Guest guest Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Don,Hi, I hope you are feeling okay. I woke up with a bad headache, maybe from going off of my paranoia meds, lol I am sorry about Gloria, I had the same thing in a different situation. Hateful people. I notice that a lot of us have similar stories. Did you notice that too? I am having the worst time with the son that was told he had hep c. He keeps fighting with me and he has so much anger, I am afraid of him. I might have to have him leave the house. He is scaring me sometimes. I had that anger when I was young and I was a real scary person. I see the same in him. I would attack people, but I am a woman, he is a 6'4 man. He might go live with my mother. He is screaming that I am a drug addict, that I'm a crazy person, in front of people, I don't know how much more I can tolerate from him. His anger is through the roof. My husband came over and them two got into a fight. It almost came to blows again, my son is going up in his face, he is a big guy too 6'5. Last fight my son was on top of him. My husband said he won't hit him because if he does he will knock all his teeth out and he doesn't want that. I know my husband will too, he has the hands the size of baseball gloves, he's an ex boxer. My son is so full of rage I just don't know what I am going to do honestly. I have a feeling the police will have to come and walk him out of here. It's so sad, the counselor told me my son has the highest SATs in the school and that she has ever seen coming out of that school. He is a genious and wants to become an addict I can tell. He drinks, he doesn't even care about the hep c. I am thinking I might have to have him sectioned, but I wanted him to graduate. If I section him, he won't get the diploma, he is still going to school and has applied to a few state colleges, but I don't know if he will last til May or June. He can be nice and then he can be nuts, maybe he is bipolar, I don't know. I thought I was, I'm up and down too, but they say Im not?? who knows. I am not sure if the rage is just me or he is nice to other people. If the rage is to me that's okay, i would rather that than a crazy person running the streets fist fighting the neighborhood. I had reasons to be crazy I lived with crazies all my life. I treat people the way they treat me. If he is rude to me then I am rude to him. It drives him crazy. He is the rudest person I have ever met to his mother. He treats me like I am his slave. Do my laundry, make me a bowl of cereal, poor me a glass of milk. Iron my clothes, give me money and keys to a car. Shut up, take me shopping, what does this sound like to ours I wonder???thankssharonFrom: Christ <ludichrist2000@...>WebWarriors grp < >Sent: Thu, January 6, 2011 9:08:56 PMSubject: [ ] What a day Hi Everybody What a day, huh? Im sorry for those of you who are suffering. I wish I could help those of you who hurt. I would push all the bad away if I could. Please try to stand strong, and find a happy place in your mind and heart. I am blasting each of you with all my love, fast healing, strength, calmness, and tons of good energy. I love you all, and I am here for each of you. love don in ks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Hi Sharon I was just like your son growing up. Too smart for my own good [still am], turning to drugs because it seemed to me that there was no one who understood me and what I was going thru, and people seemingly blocking me from the paths I wanted to go down [music]. I saw my parents fighting all the time, and anger became the normal outlet for me, sometimes even violence. - Lots of anger and confusion and frustration. It could be a lot of teens feel this way. It could be a lot of parents feel like you do too. I would suggest that your son begin to get therapy - someone to talk to, so he can voice stuff, and get rational constructive feedback.....tools. You and his dad have way to much on your plates to fill this role, and your both in the middle, so it probably should be someone professional. When reading your posts some things come to mind - 1 - You have spoiled your son, and now he expects stuff on a silver platter. He needs his own place, a job, and his own life. He needs to make his own way, and reap the rewards of his own labors. 2 - Fighting with your EX is not setting a good example, and your younger kids will soon start to show the same behavior problems if you dont put a stop to it. They probably already are. 3 - All this upset is going to take its toll on your health, and the health of everyone around you. Then when you get sick - you are useless to help yourself or anyone else. 4 - Love is not lacking in you alls life, but communication is. I have always said - 'no communication, no relationship'. Sharon, Im speaking streight to you, no BS. This situation is serious, and theres no room now for headgames. You are the adult - you have to take charge, and make the changes. The law can do it for you, but I promise, you dont want to go that path. Get on the phone and start talking to people. YOU personally - go see a therapist for your own good. You might join a group of other parents who have children, to find some answers. I was lucky in a way - I never had to raise my own kids. I never lasted long enough in a relationship to even learn how to talk with other people. The un-lucky for me is that now I have to learn these things when Im old, and its a lot lot harder. I seem to offend folks when I least expect it. My heart is in the right place, but my skills are lacking. Sharon, get on the phone, and start talking to everyone you can.....NOW, today. Family, friends, neighbors, agencys, everyone. Hold nothing back because when you seek answers, you have to supply facts to get them. Shame, fear, pride, and all the other BS games go out the window. Your health, and the wellbeing of your loved ones come first. Do you understand? love don in ks From: Sharon Mcdonald <sharonmcdonald95@...>Subject: Re: [ ]Don Hi - sharon Date: Friday, January 7, 2011, 7:47 AM Don, Hi, I hope you are feeling okay. I woke up with a bad headache, maybe from going off of my paranoia meds, lol I am sorry about Gloria, I had the same thing in a different situation. Hateful people. I notice that a lot of us have similar stories. Did you notice that too? I am having the worst time with the son that was told he had hep c. He keeps fighting with me and he has so much anger, I am afraid of him. I might have to have him leave the house. He is scaring me sometimes. I had that anger when I was young and I was a real scary person. I see the same in him. I would attack people, but I am a woman, he is a 6'4 man. He might go live with my mother. He is screaming that I am a drug addict, that I'm a crazy person, in front of people, I don't know how much more I can tolerate from him. His anger is through the roof. My husband came over and them two got into a fight. It almost came to blows again, my son is going up in his face, he is a big guy too 6'5. Last fight my son was on top of him. My husband said he won't hit him because if he does he will knock all his teeth out and he doesn't want that. I know my husband will too, he has the hands the size of baseball gloves, he's an ex boxer. My son is so full of rage I just don't know what I am going to do honestly. I have a feeling the police will have to come and walk him out of here. It's so sad, the counselor told me my son has the highest SATs in the school and that she has ever seen coming out of that school. He is a genious and wants to become an addict I can tell. He drinks, he doesn't even care about the hep c. I am thinking I might have to have him sectioned, but I wanted him to graduate. If I section him, he won't get the diploma, he is still going to school and has applied to a few state colleges, but I don't know if he will last til May or June. He can be nice and then he can be nuts, maybe he is bipolar, I don't know. I thought I was, I'm up and down too, but they say Im not?? who knows. I am not sure if the rage is just me or he is nice to other people. If the rage is to me that's okay, i would rather that than a crazy person running the streets fist fighting the neighborhood. I had reasons to be crazy I lived with crazies all my life. I treat people the way they treat me. If he is rude to me then I am rude to him. It drives him crazy. He is the rudest person I have ever met to his mother. He treats me like I am his slave. Do my laundry, make me a bowl of cereal, poor me a glass of milk. Iron my clothes, give me money and keys to a car. Shut up, take me shopping, what does this sound like to ours I wonder??? thanks sharon From: Christ <ludichrist2000@...>WebWarriors grp < >Sent: Thu, January 6, 2011 9:08:56 PMSubject: [ ] What a day Hi Everybody What a day, huh? Im sorry for those of you who are suffering. I wish I could help those of you who hurt. I would push all the bad away if I could. Please try to stand strong, and find a happy place in your mind and heart. I am blasting each of you with all my love, fast healing, strength, calmness, and tons of good energy. I love you all, and I am here for each of you. love don in ks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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