Re: Successful Surgery CD - bringing family to appts

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I brought my 21 & 19 yr old sons with hubby and me for my pre-surg

workup (question & answer part). For the week or two before the appt,

both waivered about whether they wanted to come along. I let them

choose, but told them that I really wanted them to understand what will

happen and why it's important.

They haven't said a word about it since, but now I'm confident that

they're as ready as anyone can be.

I really recommend that CD, Pat. Cam's right. It isn't for anyone

except you... positive immagery and good thoughts to help your

confidence and calm.

I've listened several times, and most times have fallen asleep before

it's done.

Best wishes, Pat.

Jeri

>

> Pat,

>

> You should get the CD...but for yourself. It is really more of

> a " positive imagery " training and relaxation or meditation while you

> are approaching surgery.

>

> The only thing that I can think of that would get your family to see

> your rationale about considering more surgery would be to bring one

(or

> several) of them with you to any appts you can schedule, and let them

> hear and partake in the risk/benefit discussion for themselves.

>

> Still, it's your body and your life.

>

> Take Care, Cam

>