Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 > How did you conquer the fear of death? I doubt anyone does, but there are any number of ways of displacing it or buffering against it. I'd say find the healthiest worldview that you can and invest yourself in that, but beware of how closely you hold to it -- people can get very nasty when they encounter a challenge to their belief systems. From a TMT perspective (let me know if you're actually interested & I can post article references on or off list), reminders of mortality promote a unique increase in derogation of perceive difference, increased liking for perceived sameness, and worldview defence (one's 'brand' of CRON to many who get too serious, IMHO). Self-esteem plays a role too, and apparently acts as a buffer against mortality salience, but in an Israeli study (not sure if it has been duplicated yet), reminders of mortality prompted young male subjects to pursue a self-esteem boost through reckless driving on a simulator... The symbolic defence against death can, therefore, actually displace the defence against death itself, and that would be profoundly unhealthy in many situations. Cheers, ________________________ Gifford 3-5 Humanities Centre Department of English University of Alberta www.ualberta.ca/~gifford Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2004 Report Share Posted January 8, 2004 Please post article references , if you can and it isn't too much trouble. I, for one, am keenly interested and I imagine others are too. on 1/7/2004 6:53 PM, Gifford at gifford@... wrote: > From a TMT perspective (let me know if you're actually interested & I can > post article references on or off list), reminders of mortality promote a > unique increase in derogation of perceive difference, increased liking for > perceived sameness, and worldview defence (one's 'brand' of CRON to many who > get too serious, IMHO). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2004 Report Share Posted January 8, 2004 --- In , " Gifford " <gifford@u...> wrote: > > How did you conquer the fear of death? > > I doubt anyone does, but there are any number of ways of displacing > it or buffering against it. I'd say find the healthiest worldview > that you can and invest yourself in that, but beware of how closely > you hold to it -- people can get very nasty when they encounter a > challenge to their belief systems. *****Oh yes, most of the wars that have been fought have not been over food or resources (certainly there are those too); most of them have been over belief systems and faulty thinking. Your other point, ... While the fear of death may never be conquered, in many ancient - as well as modern - meditation and spiritual traditions & practices, the fear may be seen for what it is: a mental construct, another belief system, actually. Just one that is very widely ascribed to, giving it much more " legitimacy. " The fear is tied up with the sense of self, the belief in a persistent, ongoing " me " which is the object that is believed to " die. " See, we really aren't afraid of death. We have *no* idea what death is. What we are afraid of are the THOUGHTS of death. We've got LOTS of ideas about that! If that notion is seen through, then it is realized that the only thing that dies is thought. The body is actually immortal. It changes form, like ice to water to steam to rain, but it never ends, merely exchanging one container for another. But the *thought* of 'me' ... the ending of *that* is where the fear of death arises. In the absence of that thought, there is no fear, no imagining a future without a " me. " All that exists for one expressing this understanding is the eternal moment of " now, " repeatedly infinitely. And one may get a glimpse of the 'death of me' every night, as I said in post earlier today. In deep sleep, there is no " me. " For me, chasing dreams or simply in a dreamless state, there is no world, no existence, no sense of self. I am temporarily put on " hold " for six or (if I'm fortunate) eight hours. Bedding down, there is a feeling of assurance that I will " return " to myself upon awakening. But that is not a guarantee. It is, like much else in this life, simply a belief. As sleep overcomes me, I have no idea at all whether I will return. And yet, there is never fear about that possibility. On the other hand, an insomniac is just one who recognizes more acutely the possibility of not returning! Hahaha!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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