. When I finally heard how much better you are, I told my husband that maybe I should think of finding a doctor that would do the surgery on me. He was against it, but now that a couple more years have gone by and he sees me getting worse and more bent over, he has reconsidered. A couple days ago, he mentioned how he stood watching me sleep (when I finally slept in our bed one night) and I was curled up in the fetal position. Now he said, what ever it takes, he is behind me and will do what ever he needs to do to get me help. So now we are talking about maybe finding a cheap apartment in Amarillo if Dr. LaGrone takes me. Unlike you, I have had only one surgery on my back, so maybe that will be a plus. I can't thank you enough for suggesting I join this group and giving me some hope, which I haven't had in a very long time. Pat E. From: Diane B. I just read 's post and I wanted to add my opinion. is so right, this surgery is not like ANY other surgeries. I have had 13 major surgeries in my life. Besides a Tonsilectomy & Appendectomy in my childhood, I have had 7 other back surgeries, Open Heart surgery, and Abdominal surgery, NONE prepared me for the Spinal Revision. I am finding it hard putting my experience into words. There is so much more to it than just the actual operation. I had no clue to what walking around bent in half for 5 yrs & then becoming straight in one day would do to my body or my psyche. I guess I should have thought about this, but I was so afraid of having yet another surgery on my back, plus worried it wouldn't help. The last 4 surgeries I had on my back, were no help at all. All I know is I never thought of these things before. I really had to learn to walk all over again. My legs hurt me so much after the surgery. If the back of my knees touched the bed I would get like electric shocks going through me. I can only think it was from my knees being bent for 5 yrs. The muscles, tendons & ligaments in my legs really reacted, they had to stretch all out again & this took a long time. This surgery is a hugh adjustment mentally, emotionally, and physically. For up to 2 yrs after the surgery I noticed changes. For the 1st yr & a half I felt like I was walking like a ballerina, not on the balls of my feet but almost like tip toening. My stomach stuck out alot. I also noticed how gravity had affected my breasts...........they went way south. Being bent in half your breats just hang down & it was not until I was straight again could I see what age had done. Now if I had not been bent over I would have noticed it gradually like most women. It was sure a big shock.I think there are like milestones after this surgery. Many times after I had thought I am finally back, I would notice yet another improvement. I am posting this so hopefully all the people who have yet to have the Revision will be more prepared than I was.Diane B .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2008 Report Share Posted January 18, 2008 Dearest Pat, I am so glad you are considering having this surgery. I am also very glad your hubby is being so supportive. You know how bad off I was when I decided to have the Revision. I knew that without it I would have been be in a wheelchair for the rest of my life. Before the surgery my life had become confined to the walls of my house. Going anywhere was not even an option anymore. I know I was like absent for a yr after, but that wouldn't have happened just from the surgery. You know that was from being cold turkeyed off alot of medication & having seizures cuz of it. The seizures totally wiped out my memory. I even forgot I had AA & thats a hard thing to forget! Noone can tell you whether to have the Revision or not. I was 58 when I had it, but as I've told you I thank God everyday I went through with it. I am happy you joined the group. Everyone here understands exactely what people with Flatback are going through. There are so many of us now that have had the Revision & the knowledge we gain from each other is invaluable. I am praying hard that Dr LaGarrone will operate. I truly don't think you'll ever regret it. Of course there are risks, but life with Flatback is too hard to contemplate if there is a chance surgery will help. Please keep me posted. Love, Diane > > Diane, I can remember the hell you were in and we shared so many like stories of being bent over. At the time of your surgery I couldn't imagine anyone willing to have such a radical surgery. Then I lost you for over a year and prayed you made it thru. When I finally heard how much better you are, I told my husband that maybe I should think of finding a doctor that would do the surgery on me. He was against it, but now that a couple more years have gone by and he sees me getting worse and more bent over, he has reconsidered. A couple days ago, he mentioned how he stood watching me sleep (when I finally slept in our bed one night) and I was curled up in the fetal position. Now he said, what ever it takes, he is behind me and will do what ever he needs to do to get me help. So now we are talking about maybe finding a cheap apartment in Amarillo if Dr. LaGrone takes me. Unlike you, I have had only one surgery on my back, so maybe that will be a plus. > I can't thank you enough for suggesting I join this group and giving me some hope, which I haven't had in a very long time. > Pat E. > > -------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------ > > -------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------ > > From: Diane B. > > > I just read 's post and I wanted to add my opinion. is so > right, this surgery is not like ANY other surgeries. I have had 13 > major surgeries in my life. Besides a Tonsilectomy & Appendectomy in > my childhood, I have had 7 other back surgeries, Open Heart surgery, > and Abdominal surgery, NONE prepared me for the Spinal Revision. I > am finding it hard putting my experience into words. There is so > much more to it than just the actual operation. I had no clue to > what walking around bent in half for 5 yrs & then becoming straight > in one day would do to my body or my psyche. I guess I should have > thought about this, but I was so afraid of having yet another > surgery on my back, plus worried it wouldn't help. The last 4 > surgeries I had on my back, were no help at all. All I know is I > never thought of these things before. I really had to learn to walk > all over again. My legs hurt me so much after the surgery. If the > back of my knees touched the bed I would get like electric shocks > going through me. I can only think it was from my knees being bent > for 5 yrs. The muscles, tendons & ligaments in my legs really > reacted, they had to stretch all out again & this took a long time. > This surgery is a hugh adjustment mentally, emotionally, and > physically. For up to 2 yrs after the surgery I noticed changes. > For the 1st yr & a half I felt like I was walking like a ballerina, > not on the balls of my feet but almost like tip toening. My stomach > stuck out alot. I also noticed how gravity had affected my > breasts...........they went way south. Being bent in half your > breats just hang down & it was not until I was straight again could I > see what age had done. Now if I had not been bent over I would have > noticed it gradually like most women. It was sure a big shock. > I think there are like milestones after this surgery. Many times > after I had thought I am finally back, I would notice yet another > improvement. I am posting this so hopefully all the people who have > yet to have the Revision will be more prepared than I was. > Diane B > > . > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2008 Report Share Posted January 18, 2008 DianeB, Your experience of continued changes and improvements is one that so many of us have found to be true. I have my 3rd year anniversary in a few weeks and I still feel that every so often I realize I am still getting a little more stretch out of my hamstrings...which have been my biggest challenge post revision. I also think you are right that the mental part of getting this new body takes awhile to adjust to and then for it to feel like " home " ...natural. The expereinces of everyone on this road together is what keeps me interested in the subject. I like learning that there are new challenges, surprises and feelings about this fused up body I have. It helps to know that others have similar experiences and that helps validate that I am not " malingering " by continuing to refuse to do certain things that I know will compromise my physical self. For instance, I will not vacuum. I know it ticks my husband off....but I always feel it in the ligaments down low in the spine pelvis connection and I know its asking my already challenged body to do more than it should. The dust kitties are for him or the cleaning lady. I refuse to get my panties in a twist over that kind of stuff anymore. You are so right to want to help those facing revison to understand how long the timeline is recovering from this surgery...and maybe you have captured well the essence that we think we are just going to recover from the surgery, but in reality we are recovering from years of changes our bodies had to undergo to stay as mobile and upright as possible. And then there is the mental part of recovering from realizing that what you went through as a teen, which was traumatic enough, has reared its head again with even more dramatic consequences. The surgeon prepares you for the surgery....but that is only a part of recovery. That is why I am always so ambivelent answering people questions about how long until they are " recovered " . I hate for people to be too scared to consider having the surgery but I don't want people to think its a 3-4 month timeline for recovery either. Folks that expect that alwys seem to come down very hard. They push themselves too much and are very upset when they are not back to themselves in weeks or months. I think the doctors pretty much feel the same way....and thats why they are so vague answering this question. Anyway, time does indeed bring changes...and for the most part with this surgery that has been a good thing for me. I am so glad to hear of your continued improvement...and hey...happy 2 year anniversary! Take Care, Cam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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