Re: Venting about Son with Hep c and Hub with OCD

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I need some HELP,I think my husband is going to break out. He went off his meds and is OCD. He picks and picks his head, face to the point I have to throw him out I can't stand watching it. It's so annoying. He ignors you because he just picks scabs off of his head all day and all night. I told him he better get on meds. I also told him (tonite) that I didn't want him coming over here anymore. I noticed that everytime he comes over, it's like a trigger to me. I go into a rage and we start screaming so bad it almost comes to blows. Now my son is abusing me. He tells me I am the worst mother in the world. I didn't stop him from smoking weed,

I tried, but he is a lier, I can't control him, he has an explosive personality where he screams like me and the husband do. He uses me. He drives a car with no license, just takes the keys I tell him no. I don't have any fight in me anymore. I asked him to leave he won't. He won't do his laundry, it down 3 flights. He has to have his clothes washed every day about 3 loads because of all the smoke on his clothes. He won't walk to school he wants me to drive him, it's in walking distance about 14 walk. I have a 10 yo i would have to take out of bed to drive him. So he said if I don't drive him he will take the car. He is abusing me so bad, I am going to have him removed from my house. He tells me I ruined his life and that I am crazy and I said yea i am crazy so what. I went to college, owned tons of property, paid for your private school, bought you thousands of dollars in clothes and

electronics and I am a shitty mom. Bought you a BMW, that he does not have anymore, I have it. I bought it for his graduation but he left the private school to grad so he can do nothing. I made him apply to a state college the other colleges were too late. He had the highest SATs in the school the counselor told me. Imagine, and I am a bad mother, while the father took off and stole everything I own. Okay, now what would you do. I am done, I am having him removed tomorrow either by force or by family either or. I am being abused no more by anyone. I am okay, but I can't take much more abuse from this child, it's such a sad case but no more for me I will be in the hospital soon. I have to stay healthy for my other two children who are sweethearts and treat me respectfully. I don't know what happen to him i don't it's so sad. He is the smartest kid but yet going down the tubes. This

behavior was even before he found out he had hep C. Sorry I sound so desparate. But the fight we just had he puts his fist up in the air like he's gonna start swinging, the kid is 6'4 I don't need to fight him, sorry.sharonFrom: Sharon Mcdonald <sharonmcdonald95@...> Sent: Thu, January 6, 2011 8:02:16 PMSubject: Re: [ ] Smoking - don's 2

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Beth,LMAO, You should have lit one up on your 8 hr break in front of him. At that point, I probably would have stuck two smokes in my mouth. I can't stand sickies like that. They must have been on the pacifier til they were 13 yo. he, he, Ironic Smokie Mountains, lol I have a girlfriend that was my bff when I was younger but she got into this health kick thingy where she would watch to see if I ordered caffeine or non-caffeinated coffee. It's a control thing I think with her. Well, we don't really see each other any more. I will drink caffeinated coffee if I want, that's my business. She was all over me with what I was eating etc. No one liked her or could stand being around her and she just didn't get it.

Imagine, she would look at what I was ordering telling me not to get caffeinated coffee, hello. All I want is the caffeine honey, and a vallium when you turn your head so I can be with you for another hour, lol When your ready you will, if not, you won't. No one could ever tell me what to do. I am off the wellbutrim i am hoping I don't go back. We'll see, I still don't have an urge. I had to tell people to make sure they didn't tell her I smoked cigs. Imagine, grown woman, hello, I went on wellbutrim for depression but it stopped my smoking. huhToo funny BethFrom: Beth Frey <bethfrey42301@...> Sent: Thu, January 6, 2011 7:17:24 PMSubject: Re: [ ] Smoking - don's 2 cents

Yep know what you mean, I dated a guy for 8 yrs. He quit smoking and was always nagging me in fact the last straw of our relationship was when we went to the smokie moutains. hiked for 8 hrs and then the grand fianle the clingmans dome. The brochure gave warnigs due to the altitued and to take breaks. Well about half way up I had to sit down and catch my breath. He started in with the smoking was why I had to sit down. then I poped off about it being the reason why he wanted to do the hike was to prove a point on why I needed to quit smoking. Come on I was a trooper hiked for 8 hrs. I took a break and sat on a bench provided by the park to rest. It was his way of trying to make a point to me on how I needed to quit smoking. Needless to say I puffed all the way home 4 hrs later and a pack shorter.

FYI,

I quit smoking September 14th I was on Wellbutrin. Never got the urge again to smoke. Try it. My husband smoked for 35 years and quit it's been almost 3 years he went on Chantix. The stuff works if you take it as directed. I quit before for 10 years on my own. I wasn't a big smoker. But when I was popping perks I wanted to smoke that's why I started again, when I herniated my back they gave me percosets. Hmmmm, it is strange because my husband now found that spot on his lung that they have to look into. He said he thinks because he stopped smoking it unearthed something on the lung?? I think subconsciously, your body is telling you to stop because their is something wrong? My take. Because when people stop they find a problem. But they can't figure out why?

sharon

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