RE: [CR] Censorship at

[Guest guest]

Hello CR ALL,

Every time I get upset, I realize where the fault lies.

It's in me! My experiences are OK with the " Support List " .

Let's lighten up a little bit! If I complain, then who

wants me to stay around? If I gripe about them, then about

whom will I complain next? Who wants me for a friend,

if I am going to be a fault-finder?

Actually, it is easy to enjoy the Support List. The Leaders

work their hardest to maintain a friendly and cordial

atmosphere. So I do not complain. People can be fair

and open-minded, so I wouldn't be surprised at all to see

Support Leaders come to Conference 2003 -- because they are

much more tolerant and more caring then many people give

them fair credit for.

And you know what, I will hug them there just as hard as

everyone else, and maybe harder, to recognize that they are

really special!

There may be some infrequent list editing -- but not often.

Some posts are rejected outright sometimes. But the cause

for rejection is normally very clearly laid out. Polite

explanations are attempted. The effort to make such

explanations shows a diplomatic touch in handling

administration in the best way within time constraints.

So explanations are generally clear, and they are simple

and straight forward. That shows an honest and sincere

approach to problem solving.

So let us be thankful. We should feel a proper obligation to

have a positive, supportive mindset for every group that

is involved with CR. Friendship goes out to all in the CR

movement. We should respect and protect each other.

Furthermore, it takes a whole lot of sincere effort to do

the type of active monitoring that is being performed on

the Support List. If this vast amount of time and effort to

monitor a list in detail is invested, then why can't everyone

respect that attentiveness? It really is hard work.

Who appreciates it and recognizes it?

I can pay a complement, because of the special attention that

I have received personally, which others testify to also.

Here we see that a gigantic effort is made. Somebody has to

say " thank you " , and recognize that all points of view

and all people's feelings deserve respect. Respect is

a fundamental principle of happy human relations. Let's

remember to protect and shelter one another. We must try

to respect others all the time. We really have no other

workable alternative that protects individual dignity

and avoids trespass and trampling on others.

It appears that there has been traumatization, and some of

it has been repeated. This can not be denied. After such

events, it can be difficult to reconcile or heal the wounds.

This type of injury happens in marriages, churches, clubs,

and in all types of social groups. A traumatized relationship

that has gone sour does not mean people don't love each other still.

They love in different ways, that will never be comprehensible

to others, unless they have suffered such deep personal wounds

themselves.

So here is some counsel: Speak kind words of all. If you

can not find kind words, then search for and look for

the good in others. Then your heart will be filled with

so many kind words, that you can not live long enough

to express them all.

-- Warren

[Guest guest]

From: " Warren " <warren.taylor@e...>

Date: Tue Apr 22, 2003 10:02 pm

Subject: RE: [CR] Censorship at

Hello CR ALL,

Every time I get upset, I realize

where the fault lies.

It's in me! My experiences are OK with

the " Support List " .

Hi All,

Try out http://www.macromedia.com/software/flash/about/ = Pathways to peace.

Cheers, Al.

Alan Pater, Ph.D.; Faculty of Medicine; Memorial University; St. 's, NL

A1B 3V6 Canada; Tel. No.: (709) 777-6488; Fax No.: (709) 777-7010; email:

apater@...